- Hey, what's up?
It's me, Jessica J.
And I was just wondering if you've ever sat
and thought to yourself,
"Hey Jessica, why do women always come back?"
Well if so, I'm glad you asked
and I know I've done this video before,
but women will never fucking tell you this.
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Okay, so like I said, I've done this video before.
You know, a lot of the times I do give y'all a glimmer
of hope because I don't want you to feel like shit,
women make you feel like shit enough.
I wanna make sure you don't feel like shit from this woman.
But you know, I'm also not gonna sugar coat things
when they don't need to be sugar coated.
So there's three reasons that you absolutely
will not fucking like.
Probably the top reasons women come back to you.
But knowing these reasons it'll help make you
make a more informed decision
on whether you're okay with her being back in your life.
Now the first one is that,
there's no one better than you for now.
The caveat to this is that she thought
she has somebody better than you
waiting on the sidelines for her,
but come to find out either he fuck is sucks worse than you
or he didn't want her.
So now here you are.
Yay!
There's something that happens in our primal, I don't know,
maybe it's after we get our period where we think like,
"Oh no, seek shelter, 'cause we could get pregnant."
I don't know what it is, almost all my girlfriends
have a complete inability to be single.
And they think being single
means still their fucking their ex
while trying to find some other dude to latch onto.
And then they latch onto this other dude.
And then finally let go of this guy.
I'm not gonna lie, I've been guilty of it.
I've gone back to an ex after the dude, I left him for
it didn't work out.
And he was like, "Did it did no work out with him?"
I was like, "What are you talking about?"
And he was fucking right, it didn't.
I was also a 20-year-old in college at the time.
But still this sometime,
this is what women do when we come back to you
after sometime.
So you have to decide if you're okay with her
settling for you 'cause nobody better is out there
or will have her.
Number two, the reason she's back
is 'cause you are a sure thing.
Maybe she knows she can always count on you to be there
if she needs something, I mean someone.
Because you don't know how to stand up to her.
You don't know how to say no.
You don't know how to not be there for her.
"But Jessica, I have to show her that I'm here for her."
So no matter what she does to you,
maybe she's cheated on you, lied to you,
left you for some other fucking dude,
time and time again and she comes back 'cause she knows,
you're always gonna say yes to her.
Again, you just have to decide how you feel
about being a fucking doormat
and getting stomped on all the time.
When she's on her way out
to get fucking railed by other dudes
and on her way back
having had all that cum dumped up in her.
Number three, I actually already alluded to it,
is you won't stand up to her.
This goes in line with you always being there for her.
Maybe she's treated you like shit.
Maybe she's embarrassed you,
taken your dignity, taken everything.
And for some fucking reason, you're like,
"Oh well, if she sees that I stick through it,
she'll see I'm a good guy and eventually love me back."
So no, you've never told her
that you weren't okay with how you were treated.
You've never left her.
You've never stood up to her or had a spine with her.
And she really likes that.
Again, a lot of these times these women have these fantasies
of what it's like to not be with you,
to be out there with other men.
All the other men we see on Instagram
and on Netflix and shit.
Like, "Oh my God I can have a guy like that?"
And then they out there
and that just ain't the fucking truth.
These guys won't put up with her shit.
They're ghosting her.
They're flaking on her.
So she says, okay who's that guy who was like,
"Oh my God he was so good to me."
It was you.
So again, the doormat,
stomping in, stomping out, stomping in, stomping out,
there you are, lucky her.
I think about this guy all the time.
I did and such a nice fucking dude who stood up to me.
when I was in college,
I like, I slapped this dude in the face.
I was a psycho back then.
He caught me cheating on him and yet no matter what I did,
he was always there with open arms.
And I was like, "Oh shit, he's still here, okay."
And in my head I said to myself,
"Well if he's not gonna fucking stick up for himself,
why shouldn't?"
I still reap the rewards of what I get for of him.
Fuck you guys, I was like 15 years ago.
I'm a much different person then.
But that's how women think,
when y'all sit there and pride yourselves
on taking her shit.
If you're gonna take my shit,
I'm gonna give you my shit.
And then give my flowers and blossoms and booty
to some other guy.
So guys I, yeah, this,
I feel like shit having done this video.
I always feel like shit talking about
the shitty things I've done to men.
But the reality is, women are never
gonna give you something
just because you gave them something.
So if she's not giving you what you are giving her,
the love, adoration, the forgiveness,
the respect, the time, the attention.
If you're not getting all that back
giving more of it is not gonna fix things.
So if she's back this time around, (laughs)
you better ask yourself what makes her any different?
What about you is gonna be any different?
And what about your situation together
is gonna be any different?
I'm telling you, I get way too many clients in
giving me the same sob story about like,
"Oh, I was so good to her, she treated me like shit."
Oh poor you, you poor thing,
who just gave and gave and gave and got shot on
and just kept giving expecting to get something different.
All right, I realize I'm being a real fucking
class-A bitch right now, I apologize for that.
And if you know, you wanna turn things around for yourself,
once and for all, to be the guy she chases after,
to be the guy that she desperately hangs on to
or even leaves these chunks for.
Don't forget to sign up for my free master class
where I go over, exactly how to go from that shift
of being super nice guy,
putting her on the pedestal,
to prime time, premium presence guy,
who's on the pedestal himself.
Again, it's right over here.
It's a free master class.
Not much sure how I'm gonna keep it available for free
but so make sure you check it out now, if you haven't yet.
And please really assess your own responsibility
in you being treated the way you are
because you don't deserve to be treated like shit.
If you feel like shit in your relations with women.
If you made it this far,
thank you for watching and not turning this off
because you hate me so much
and I'll see you guys next time.
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