Uncle C, back in the office and in this video, I'm going to go very deep and in depth to
truly explain why at times I disagree with some of the red pill ideologies and concepts.
Now keep in mind, this is coming from a guy who has built a business to teach men how
to actually master their dating game and female nature. This is coming from a guy who's worked
with over 5000 students in my courses and products. And this is actually coming from
a guy who has spun plates had an s3 actual life of abundance, and have also had an ltr
for two and a half going on three years. Okay, not only have I worked with married men, single
guys, everything in between. I've seen every single aspects of this and I'm about to really
diagnose the differences between practicality and usage, versus concepts and ideas that
may just be enforced by a society or, you know, modern day dating in order to get ahead
to, you know, contradict or combat some of these mating strategies by women. Okay, keep
in mind, I have used red pill practice ologies to my advantage throughout any time in dating,
however, what you have to understand is that there are certain points, that if you get
this too rigid, if you get this too confused, if you become this to a full extent, it can
actually lower the quality of your life in certain ways. And that's why today I jotted
down the exact five reasons why I think it's good for guys to be aware of this. But there's
certain instances when it comes to real life application that I'm going to be showing you
through my own personal take my own actual being out in the field with women. For years
and years and years by actually practicing gaming, this is coming from a guy who struggled
with gaming struggled with women in the beginning. Okay, number one. Frame is great for attraction,
but this may totally kill arousal and game. Okay, what is masculine frame, and when should
you be using this masculine frame is great when you've already established rapport with
a woman or you have already engaged in some sort of s3, actual intimacy. Okay, this is
where your masculine frame actually has a chance to come out, and it has a chance to
show because the times a man is going to be using frame ultimately, is going to be when
he has already paired up with that woman or some sort of relationship is established in
the process. This is when he starts to get tested. Or this is when he starts to get pushed
and pulled a little bit and he has to set the guidelines and the pillars. If this woman
would want to stay within his frame. This is very great because it shows you're the
boss, okay, you're the stud. Right? I talked with authority. I am the man I'm the leader.
This is how you're going to carry yourself throughout the relationship. However, man,
this totally kills. arousal this kills game. This kills flirtation
when you first meet a woman. When you first meet a woman you have to touch her emotionally
the correct way. You have to stimulate her emotions, you have to almost quote unquote,
break frame. And if you're stuck stuck in this stuck up like, I have to be so masculine,
I can't have fun. I can't smile. I mean men. You know, for example, my nose itches. For
example, you know, I was at a country fest to country music festival a couple weekends
ago. And every single song Yeah, it's quote unquote blue pill. Yeah, it's pedestal icing.
But you know what, at the end of the day, you got to be the guy that can smile buy into
that for the time being grab the girl and dance with her like she's your only one right
then in there. If you want to make that connection, you have to you have to play the game. And
if you're so focused on red pill ideologies, what's going to happen is that's going to
kill your arousal. Yes, you have to smirk. You have to smile You have to push pull, tease,
add sarcasm, maybe even sometimes say the cheesy or things that you necessarily wouldn't
say, okay, but you have to get her to feel as if this is true, this is genuine. And you
got to understand, she has no idea what you know, she has no idea that you're familiar
in the red pill, okay, she she has lived a life just like you, which means she has her
own blue pill concepts, and she has her own concepts of love that she probably can't even
explain, which is why to her the way she has been raised from probably ages one to ages
25 you know, you have to play the game, you have to appear normal, and you can use these
concepts to your advantage. But to fully reinvent, reinvent and recreate yourself, man, this
can really hinder you. When 99% of the population doesn't know or even care about a lot of these
concepts frame is great for maintaining your relationship. However frame can actually hinder
your ability to meet women and have a great social life of abundance and that's for damn
sure. Number two, a man can have both survival and replication value. Think about this for
a second. There's a lot of men who they don't like to provide for a woman or they don't
want to show that they have provisioning capabilities. And why is this they don't want to get flagged
as a beta. She sees me as a beta she sees I have survival value, I'm screwed, I'm focused
all about the replication value is what majority of red pill men are doing. This is why they're
hitting the gym. This is why they're trying to build this ideal masculine persona and
physique. And yet, it might be great for getting laid. But guess what? You can have both. You
can have both survival and replication value, in no way, shape or form, can you? Is there
any reason or excuse why you can't have game and can't level up your looks by being in
the gym and can't dial in your diet and can actually have a successful career for yourself
and kind of be the jack of all trades. This is why my entire YouTube channel I've called
this the full stack one percenter, because only 1% of men can truly do both. But the
fact is that it can be done. And since it can be done, I don't really think that you
should sell yourself short within relationships, when in actuality, yeah, you can be that guy
who's great at game, you can do both. You can also be the guy though, who she sees stability
and potential, you know, pairing with and a potential father for children one day, and
two, what I found is that's only going to help your success with other women in your
social circle. And that's only going to help your success when it comes to your geographical
location and meeting women like if you have if you're, if you're known to be the man that
women want to see and meet and wouldn't mind hooking up with or sleeping with, you have
that arousal capability. But she also sees these long term potential traits with you
doesn't mean you have to give them to her, but there's no reason why you can't have both.
Which brings me to my next point, I use point number two as a direct lever to pull you to
point number three. Ideally, yes, hypergamy would like to be optimized by the same man.
So cool, do the work. We have so many men who have sold themselves short, they say all
you know, I'm great at provisioning or she's gonna see me as the provider type. And the
alpha Chad's and the alpha Tyrone's and the alpha Franks and Brad's right, these jacked
up studs, they're just going to get her s3 actual best regardless. So I'm screwed bowl
bullshit, do the work. Maybe you're on the opposite end of the spectrum, I've met thoroughbred
alphas who are six foot five and jacked and these are some of my one to one clients even
and their goal is to get married, cool, then you're going to have to have more survival
value than your quote unquote replication value. If hypergamy would like to be optimized,
and you know this, instead of thinking you have to categorize yourself as one or the
other. Why not just become both? Why not do the work? Cool, man, now that you have this
concept, and you have this idea, why not do the work?
Because you can, so you might as well, because guess what? Chances are if you are the guy
who is doing the work, she is not going to want to pull back or stray because usually
there is no better options. The drunk guy at the bar may be hot for her to talk to.
But guess what, if you've done the work and you're brush up on game, you can interject
that sarcasm, you can interject that flirting capability, there's not a chance in hell,
she's going to want to leave or either go exercise those options, because her hypergamy
is being met. Not only should you do this, so you can master the dating game. But fellas,
you're going to have to do this for yourself. Like you should want to have the three. The
Big Three dialed in health, wealth and well being okay health and wealth is going to dig
deep into competency. well being is going to dive deep into your social calibration
and your game. If you have all three of those mastered you have essentially became the ideal
masculine to her. I think there's a bit of pessimism, consistently thinking that a lot
of times you're going to get dumped, heartbroken or cheated on. And that there's always that
alpha F's bigger side of hypergamy, that will end up taking over. Not only that, if you
take a look at point number four, you don't have to pick one or the other. Okay, the majority
of these creators who you're listening to oftentimes are married or have been burned
in past long term relationships, if they are married or have been married, that should
tell you that a lot of times they are so gravitated, gravitating towards some sort of companionship,
or something more stable than just swapping out bodies and having s3 acts. Okay. In order
for my concepts to work for you, you have to come to the terms that humans have a higher
level of intellect than animals than just dogs or cats. And that brings me to point
number five. Yes, a man's innate mating strategy may be the unlimited access to multiple options
and multiple companions. But just because spinning plates is practical, doesn't mean
that you have to be a slave to your pleasures. If I wanted to, if I wanted to be a savage,
okay, if I will, if I lowered my intellect, yeah, I'd be screwing whatever walks whatever
I could get. And not only that, I'd probably be out doing whatever I want with no moral
repercussions. A guy could be out in anybody could be out doing it. Anything breaking the
law doing doing crazy stuff, but we don't. And we don't because there's something in
us that tells us not to, which is why spinning plates may work and be practical to your biology.
But what you have to remember is that doesn't necessarily make it a good excuse to be a
slave to your pleasures, what you're consistently going to see with this form of either a content
creators, or be quote unquote, coaches and consultants is you're going to see oftentimes
a lot of men who are just complete slaves to s3, x. And they're essentially judging
their worth by their body count. What I think is really great is if you're a guy who can
do that, but you also see the bigger scope and the bigger picture. And a lot of times
these concepts and tools to master don't even take that long, you just have to be willing
to do the work. And I think that that's really what separates a lot of guys. So it was this
title a bit click Beatty. Yeah, Yeah, probably. Okay, has the red pill probably helped everybody
wake up and be consumed and understanding what female nature is or could be yes. But
instead of looking at it from that idea consistently, I think it would be better if you take bits
and pieces and you fit it to your current situation. Because the right way to live is
going to be the right way for you. And the wrong way to live is going to be the wrong
way for you. This is why you have to take bits and pieces, you have to craft this into
a way where you you create your own path and your own destiny. I think the red pill is
good, of course. Did I use this as a little bit of clickbait? Yeah, maybe. But it's five
key concepts I want to show you. It's five key concepts I wanted to teach you. And maybe
that way you can discover something new about yourself today that you have not yet discovered
before. There is also two programs I want to reference you to work one to one with me
inside my men's coaching in my men's consulting. Number one is going to be my men's full stack
one percenter program, if you're a man looking to level up within your masculinity, nofap,
your purpose, your ambition, and actually have the women of your dreams, you can just
go down below and book a call with my brother Cole. And of course sees that you're a good
fit to work one to one with me have direct access to a stream of communication to speak
with me, that's going to be for you. If you're a man looking to learn MBT masculine behavioral
therapy with my webinar that has had hundreds of 1000s even millions of men through it by
now, go down below and click the link, watch the MBT webinar and if you're seeing how some
of these systems and processes works for you, we will see you on the other side within that
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Yep, you you Yep, husband. Yeah, right there. Okay, shift the eyes up here. Let's just work
in that little let's let's work this little picture in husband you eyes right here. Orion
brand new client client has been working with me inside the men's relationship blueprint
mastery. I will give you an example of what he's going through. Number one, his wife earns
more than him. Number two, she has been pulling back and being emotionally cold and distant.
Number three, she has threatened separation. And number four, she started to get the mindset
that she could do better. He's been dealing with this for months. Let's read what he says
I'm only in week one. And I'm already seeing significant results. Coming from eight months
without intimacy and terrible communication. We are now kissing again. And she wants me
to massage her and yesterday out of the blue. She invited me out for lunch, mind you. I'm
working from home and she's a district attorney and complains that she never has any time
for herself, let alone others Okay, here's a newsflash for all of you husbands out there.
Number one women will make you a priority one day care does not matter what our job
is or occupation is it doesn't matter about any of that. She will fight tooth and nail
through hell or high water and climb the Great Wall of China in probably under 60 seconds
to see you if her desire is high enough. What does that mean? That means that men today
have lost the ability to maintain attraction, arousal and desire. And if you can keep those
things, you now get to have the hidden unlock to keep your marriage stable for the next
50 years. But the fact is majority of men simply don't know how to do it. Which is why
when I'm watching guys, like I'm literally watching this every single day. I see guys
just like him. And they've dealt with months or years of BS and turmoil and he sees improvements
within a week. One of the biggest things that most guys tell me when they're on the phone
upon like an enrollment is they're like, hey, Casey, when I work one to one with you, this
kind of sounds too good to be true. Like how can you undo years of damage and turmoil in
weeks are just a short time of a couple months maximum? And I'm like, well, it does sound
crazy. But if you just look at all of the guys that I've worked with, like this is actually
relatively simple. Okay, so if you're a guy wanting to actually fix your marriage, if
your guy wanting to save it, I advise you just to maybe go down below this post. And
then once you weren't right down below the post, you can just click the link for the
relationship blueprint mastery and some of the things that I talked about within that
end to end training video that case study video that you see As a husband resonates
with you, all you have to do is just book a call with my team. And if you actually accepted
to work one to one with me upon that interview, we're going to give you the opportunity and
the roadmap and the guidance and support to win your wife back with no ups or downs with
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stable and happy for the rest of your life. So if that's you, you should probably click
that link. We'll see you later.