Matt: Poke her in the butt, and then get married. Girl: A black guy's D is.
Not going to poke her in her butt. That's going to poke her up her back.
Matt: Let's say the guy gets kind of excited. You know,
you two are pretty hot and he pops a B and you feel it.
Is it a turn on or a turn off? Girl: For me?? A turn off.. Matt: Even
if it's really big.
Girl: For me? It's interesting. A turn on.
Turn on for me..,
Should he embrace it and pull you closer?
Or should he like hide in like scooch back?
Girl: Embrace it. You're welcoming it. Its already there, don't hide it.
Yeah. Matt: What if he shows up to the party with it? Like, you know,
it comes up to you with.. "Hey,
nice to meet you." And starts dancing and you feel it right away.
So it's already there. It's not good. It has to emerge. Yeah.
Girl: It has to come up from something.. Like
a Groundhog. And guys take this as a lesson.
Don't get too excited. Girls don't like that. Okay. Girls don't like it.
When guys get too excited, take it slow. You know, like enjoy the moment.
Matt: Should he like grind up against you unless you feel it?
Or should he like back away?
Girl: It depends on the guy because some guys grind on me,
but some guys actually far away from me.
Matt: Is that good? You like him? You're into him.
He starts getting a little happy, a little excited. You know,
he's grinding up on you. You feel something, some,
something pokes you in the butt or in the side, or maybe in the front,
depending on you know, what do you do? Girl: Well, just dance.
Just go with the flow.
Matt: Okay. Girl: But we're not gonna F in the club no way.
Matt: Guys asked me, what do I do? If I'm like, you know, get excited?
And they think they should like dance away. You know?
They feel like they should like dance like this. I say, no, like dance, like,
and let her feel it. Girl: Good for us. Matt: Because if you don't,
if you don't like it, you're gonna,
you're gonna make sure he knows that you're going to pull away. Let's just say,
you think like, wow, I'm turning this guy on. Right?
Girl: That would be kind of weird if he approached you with it.
Matt: Oh, the already had wood. So that's the key.
You can't already have wood.
It has to emerge organically.
So what if he is getting too excited?
Let's say I'm dancing with you and I'm getting super excited.
I'm so turned on and you're pretty turned on too cause I got good posture.
Eye contact. It's all the new.
Should I like be like this?
Or should I be more like this? Like dancing with you?
Girl: Maybe just like enjoy the music, like dance with space.
That's not too good.
Matt: Horny is good. But too horny, is not good. Girl: A black guy's.
D is not going to poke her in her butt. That's going to poke her up her back.
Yeah!
F--
Matt: If he's your type and you feel it,
does that mean it's pretty much going to happen?
Girl: Yeah. I mean, when you guys dads with a club,
that's means you're going to have sex with a guy. That's how a club works.
Matt: Just because you're dancing? Girl: Yeah. Matt: Dang.
I wish we would've met in the club. And we're dancing.
Even though I'm not black enough for you but.. Do you jump into the taxi and..?
Girl: Exactly. We wait for something to happen.. Matt:
Wait for him to make the move.
Girl: Yeah.
Matt: What moves should he make after that point? I mean, it's kind of a move,
right? Or what if it's a small move?
It could be a small move. Independent.
Girl: What happens next Bebs? I dunno. They get married?
Matt: Get married. Okay. Poke her in the butt and then get married. Girl: Yes,
exactly. I never dance with a guy. Matt: Never danced with a guy? Girl: Yeah.
Ever. Matt: Okay. First time we're dancing.
Shake your hips. He's dancing with you. He's got B.
Should he hide it or no? Girl:
No idea. Matt: Never been dancing. So last question.
Would you like to kiss me? Girl: Oh my god.. Matt:
I'll take it as a yes.
It's not like I'm going to pick you up and take you home. Alright man.
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