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- This is Max Berger and in this video
we'll be talking about how to find your purpose
and your passion.
This is especially important if you're watching this,
you're not 100% sure yet
what you want to be doing for the rest of your life,
you feel a little uncertain, unsure,
and you want to find a certain path
to know exactly what you want to be doing
with your life.
I'm gonna give you specific step-by-step instructions,
I'm gonna put anecdotes of me
and my personal clients in there.
It's gonna be very interesting for you to watch.
It's a little bit of a longer ranty video,
but you sure as hell will enjoy it
and will get value from that.
So that being said, let's crack right into it.
Have you ever wondered whether there's more to life
than a boring, dead-end, 9-to-5 job?
Have you ever dreamed about breaking free
and traveling the world,
making good money and just enjoying life?
My name is Max Berger and I've attained that for you.
No more office dress code, no morning commute, no boss.
This channel is for you.
Actually one of the most common questions I get
is like, how do I find my purpose?
How do I find my passion?
I don't know what I want to do.
I know that I want to become an entrepreneur,
I know I want to build a business, but in what?
And I don't know.
I feel like many people just feel so lost.
They don't know what really excites them.
And I think a reason why that is
is because of perfectionism.
You can write that down,
we'll have it shown on the screen right now, perfectionism.
We all think that we need to have the perfect idea,
we need to have this perfect thing
that we're absolutely passionate about,
that we love doing no matter what
for the rest of our lives,
and only then, only then, we make the decision
and we carve it in stone
and then that's the business that we're gonna
be operating in.
But the problem is with that perfectionism
is that it results in just
an infinite loop of waiting.
Because people think everything needs to be perfect,
everything needs to feel like it's the exact right choice,
and then what happens is they just sit around
doing nothing, just derping around in a job
that kind of sustains them
but doesn't make them super happy.
They have hobbies, they derp around playing Xbox,
drinking out with their friends,
waiting to be kissed by the godly muse
to feel like this is the idea.
But at the end of the day,
thank you very much,
but at the end of the day
you can't really feel passionate
about something unless you do something.
So again, it's first you have this weird perfectionism
about everything, then you're in this infinite loop
of waiting, and then that leads to stagnant momentum.
You can't build momentum 'cause you're not doing anything,
so you build negative momentum of being stagnant.
Objects in motion want to stay in motion
and objects that are stagnant want to remain stagnant.
What is that, third Newton's law, I don't even know.
So that just leads to this infinite loop
of not doing anything and just waiting.
I'm always seeing it as an example
of my own clients in Freedom Business Mentoring
but also my own personal example.
I would've never thought I'd ended up
with any of the things that I'm doing now.
Hell, I even thought I'd never want to do that.
The furthest thing from my reality funny enough,
was to become an entrepreneur.
This was the furthest thing away from my reality,
I thought, this is way too much responsibility,
derp, I don't know, I don't know nothing about the market.
Even hearing someone say words like the market or revenue,
it sounded so boring and dry to me, I'm like (grunts).
I don't want to do that.
And now I own several businesses and I love it.
And it's one of the things I'm most passionate about,
I dream about this.
Before that I was dating coach,
before I built a business around me being a dating coach,
I always thought these dating coaches are creepy and weird.
They come into a crowd like, "Hey, what's up guys!"
Lo and behold, I'm now that guy who goes
in front of a crowd like (speaks in foreign language).
And I'm all hyper.
I never thought I would do that
because I never thought it was interesting for me.
But guess what?
I tried it, and I got hooked,
I'm like, this is interesting,
and then you go around certain corners
and you get hooked more and more and more and more.
When I was twenty years old
all I really wanted to do was drink beer,
watch Simpsons, play video games,
and really not do anything
and maybe go out with my friends and get drunk,
well that's drinking beer, basically.
And listen to metal, that was all I ever wanted.
Oh, and one thing I was passionate about
that was playing guitar,
and here's the interesting thing.
We're gonna talk about this later,
actually let's talk about it now.
I didn't know what motivated me.
This is interesting.
So the only thing I was passionate about
was playing guitar because I wanted to be a rock star.
That was my dream, I want to be a rock star.
Have a lot of money, and have a lot of people listening
to what I'm playing.
I thought the part of being a rock star made it
so enticing for me because I like music.
But as I later found out,
the thing that actually motivated me
was not the music aspect,
it was the aspect that I could reach other people
and inspire other people,
and the aspect of being free, and doing whatever I want.
So it was really those aspects
that were really interesting for me
in terms of becoming a rock star.
Later on when I started traveling as a dating coach,
I realized this fulfills me so much
because it's the exact same things
that were so enticing about being a rock star.
I was touring the world, I was seeing the world,
I was free, I could do whatever I wanted, more or less.
And I could inspire people,
maybe not with what I sing or what I play
but with what I say.
And I still had crowds and I was, quote unquote, performing,
and I could inspire people
and in turn be inspired back.
There was a lot of exchange of energy,
so I realized this is interesting.
This is really fulfilling
on a much deeper level than I would've ever thought.
But the important thing was I had to go and try it.
Because like I said before
I never thought being a dating coach was interesting,
I never thought this was something that I want to do.
I always thought this is boring, this is weird.
But then I did and I realized oh,
there's a lot of aspects about this that motivate me,
that drive me.
That is why I thought that was very, very, interesting.
And again, the underlying lesson of this
is that I had to go and do it.
It was not the perfect choice for me.
I didn't think being a dating coach is the perfect
one-on-one thing that exactly I want to do,
it's a hundred out of hundred, no, not at all.
But I grew into it and I started liking it,
and on top of that people started looking up to me
and I liked it.
It was obviously ego-gratification, no doubt about that.
But I liked it and you start making money,
and then you like it even more.
I get this a lot from clients
in my Freedom Business Mentoring group,
they start out and they're like,
I'm not sure if I'm passionate about that.
But then they get the first client and I'm like,
had a call with a client, and I really helped the client,
and I even got paid for that, and I feel really good.
So you see you develop a passion for many things
once you're successful at that.
Nobody develops a passion for something that they suck at.
Very rare.
But if you get better at it
and you can see that you can actually help people,
that's where it's interesting.
And all of the sudden people do develop a passion,
they do develop a purpose in their life,
because they are out doing things.
So instead of having this perfectionism
that bring you to infinite loop
of doing nothing that brings you then
to this momentum of stagnation,
instead what you should do is understand
that nothing lasts forever.
You don't need to find a perfect thing
right off the bat,
because nothing lasts forever, anyway.
You might find one thing,
you're really passionate about that,
you transition through it and after a couple of years
you organically grow into something else.
That is just the organic evolution of that one thing
that you did.
And while you're doing that you hone your craft,
and you're doing things and you're building momentum
of doing things and you see the underlying structure
of building one business.
You start making money, you start helping people,
and then you organically grow into the next thing.
That is much better,
understanding that nothing lasts forever,
things will never be perfect,
go with one thing and then once you do things,
you start developing a passion for that.
And that brings you then closer to your ultimate goals.
Just like I always thought I want to be a rock star,
it then changed to the dating coaching thing
actually motivates me just as much
because of the same motivations behind it.
And now that that I understood,
I also liked the structure building
and the team building aspect around that,
and reaching people and the brand building,
which then organically made me grow
into doing business.
After that, also business consulting.
And again, these are all things
that I always thought I would despise, I would hate.
But because I started doing things
and because I understood that I don't need
to make the perfect choice right away,
that then helped me to understand that this
is indeed my purpose, my passion.
And again, nothing lasts forever,
so ask me again in three, four, five, six years.
Maybe I will have organically grown into the next level
and I'll do something else.
Again, that's why I think it's just crucial
to go out and try things.
And as you're trying things,
get really good at that because that builds up momentum,
and as you get really good at that you start making money.
If you have a proper mentor who helps you
monetize certain things, now you're making money.
So it's not like you're waiting, sitting around
not making money and just getting negative momentum, no,
you're doing things, you get good at that,
you build the momentum, you'll learn track records,
habits that make you successful.
And at the same time you're getting paid already,
so you're basically getting paid to find your purpose.
And that is how to find your purpose.
So at the end of the day this world
is so full of opportunity it's insane.
There's people out there who are willing to help you.
There's people out there who are willing to pay you.
There's books to be read,
experiences to be had, people to be helped.
There's so many things out there literally waiting for you.
It's literally a globalization.
You have phones, you have internet,
you have free Wi-Fi everywhere.
This world is so full of opportunity
but it's only, and this is the really important key,
it's only there for someone who takes action.
You can literally ask anybody that is a hater,
that is negative, that is lazy, that is unwilling to change,
they'll all sit on their couch saying this world sucks,
it's unfair, and everybody's out to get you,
and it's so hard for the common man to step up and get rich,
the 1% are oppressing you,
and the government is taking all the money away
and the taxes are there,
the Illuminati (stuttering),
Illuminati did 9/11 so you can't rise up.
This all crazy gibberish.
All these people have to do is get up.
Be a little bit uncomfortable and go start doing things.
They will see opportunity, they will grasp opportunity,
they will take advantage of opportunity
and then they will give back,
and then you'll create this crazy upward spiral
of helping each other while at the same time
getting better at what you're doing,
while at the same time getting paid,
and you take that money and you pour it back
into your business.
You grow even more, you help even more people.
You can call me utopian and crazy and naive,
that is how you make the world a tiny little bit better.
But you need to start doing things.
It is in your responsibility to find your passion,
to find your purpose,
but you gotta start trying things.
Rant end.
Okay now, a good way to start trying things.
Number one, if you already know what you want to do,
kind of, but you don't know how to start,
you don't know how to monetize it,
then there's a link in the description below.
You can give us a call,
you can jump on a free consultation call with us,
click that link and you fill out the quick application,
and then you can literally pick the time and date
where you want us to call you.
It's entirely for free even if it's international.
The other way if you don't know exactly yet
what you want to do,
there's very likely some hidden challenge
that you've overcome in your life.
Some hidden talent, and if you have someone that can find
that talent, that can dig it out and show it right
in front of you, it's a very great way to do it as well.
And best way to do is that is also
to jump on that same link
that is down in the description below.
Jump on a call with us.
Because we can help you find something
that you could potentially be good at
and that we can train you to get good at that,
and then we can train you how to monetize that,
and how to basically build a business
that acquires you the freedom to go wherever you want,
to do whatever you want, to work whenever you want,
to work with whomever you want
and to be financially stable and free.
That has been a great number of people
who already clicked that link who are now
well on their way to make
a four to five figure income per month.
Some of them have that already
and they're very happy with that,
and we're super happy to have helped them
on their way to that.
So that is the best way to do that.
Understand that this video has been a complete waste
of your time,
has been a waste of my time as well,
unless you start taking action.
You need to start taking action.
Put your own life into your own hands and create things.
Thank you so much for watching,
maybe talk to you very, very soon,
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