Hello my wonderful friend! Let's talk about how to talk to girls. How to never run out of things
to say and keep the conversation going. Have you ever been talking to a really gorgeous gal and all
of a sudden you had no idea what to say? Or have you ever really wanted to talk to someone but you
were afraid you wouldn't know what to say? It's an awkward situation and it's very very uncomfortable
as I'm sure you know. Don't worry I've got your back. These tips are simple but insanely powerful.
They are going to help you go from that awkward situation to instead knowing how to attract her
and have a lot of fun when you talk to gorgeous women. Now I have six tips for you and each of
these is very powerful but the one that might be the very most important is actually the last tip
so make sure you watch to the very end if you want to make sure talking to women is easy and fun and
increases her attraction for you. Now before we dive in, if this is your first time watching one
of my videos, welcome! My name is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and I help you
learn how to avoid bad and dead-end relationships and instead learn the skills you need to get the
girl of your dreams and the relationship of your dreams. So make sure you subscribe,
ring the notification bell, and give me a big thumbs up. And with that let's get started with
my top tips on how to talk to girls. How to never run out of things to say and keep the conversation
going. Now the first thing you need to know is it's important to shift your mindset.
It's very very important that you start thinking of talking to girls as a skill. It's very easy
to see other guys who are really good at talking to girls and think "oh they were just born that
way" or "they're just talented and I'm not." And the truth is everybody has different talents so
some people are naturally better at things. But at the end of the day everyone has to learn a certain
amount of skill. And so if you can start looking at talking to girls as a skill instead of a
special gift then you can guarantee you are going to be successful at this. If you go in thinking
that you're not going to be good at it and it's just going to be awkward, you're going to fail
every time. But if instead you say "wait a second. This is just a skill." Like playing the guitar or
driving a car or your career it all comes down to a skill. So if you can shift your mindset
to "hey, this is just a skill and I can totally learn it," you are going to be successful. Keep
that in mind as we go through the rest of the tips because the rest of the tips
really are just skills that you can learn that will make you incredibly good at talking to women.
Now this leads me to my second tip for how to talk to girls. And that is to make sure you're not too
flirty. There's nothing wrong with flirting. As a matter of fact, I'm a big fan of flirting. I did
this video on how to flirt with girls. If you haven't seen it yet there is a link in
the description below. Make sure you check it out. Flirting is important and it's fun. But a mistake
I see a lot of men make is they put too much focus on flirting. Because they really want to attract
her or they really want to impress her and so all they do is flirt. And what that does is it comes
across as insincere and not authentic and that's not what you want. You want it there to be some
playful flirting but if it's constant flirting or over-the-top flirting it comes across as creepy
and she feels awkward. At the end of the day she really just wants to get to know who you are with
a little bit of flirtation instead of constant flirtation and having no idea who you are.
So make sure you do not overdo the flirting. Take the pressure off of yourself. This is two people
talking getting to know each other and seeing if they have anything in common and would like to
get to know each other better. If you focus instead on getting to know her and chatting
with her and making her feel comfortable, that right there is going to dramatically increase
your attraction. And if you want to throw in a little flirtation with it you're golden. Now my
next tip on how to talk to girls is to focus on asking questions, not on talking about yourself.
It's very very easy when we're nervous to just kind of talk about ourselves because we're an
authority on ourselves. And it's something that we can talk about easily, right? But if all you do is
talk about yourself it's a one-sided conversation and it tends to make you feel more nervous.
Remember that the whole goal here is for her to feel comfortable with you, for her to feel
important, and for her to feel connected and attracted to you. I've said it a million times
before but I'm going to say it again because it's so important. People like people who make them
feel good. It's as simple as that. So when you ask her questions and you really communicate with her
and connect with her she's going to feel really really good when she's around you. She's going to
feel comfortable with you. When people ask us questions about ourselves it's something
we are an authority on so if you're asking her questions about her she feels important, she feels
interesting, she feels relaxed. So asking her questions and the basics of small talk are really
key to knowing how to talk to girls easily and naturally and keep that conversation going.
It's not about mind games or following a certain script. That's not authentic, that doesn't let you
be you. It's about being totally and completely you and just having those basic small talk skills.
Now I do go in depth in my program on how to do this. On the basics of small talk and how
to have questions to ask her no matter where you are or what you're doing so it feels very natural
and so you can stay very very true to who you are instead of pretending or feeling like you
have to follow a specific script. I also give you a long list of great conversation starters so that
talking to women is super super easy and super super natural and fun. So if you have not yet
checked out my program now is the time because not only are you going to learn how to talk to women
like a boss but you're also going to learn step by step the skills and the game plan you need to
get the girl of your dreams. If you haven't yet watched my free masterclass check it out through
the link in the description below. There's also a link in the pinned comments. You're going to learn
about the skills you need to get your dream girl and I explain more about my program there. So make
sure you click that link, sign up, watch it, check it out. Now my next tip on how to talk to girls
and how to keep the conversation going is to make sure you don't ask questions that are too personal
or that are awkward. This is a really really easy mistake to make which is why I take so much time
in my program to teach you how to ask questions the right way. Especially if you do not know her
very well you don't want your questions to be too intense. That will scare her away and that
will creep her out. Asking the right kinds of questions is literally the difference between
really attracting her or convincing her that you're like a weirdo. So it's very important
that you keep things light and fun and playful. Quick question before we get to our next tip.
Are you enjoying this video on how to talk to girls? Should I make more videos on how to talk
to girls? Honestly, this is a topic I love so I'd love to make more if this is something you want
to hear about. If you do be sure to comment yes. That lets me know how you guys are enjoying these
videos and what to do videos on in the future. And if you have any questions or suggestions for other
videos make sure you leave that in the comments as well. Okay my next tip might surprise you.
And that is to practice confident body language. When you have confident body language it increases
her attraction for you because confident body language is masculine and super attractive.
Also, it makes her feel more calm, more safe, and it makes you feel less nervous and more
confident. As a matter of fact, body language is one of the most powerful tools you can learn. This
is why I spend so much time teaching it in my program and why it's one of the biggest things
my clients tell me that they use to see results the fastest. If your body language is nervous and
awkward that's how she's going to see you, that's how you're going to feel, and it's going to tank.
But if instead you're confident and masculine you feel amazing, she sees you as amazing,
and it goes much better. Now my next tip on how to talk to girls is very very important so pay
very close attention. Make sure you have a game plan. Have an idea of what you are going to say
before you're in the situation. It's so normal when we're standing in front of someone we think
is really attractive for our minds to go blank. Have you been there? It's terrible.
And so that's normal but you can avoid that if you have your game plan. If you know what
you're going to say, if you have questions in mind, your go-to list that you always fall back
on with your questions that you're going to ask. When you have that then it is automatic. And even
when you're sitting there and the butterflies are hitting you and you can't think straight
it's automatic, it's natural. And so you can totally pull it off like a boss and instead of
having those awkward pauses and having no idea what to say it's very fun. And then you can be
a little flirtatious and attract and impress her. Now the best way to have that game plan
to make sure it is automatic is to have your basics down. To have the basics of small talk
and to know what questions to ask her. This is again why I teach that in my program. If you
haven't yet checked it out click the link in the description or in the pinned comment to watch my
masterclass and learn more about my framework, why it's so effective, and how it can help you too.
All right let's sum up. How to talk to girls tip number one is to shift your mindset. Stop thinking
of it as like a special gift. Instead it's just a skill. Even guys who seem really good at it had to
learn that skill. If you believe it's a skill and you believe you can learn it you will be a boss
so fast. Number two, don't be too flirty. Yes, you can flirt, and it's fun to flirt,
and it's important to flirt, but if that's your entire focus it's gonna come on way too strong and
it's going to freak her out. My next tip on how to talk to girls is focus on asking her questions,
not talking about yourself. This is going to make both of you feel more comfortable and connected.
And that leads us to our next tip which is avoid asking questions that are awkward or too personal.
That's a really fast way to convince her you're a weirdo. And you don't want that. My next tip on
how to talk to girls is to practice confident body language. It increases her attraction and makes
both of you feel a whole lot more comfortable. My next tip is to have a game plan. When you
know exactly what you're going to do in that situation it's automatic, it's easy, and it's so
fun. Because the truth is you're talking to a cute girl. How fun is that? So you definitely want it
to be automatic so it can be fun and enjoyable. Now to become a total boss at talking to women
and ultimately to become a total boss at getting the girl of your dreams do make sure you check out
my program. Learn more about it by watching my free masterclass through the link in the
description below. This is the fastest and easiest way to get the girl of your dreams so check it out
right now. Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend! If you enjoyed what you saw be
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