It's Tripp from Tripp Advice.com.
I want to ask you a question.
Have you ever seen a guy walk into a room and just own it?
I mean, he's suave with the ladies.
People are giving him tons of attention.
Everyone likes him.
This guy is smooth, or some would call him charismatic.
He's got charisma.
Why is this something you'd want to learn?
Why would you want to be charismatic?
For starters, having charisma is one of the ways to build attraction with high quality
women.
You get them to like you.
You will decrease the chances of rejection because charisma hits some of those attraction
triggers I talked about, which include confidence and charm.
Those are some of the key elements a woman looks for in a man.
How can you be charismatic with women?
Let me explain to you the breakdown of what makes up charisma.
A charismatic man is a very positive person.
He doesn't talk bad about other people.
He doesn't bring down the conversation with any negativity.
He's generally optimistic.
Take presidents or leaders of countries for example.
Charisma is a general adjective used to describe them.
Why?
Because most of the time, they're trying to lift spirits and forge ahead with positivity
in their messages.
That's what I want from you.
The next time you're in conversation, be open minded to new ideas and thoughts.
Don't turn things down.
Try and stay excited about the things you're talking about with the people that you talk
to, which brings me to my next point.
A charismatic man is able to hold a conversation with anyone.
This is a very rare trait.
Not everyone is able to do that.
Again, to really hammer this point in, you have to be open minded when hearing others
opinions and stories.
You don't have to agree with everyone, but listen to what they have to say.
Listen closely, hear them out.
Don't interrupt.
Don't wait to speak.
When you're talking to people, use their name when you speak to them.
This is going to make them remember you because it shows that you actually care about talking
to them.
When you are talking to a girl, make sure you touch her in conversation.
Maybe when you bring up some exciting point.
This will make her feel subconsciously closer to you.
The words that come out of your mouth have to be intriguing.
Not only should you tell your most fascinating stories that draw out emotion, but do it slowly,
with pauses, and see the words out of your mouth.
Take your time.
That's how you show charisma.
Another trick in conversation is from the book, The Charisma Myth, which talks about
intonation and the tonality of your voice.
For example, you might say to a girl, you and I should go out.
The weak way of saying it would be making the tonality of your voice up at the end of
the sentence.
For example, you and I should go out.
See how weird that sounds is?
You and I should go out.
It sounds like you're not really sure of it.
I want to drop the intonation at the end of the sentence.
You and I should go out.
See how I dropped that.
You and I should go out.
Last, the person who's charismatic cares about the people that he's talking to in conversation.
He's engaged with them.
The best way to do that is by asking them questions about themselves and listening with
a specific kind of eye contact.
When you're looking at them, make sure that you're smiling.
You're nodding every once in a while.
Sometimes I naturally squint, which is a cue that I care about what they're talking
about.
This is some powerful stuff here.
You can easily use this to take advantage of people of being fake.
That's not why I made this video.
I wanted to teach you these ideas not so you can copy it, but embody it.
Be it, don't fake it.
If you do it naturally, you will be charismatic at all.
I'm Tripp from Tripp Advice.com.
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