Hey there, Adam LoDolce from SexyConfidence.com, where I help the 21st century woman create
a love-life that she absolutely freaking loves, and in this video right now, I'm gonna be
going over the 15 signs that he's just not into you.
Yes, I said 15.
Keep watching, trust me, you're not gonna miss this one.
Now I've been a relationship coach for many years now, and let me tell you, one of the
biggest barriers to women being successful with their love-lives is that they just straight-up
lie to themselves.
They tell themselves over and over and over again that he's into them, and even when it's
so clear as day that he's not into you, they just continue to lie.
They tell themselves that he is.
And they end up wasting so much time and energy on one guy who's just clearly not interested,
when they could've been free from all that bullshit, all that garbage, to move on to
find a guy who is into them, and who they are also into as well.
Now I am sympathetic to all this, because I've also kid myself before when I was into
a woman who was clearly not that into me.
And I wish I'd had this type of a reference to be able to go back and watch anytime that
I was kind of unsure or I had a feeling that she wasn't into me.
So I wanted to create this very quick video with a ton of signs that I'm gonna throw at
you, and this is going to be really a simple video that you can reference over and over
again while you're still single and getting out there.
And if you're not sure about a guy, then of course, watch this video.
It will allow you to see it a little bit more clearly.
But please, always use common sense.
If you're only seeing like one of these signs, it doesn't necessarily mean he's not into
you.
Only when you're getting into like the three, four, or more, that's when you should start
having your guard up a little bit further.
And this is what's gonna give you that power to finally walk away from a guy that you know
isn't into you.
Which leads me to point number one.
Number one: you know he's not into you.
If your gut is telling you "no," then it's no.
When it's "yes," you're gonna know it.
Number two: you're always the one initiating to see him.
When a man is into you, he's gonna be initiating to want to see you as well.
Number three: he's not interested in the things that you do, or the things that you like,
or, quite frankly, in anything about you, other than sex.
If that's the case, then goodbye, move on, find the next guy.
Number four: he'd rather spend time with other women.
That's an obvious one.
Number five: he doesn't really look at you.
I mean, when a man really likes a woman or has interest in a woman, science has proven
that literally, he can't take his eyes away.
I've certainly been there.
When I'm really attracted to a woman, really interested, I can't stop looking.
What can I say?
Number six: he's asking you about dating advice for other women.
[Censored] deal-breaker.
Number seven: he's never done anything nice for you, whatsoever.
Now if you've known each other for more than three months, and he's never gone out of his
way for you, then you know what?
[Censored] him, he sucks.
Number eight: he actively flirts with other women.
And not to make you jealous, but because he's just flirting with other women.
Number nine: he doesn't care when you are in crisis.
Now, men are natural providers, and a man who's interested in you as a person, if he
sees that you're in a crisis, or knows that there is something wrong, he's going to want
to come and help you, help you fix it.
And this can sometimes be annoying when men come in as the fixers, but a man who's very
interested in a woman and into her, is going to want to help fix her problems as much as
possible.
If he's not doing that, then you know what?
He's out.
Number ten: he's never trying to impress you.
Now men can sometimes go overboard on this, and that gets annoying, but if he's not being
a little bit douche-y every once in a while, showing off his cool car, or whatever it is
that he does, then he's probably not interested in you.
Number eleven: he never opens up emotionally.
Everything that he talks about is just very like factual-based.
Number twelve: he's only hearing you, he's not really listening to you.
Now when a man's heart is really open to a woman, he doesn't just hear the words that
she's saying, he really listens because he actually cares what she's saying, and what
she's feeling.
Lucky number thirteen: he doesn't seem to care about your relationship with other men,
even the slightest.
If a man is really interested in a woman, he is not going to like seeing her with other
men, and he's usually going to show signs ... many times, slight, but he's going to
show signs of jealousy.
Number fourteen: he treats you like everyone else.
He's basically indifferent towards you.
You need to realize that, you know what?
[Censored] that, you're an amazingly unique woman, and if he doesn't see that, then he
is done.
And finally, number fifteen: he's using the classic excuse that men use when they're not
interested, is that he's always busy.
And that's just his excuse for never being there.
Now I get it, some guys are just legitimately busy.
They got work stuff, they got stuff with their families, whatever it is.
But if he is always busy and can't put in the time to be with you, then why the [censored]
would you want to be with him?
He's out.
So there you have it.
You have a basic list that you can use moving forward with any guy that you start seeing.
I'd love to hear from you: have you ever lied to yourself that a guy was into you, even
though you knew, you knew right within your gut that he just wasn't?
Love to hear from you, right there below.
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Thank you so much for watching and I'll speak to you, you sexy lady, next week.
Bye.