Now,
Justin Trudeau has been ignored in some spectacular ways in the past.
So he's usually prepared to react to this in a calm kind of calculated way.
But at the [inaudible] yesterday,
he was ignored in such an incredible fashion that even he couldn't keep it
together. So watch him walking in right now.
So the seating chart was set up in alphabetical order.
So China was right next to Canada.
But President Z of China has been notorious Aloof towards Trudeau.
So when Justin sits down, he pays him no attention. He doesn't even look up.
So Trudeau was probably expecting this. So what does he do first?
He kind of orients himself to the guy sitting to the left of him and makes eye
contact.
You know what it feels like when someone's staring at you or looking at you.
You can just kind of feel that energy.
Will Trudeau was hoping that when he did this,
it was actually the new president of Brazil. His name is Jaya air ball scenario.
He was hoping that he would turn and greet him and say hi.
So it wasn't kind of sitting there awkwardly, but it doesn't work.
So what is true to do actually physically touches his arm,
which gets his attention.
But the problem is GI era was more interested in shaking the hand to whoever was
at his left. I couldn't figure out who was sitting to his left.
But this is all about social status. Okay, look at this.
Trudeau can't even act like that was normal ticket. The look on his face,
it's hard to recover from that.
So the social status component is whoever is looking for your attention and look
right there, look how obvious it is. He sees him right there.
But whoever's looking for your attention that has higher status is going to get
the attention from the other person. So if two people are coming at once,
typically the person with higher status is going to get more attention,
or if they're of equal status.
The person that tried to get the attention first,
so Trudeau got his attention first, but had lower status in his,
in his eyes and gyres eyes than the guy that has left. So he turns to him.
So what can you do in this instance? Well, the way that Trudeau messed up,
and I'm not sure he could control himself, that was such a harsh denial.
But look at that. Look on his face. He's clearly shocked and he's like, oh,
you ever seen those NBA players that go for high fives and their teammates so
worked up, they don't see him? Well,
this is especially hard because gyr clearly saw him,
knows he got his attention first and was so quick to turn and descend.
And then the funny thing is when he turned back around to actually shake his
hand, he shakes his hand. That immediately turns right back around.
He had no interest in, in Trudeau.
So the best thing that you can do in this is first of all,
he needs to realize he was snubbed by this guy. So once that happens,
don't make any effort for some long winded conversation.
So he shouldn't have made the face,
but he should have waited for him to turn back around because you can't just
completely drop it, act like it never happened.
Cause that makes it look like you're really weak.
And you're just letting people walk all over you.
So the move is to have no reactions,
still stay kind of oriented to the person and then when they come back to you
shake their hand. But at that point kind of acknowledge,
you realize you were snubbed and you be the one to cut it off short.
I kind of shake their hand,
kind of look away maybe in a bit of a dismissive way because that balances out
the interaction equilibrium.
You never want someone to feel like they have higher status over you or feel
like they can talk down to you or make such a ridiculously bull move.
Cause these guys know there's a lot of cameras in these places.
They know that everything is being documented and they know that everything on
this, like me breaking this down,
gyre knew that they were going to be cameras on it and probably dope like me
analyzing it. So that's a very calculated move.
You can't be cool with people treating you that way.
So you need to know how to come back from something like that. Now,
Trudeau was also ignored by Donald Trump at the last [inaudible] conference,
and I want to show you that too, but before I get to it,
if you want to get high level social skills,
so if something like this happened to you,
you'd be confident in how you can handle it or even more competent just going
out and being around. People are going to a work event.
You want to know that you can always act the right way and have something
engaging to say,
I've got a social invincibility checklist that you can download for free.
I'll put a link in the description of this video below the video box,
or you can just go to charisma matrix.com forge slash s I checklist and you can
download it there.
I'll go through five important tips that you can immediately use to feel more
competent around people. Now,
Trump and Trudeau have had a very interesting relationship ever since Trump took
office and if you want to see me analyze Trudeau getting ignored by Trump was
actually even worse than this at that [inaudible].
You can click right here and I'll walk you through it. Now.