Matt Artisan here, coming at you
from the Philippines. And here's the deal:
Lots of guys get nervous around very
beautiful women but if you even get
slightly nervous that means you're
putting her on a pedestal and it's
sabotaging your dating life. So in this
video I'll give you a simple technique
to stop putting women on a pedestal and
boost your self-confidence. This is
actually a variation of what Michael
Jordan did before every game so it
really does work so listen up. I'm Matt. He has
mastered the art of seduction.
A Woman wants to be turned on.
We've done all the testing, we know what works.
Now have you ever seen a drop-dead
gorgeous woman and thought to yourself
wow I would do literally anything to
have her. And maybe even felt like you
didn't deserve her. Guess what? Women can
feel that energy and it actually repels
them. If you're even the slightest bit
intimidated by her it shows. Maybe your
body language or vocal tonality changes
or maybe you just start agreeing with
her because you're afraid to create any
tension. Well she can sense it. You have
to stop putting women on a pedestal. So
how do you stop? Well there are tons of
ways to reframe your mind like NLP or
hypnosis or affirmations. But I'm going to
give you one powerful method that's
actually really easy, it's fun to do and
it flat out works. First you have to
understand that whatever you feed your
mind will have a direct effect on your
mentality, your beliefs and your
confidence level. We are constantly being
influenced by the world around us. The
books we read, the music we listen to, the
friends we hang out with, that all
influence our thoughts and beliefs. And
because of this our confidence is either
increasing or decreasing. If you want
further proof just read books like
psycho-cybernetics or the power of the
unconscious mind. Now most people don't
pay any attention to what enters their
unconscious mind but I want you to play
offense. I want you to feed your mind
with the right stuff so that your
confidence is constantly increasing. So
here's the technique. I want you to
brainwash yourself with music
because music, unlike reciting dry
emotionless affirmations, can actually
evoke an emotion inside you and it gets
your entire body moving when you're
listening to it... which
forces the message to take root in your
unconscious much faster. So go to your
music playlist. I want you to delete any
song that has to do with getting dumped,
heartbroken or putting women on a
pedestal. Or just any song that doesn't
promote abundance and just kicking ass
in life. Because if you're constantly
listening to songs about heartbreak or
how women are the prize or how you're
just not good enough, then you'll
inevitably feel lower status and you'll
put women on a pedestal. You need to pay
attention to the lyrics that you're
listening to you may not think this is a
big deal. Most people don't. But it is. For
example when I was a teenager I listened
to a lot of Marilyn Manson and a lot of
metal that was filled with lyrics about
hatred and death. Now even though it
didn't make me suicidal or anything like
that, it did have a dramatic effect on my
mood and I often was very cynical and
very negative. So then after you remove
the sabotaging songs, I want you to
create a playlist filled with songs that
pump up your confidence. Choose songs that
talk about abundance of women, money
power. One of my favorites is sexy and I
know it by LMFAO. But make sure to choose
songs that you actually enjoy. I put a
list of some of my favorite songs in the
description that will boost your
confidence so feel free to pick any of
those. Now let's take this to the next
level I want you to specifically listen
to your pump playlist while you're
working out and right when you wake up
in the morning. That's because your
unconscious mind is actually more
receptive during this time, so it's
easier to change limiting beliefs. You
will literally be brain washing yourself
with confidence. If you've ever done
affirmations before you'll probably find
that brainwashing yourself with music is
twice as effective. Even Michael Jordan
listened to a certain song before every
game to help them play his best and a
lot of pro athletes do the same. So try
this out man. Try it out for a few months
and see how you feel. Every morning just
start your day off with your pump
playlist and notice how it improves your
mood immediately and remember it's also
improving your confidence and belief
long-term.
So check out my list of songs in the
description and leave a comment with
some of your own songs that get you into
a confidence state. And for more bio hacks
for becoming fearless make sure to check
out the confidence cheat sheet with 18
ways to explode your confidence. Click
the link in the bottom right of the
screen. Then just enter your email and
we'll send it your way. There's also a
link down in the description. Seriously
man, grab your copy of the confidence
cheat sheet right now.