Hello my wonderful friend! Let's talk about how to look hot when it's hot.
This video is on five things guys wear that girls love. You guys have been
asking me for a warm weather summer edition and this is it. This comes from
my insight as a woman, obviously, as well as my training and extensive research as
a coach. And guys, these things are super hot. I've got some interesting tidbits
for you about what science says is attractive to women. You're not going to
want to miss it. Before we get started if this is your first time watching be sure
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My name is Melanie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men. I help really good
guys get the girl of your dreams so subscribe, ring that bell and give me a
big thumbs up. Now I recently did this video on Things Guys Wear that Girls
Love and this video and you guys said you wanted more. Specifically a warm
weather edition because a lot of you live in really warm areas of the world
like year-round. So you are going to love what I have in store for you today. Now
as we get started it's very important to know what your overall goal needs to be.
As long as you know this you can be successful, if you don't know this it's a
whole lot harder. So allow me to illustrate with a quick story. I have
this friend who had been crushing on this guy like a long time. She
thought he was the hottest guy ever. They had kind of grown up together and she
just really always wanted him to notice her. Well, he went away for several years,
came back and asked her out. And guys, she was so excited. This really really cute
guy had finally noticed her and he wanted to take her on a date.Sshe didn't
know him very well and she was so excited to have this opportunity to get
to know him. So she did what girls do. She got all dressed up, made sure she looked
as adorable as she could and as beautiful as she could and waited
anxiously for him to come pick her up.
Suddenly there was a knock on the door and she opened
the door. And it was all of a sudden a huge letdown. He showed up to pick her
up for this date in a really dorky t-shirt, gym shorts and socks with
shoe/sandal things. And it made her feel pretty bad and here is why. She
had gone to all this work to look beautiful for him and he showed up like
he hadn't put any effort into what he looked like. It kind of made her feel, well,
it totally made her feel like she didn't matter enough to get dressed up for, that
she didn't matter enough to want to look attractive. That is why it's so important
to present ourselves attractively, with confidence and like we're well put
together. The truth is, she enjoyed the day okay even after this, but the truth
was to her it was a message of how much respect he had for her. And quite frankly
if he showed up like that on the first date that is how the rest of the
relationship would be. And the truth is, she wanted more than that. So he actually
wanted additional dates but he never got a second date. So your goal with the way
you dress is to present yourself in a way that shows that you are showing up
for life, that you are invested in yourself and frankly that you believe in
yourself enough to know that you're worth looking amazing and that you have
enough respect for her to look amazing for her as well. You want to avoid
looking lazy at all costs. Lazy has never been attractive and it
will never be attractive. You want to show that you care and that you have
enough self-respect to actually care about yourself.
If you want her to see you as an attractive
man it's important to present yourself as an attractive man. Now these things
that I'm going to share with you are going to help you do just that and
they're really easy once you know what they are. Now there are a few things I do
want to mention just because these questions always come up. So I wanted to
mention these for you before we get to the items that are so super attractive.
Number one. I obviously cannot model these things for you, it would not be
effective at all. However I do have some pictures for you
so that you can see them. I even have some bad examples as well as good
examples. So there is a link in the description of this video to my blog
post. And guys, I have links to some pictures you can see. They actually link
to Amazon, you can check them out and they're incredibly helpful. So check out
the link in the description below to my blog post that will show you some
pictures. The second thing I want to mention is the things I am about to
teach you, obviously, you don't want to go overboard with them. We all have to run
to Walmart for a last-minute item and sometimes we look a little less than
amazing. And obviously gym shorts are 100%
appropriate if you're going running or if you're going to the gym. So this is
not to be obsessive about, however you do want to make sure you are
presenting- you're putting your best foot forward as often as possible because it
affects how you feel about yourself. This is actually why in my course How to Get
a Girlfriend I spend so much time talking about men's fashion and how to
dress to empower. One of the best ways to take your confidence level to the next
level and feel amazing about yourself all the time is to dress confidently and
attractively as much as possible. So don't obsess, obviously, but these things
will help you a ton. And lastly I have a lot of you ask if these styles apply
to men over 50 and the truth is they 100% still apply. As a matter of fact, my
mom is in her 50s and she is single and I
ran these items past her and she said "Holy cow, these are so hot." and she wants to
meet a guy who dresses like this. So often why men over 50 think maybe these
don't apply is because they look around and don't see other men in that age
range dressing that way. And the truth is, well, that's because they don't know how
to dress. And you will completely and totally stand stand out from the crowd
if you are dressing this way and you will stand out from the crowd in the
best way possible. You want to bring your A-game, you want to be super attractive,
make sure you're wearing these items. All right, with that let's get started. Things
Guys Wear that Girls Love number one is the right kind of shirt. Okay guys, there
are some shirts that are super super hot attraction wise, not necessarily like
temperature. A really good idea if it is warm where you are is to wear a
linen shirt. It breathes so much better and it looks so sharp and attractive.
Again, I do have pictures on my blog post so you can check it out and see
it. It's a really good move. It makes you look professional, it makes you look
masculine, it makes you look confident, and just all-around hot. I have mentioned
Henleys before as well and you can get some short-sleeved Henleys. Anytime,
pretty much, anytime you can get a v-neck rather than just like a classic
t-shirt collar, it takes it to the next level. You look so much more sharp, so
much more attractive, it's actually more slimming and it just looks more put
together. Basically when you are wearing shirts,
I know t-shirts are really really tempting. If you are going to wear some
kind of a t-shirt avoid graphic tees. Now I will be the first one to say graphic
tees can be done right and they can be very attractive when done
right, but you have to do it right and 90% of people they've just never
been taught how to do it, They don't know how to do it. I don't have time to get
into that in this video although if you'd like one on that let me know.
But just to avoid graphic tees because when you don't do them right, which again
90% of people don't, it makes you look like a teenager. That's not what
you want, that is not going to leave a good impression. So just kind of steer
away from that. But you are looking for a shirt that has really good shape.
Remember to press your shirts. This makes a world of difference. Like this is the
difference between "Whoa! That guy is sharp and confident and amazing." and
"Mmm, looks kind of sloppy." So you want to make sure you press it. I did mention
this in a previous video, if you don't like to iron because, you know, I don't
like to iron so I totally get it, just get a handheld steamer. I will put a
link to that as well on that blog post so you can check that out as well.
Now here is a fun of fact for you. Science actually tells us that one of
the most attractive colors on men, if not the most attractive color on men, is
actually red. So consider getting some red shirts. Again, I have some links you
can check out. Another color that is amazing, especially for like a first date
situation, is the color blue. Interestingly enough most people, their
favorite color is blue. Fun fact for you. It is also a color that makes us feel
like someone is very trustworthy so consider adding a lot of red and a lot
of blue to your closet. The truth is, I have to say these are probably my very
favorite colors on guys. When guys wear red and when they wear blue it is
super super attractive. Now let's talk a little bit about what pants to wear in
the warm weather. Now some women prefer shorts, some women do not. I'm not getting
involved in that debate. However, like I mentioned, I know that a lot of you
live in really warm areas of the world and so for a lot of people shorts are
like your go-to. So nothing wrong with that as long as
you wear the right kinds. Guys, wearing the wrong kinds of shorts
is terrible. Like it just kills the attraction.
Wearing the right kind is sharp and attractive and appealing. So really good
rule of thumb, do not wear short shorts. Please promise
me right now you will not wear short shorts. Guys, it's just not
a good idea, okay? Take my word for it, do not wear short shorts. Try to keep them
at knee length, okay? The other thing you need to know is make sure they just
have a good fit. Overly baggy pants are never a good idea and you want to
stay to some neutrals. Neutrals are your friend
all the time. Do not do like pattern shorts, that's like a huge no. Again, I
have pictures to this in that blog post be sure to check it out. But the right
shorts are super classy and will really leave a good impression. Now let's talk
about shoes. Again, the right shoes are really really attractive. Now if you saw
this video you know that I have mentioned before to make sure you wear
dress shoes. Obviously, if you're gonna wear shorts that's going to look stupid
so don't do that. Anytime really you're
going for like a summer look, the right shoes can be more casual, but not too
casual. You want to make sure they look really really sharp. If you are looking
for like a closed toe shoe, the right kind of sneakers are super super
attractive. They have that summery vibe and it's just casual and fun. One thing
to note when you're wearing like closed toed shoes, especially with shorts, is
make sure you have a no-show sock. Don't wear socks that they can see, okay?
That just looks really really dorky. Again, I have some pictures for you of
some really attractive shoes and some of those no-show socks and it will be super
helpful. Make sure though that you are coordinating your shoe color with the
color of your pants. You don't want to wear like brown shoes and black shorts,
it's gonna look really silly so just pay attention to that.
And if you are going to wear sandals, which is totally okay, make sure that they're
like a high-class sandal not like a really dorky sandal. I have
some examples for you that will help you a ton. Now before we get to the next item
I want to hear from you in the comments. I have been thinking about doing a video
on men's fashion over 50. If you would like to see a video on that be sure to
comment "OVER 50!" in the comments so I know to make that for you. And some of
you have been asking how to do like the country boy vibe. And honestly a lot of
what I have already mentioned will work great for you, But if you would like me
to do a video specifically on that be sure to comment "COUNTRY BOY!" and I
will know to make one of those for you as well. okay, two more items, and guys, do
not underestimate the power of attractive accessories. Our next
item is actually sunglasses. And guys, there is science behind why
sunglasses are so attractive. When you wear sunglasses, it just takes it to
the next level. It's like boss mode, it's super hot, super attractive. Obviously you
need to know make sure you're wearing the right kinds, not like really cheap or
glasses that don't fit your face shape. I have several examples for you in
that post, be sure to check it out, but just having some sunglasses, it makes you
feel more cool, makes you feel more confident, and has really attractive to
her. I love it when guys wear sunglasses because they're just super super hot. And
the last one is a watch. Now I know a lot of people are like "Well, watches are
super old school now, right?" Guys, there's so much research showing that we take
people more seriously when they wear a watch. For some reason it just makes us
appear more confident, more reliable, and more attractive. So be sure to just
invest in a really nice watch and wear it
to really complete your look and really make your look look very polished. And
there you have it, five items that you can wear in the summer that are super
super attractive and that she will definitely notice and help her want to
get to know you better. As I mentioned before, one of the reasons you want to
make sure you're bringing your A-game when it comes to how you dress is that
it actually affects you and how you see yourself. So if you really want to be an
incredibly confident person, knowing how to be a boss at dressing nice is key. Be
sure to check out my online course How to Get a Girlfriend where I teach you a
ton about men's fashion and confidence and a whole bunch of other things you
can do to be a very attractive confident man and get the girl of your dreams.
There's a link in the description below. The truth is, it's actually really easy
to get your dream girlfriend as long as you have the right skills, so be sure to
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again my amazing friend and have an amazing day. [blooper beep]
Okay so let's just talk for
a minute about how amazing these glasses look. I'm just saying, they're awesome.
I think I should do the whole video like this, don't you? Hi guys, Melanie here! [laughter] Okay
that'd be weird. [laughter] Never mind. [laughter]
Now before we get to the next item I want to hear from
you in the comments. [forgot what to say]
[laughter] Yes I do. Okay.