Tripp Kramer here from TrippAdvice.com.
What does it mean when a girl is missing you?
What is she feeling?
What is she thinking?
We're going to go over that today.
Then I'm going to be teaching you how to create it.
One of the reasons why I made this video is because you want to create distance.
Distance creates attraction.
Let's get into it.
A girl is missing you and she's thinking about you.
One of the reasons why a girl is gonna be thinking about you and missing you is because
you guys haven't been spending a lot of time together recently.
I know this is a very common sense, but a lot of guys don't create the distance when
they're dating someone, even when you’re
on a first date with someone, and more importantly,
when you're in a relationship or a marriage.
You want to create that distance.
This is going to create a little bit of mystery, so they can think about what is this person
up to?
What is he doing?
What's he thinking?
What's happening?
When you spend too much time with someone, you know exactly what's going on, how they
feel, how they're thinking, and it doesn't become a mystery anymore.
It doesn't become exciting.
You want that excitement there when you guys are not together which creates that.
I'll give you some formulas in terms of the type of distance you want to create between
you and the person you're dating.
First, you have to understand that it's not just about creating distance, it's also about
creating attraction.
She needs to be attracted into you when you guys are together.
She needs to have this awesome time.
It doesn't have to be completely mind blowing like every time you guys get together, you
do something exciting like going bungee jumping and going out to a nice dinner.
Every once in a while, that's fun to do, but really, it's about you being able to create
attraction with this formula I talked about called TED - tension, entertainment and dominance.
When you're doing that while you two are together plus creating the distance and you guys aren't
spending too much time together, this is what creates massive attraction in her being like,
oh, I gotta see this guy, I got to text him, I'm gonna call him, I gotta meet up with him
because I want to see him and I don't know what's going on.
I'm so excited when I do get the chance to see him.
Quickly, TED - tension, entertainment and dominance, these are the three things that
you're going to be doing every single time that you are with a woman.
I know it sounds like, Tripp, this is a lot of work.
Really, it's not.
Once you understand how to do it, and you do it and practice it over and over, you're
going to become a natural at it.
Tension is creating sexual tension.
Make sure that when you're with her, you're flirting with her.
You guys are touching and hopefully having sex.
Creating that sexual connection is the difference between you and a friend.
That's T - make sure you guys are doing that flirting and having a good time.
Entertainment - make sure that you're having a good time.
If she's always hanging out with you and you're in a bad mood or you're not having fun, she’s
not going to be having fun.
Make sure that you are enjoying the moments that you guys are together, whether that's
making yourself laugh and cracking jokes, or just doing the things that you want to
do and talk about the things that you want to talk about.
Make sure you're enjoying it.
That's E.
D is dominance, that's going to be leading.
Hopefully, you're the one who's leading the interaction.
You're asking her out, you're telling her, hey, let's let's go do this, what do you think
we should do this?
You're the one who's coming up with plans and ideas, and leading her to the bedroom
for you to be able to have sex.
That dominance is very masculine and attractive.
Combine all this stuff when you guys are together, and then create distance between you and the
girl.
The way that you create distance is this, make sure you're not texting her all the time,
and you're only texting her for things that are super important, like you guys meeting
up together.
If you first start dating someone, make sure you're only seeing them one to two times per
week max.
Then when you get into a relationship, this should be three times and even four times
just pushing it per week, but three times is nice.
It can be anything, it doesn't have to be three, it can be one to three times, but at
least there's four, five or six days that creates the distance between you two.
Please don't be texting all day because that is not going to create the mystery and not
going to get her to miss you.
When you're in a relationship, and you guys are seeing each other a lot or maybe you guys
are living together, this is where it gets a little bit more tough.If you're living together,
make sure that there's three nights per week where you guys are separated.
Maybe she's doing something with her friends, maybe you have your own hobbies, doing your
own thing.
Create that distance.
Never spend more than three or four consecutive days with a woman because this is going to
make it boring and stale.
You want that separation.
You want to keep the spark going with that mystery.
My program Hooked which you can check out at GetHerHooked.com goes way more into detail
about how to create that attraction when you guys are together.
The distance part is easy, but how do you really get that tension, entertainment and
dominance going?
That whole formula is explained in the program along with a bunch of other bonuses that teach
you how to continue a conversation and how to get her more sexually interested in you.
Go to GetHerHooked.com so you can learn more about that and go deeper into those concepts.
Every time you're with the girl, boom, you're sparking attraction, no problem.
Then after that, it's just rinse and repeat.
If you have any questions, write them down below.
Let's hear from you.
Don't forget GetHerHooked.com to get the program and I'll see you on the next video.