A lot of clients, a lot of women come to me with one major complaint.
Mark, they say dating is boring.
Dating is monotonous.
Dating is a waste of time.
In today's video, I want to give you three ways to make dating more fun so you can actually
enjoy the process.
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We've all had dates, which afterwards seemed like a real waste of time and energy.
We kind of regret spending all that time on a person and it was no fun.
So we go, well, why do we want to do that again?
What I want to really help you with today is to enjoy dates no matter what's going on
and no matter who you're with, so that you can access those areas of your mind that that
you'd not just enjoy dating but enjoy life.
The reality is, even if you talk to guys on the phone, not every date is going to be perfect.
There's not always going to be great chemistry, so I still want you to have the ability to
make that a positive experience.
Especially though if you're dating online, it's essential to know how to do this and
have fun no matter what.
So number one is say no to boring date ideas.
It sounds so obvious, but I'm amazed at how few women actually do this.
A guy suggests dinner or movie or both and they go, well, that's not, I guess I'm going
along with it.
That's the only option.
You can say no and redirect him.
The text, uhm not really feeling a dinner, but how about we do something fun?
Keen for_____?
Is a fantastic text that shows the guy, yes, still open to meeting with you, but I don't
want to do the boring stuff.
Blank, by the way, can be anything.
Whatever you enjoy.
Blank can be frisbee.
Blank can be a walk at Southbank.
Blank can be ice cream or the games arcade or going to the adoption center when you pretend
to be married to Pat Kittens.
Blank can be literally anything you find fun.
The point is, it's not dinner, which brings me to number two, which is have places you
know you love.
We all have places we love, I have places you have places where we can go and we're
happy just from being there.
Maybe it's a view up the top of the cliffs or maybe it's a little boutique coffee shop
or diner that you love or maybe it's a park or somewhere that enriches us where even if
we went there on our own, we'd have a great time.
Know what those places are and use them for dates.
When you're always relying on the other person to have a great time, first of all, you could
be waiting a while and second you're really giving over your power to that person.
You're basing your experience on the company and because the company is unpredictable,
your experience becomes unpredictable.
Instead, use an environment that you know you're going to love.
And that way, even if the company is not perfect, you're still going to have a great time.
And that brings to number three, which is sometimes the company is not perfect and the
guy doesn't pick the best location and you go with it.
So what do you do in those scenarios?
Well, this isn't just a great dating tip.
This is a great life tip.
Access your inner child.
I think all of us don't have enough fun in this world.
We all take dating way too seriously, we take life way too seriously.
And dating is the one aspect.
It's your free time.
It's the one aspect where you have blanket permission to have absolute fun and act like
a child, not in an immature way, but in a playful, fun, vibrant, curious way.
Bring your in a child out on dates, but not just down on dates.
Bring in a child out at work.
Bring your inner child out at home, around your family.
Science has consistently proven consistently the workplaces that foster a playful, fun
environment are more productive and report higher happiness scores than those workplaces
where life is always serious.
You will always be able to have fun if you can access your inner child, not just on dates
but in any area of life.
Go out in the rain, climb a tree, jump in the trolley, make a, make a role play with
him about some dumb joke that you guys are married.
Go and chase a lizard, or or look, wander down a path you shouldn't be going down.
Connecting with your inner child won't just make you a better date and ensure you're having
fun on dates.
I promise you, it will relieve stress and anxiety in your life and make you a better
human.
Well, thank you so much for watching.
I hope you enjoyed.
Let me know your thoughts.
Do these date ideas, improve your dates?
Love to hear your feedback, thoughts, comments, questions.
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