Hey, what's going on Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. On today's video,
we are talking about how to just completely nail it on a first date.
And I want to give you some flirting tips to be able to do so. A lot of guys who are on dates,
they tend to make some mistakes and it's mainly because they're too nervous to implement some of
these tips. I just want to let you know, you do need to have a little bit of courage. This stuff
isn't hard. But I know that guys don't do some of the things I'm about to tell you because they're
so nervous on a first date, or any date. Also, I should mention, these are tips for a first date,
second date, third date, fourth date, and so on. These are also tips for cold approach.
Most of these tips you can use when you meet a girl on a cold approach, whether it's a bar,
a grocery store, sidewalk or something like that. You can implement these as well so t's
going to help you. If you feel like you're still struggling with this and YouTube videos are just
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called Hooked and it's going to help you. There's an actual full module all about first dates that
dives even deeper into it. It's called First Dates That Lead To Sex and you'll get access to that,
plus all the different other scenarios that you're going to find yourself in when you're dating and
meeting women in this program. Check it out, link is down below. Let's get to it. The first one,
eye contact. I bring it up in probably about 70% of my videos. You probably heard me say
it a billion times. But I have to. I have to keep repeating it. I'm not going to just make
up new tips for you. You got to have the stuff that works and eye contact freakin works. It
is the number one body language tip. If you're not giving her good eye contact on the date,
then she has no reason to be able to connect with you. It is very weird when I'm looking over here
and I'm talking to you but I'm not looking at you. I'm looking over here. You can tell
that now it's like where is he looking? I don't understand. Or I'm looking down. It's very
strange. Eye contact is number one. If you're going to take anything away from this video,
it's always eye contact. Again, I talk about it so much but I have to. Number two, this is
some more of the physical stuff, not necessarily something you'll do on a cold approach. But again,
we're just talking about dates here. I like the sandwich. I call it the sandwich. The
sandwich of the beginning and the end. What happens in the beginning, what happens at the end.
Hug in the beginning, kiss at the end. Always a hug in the beginning and a kiss at the end.
There are some rare circumstances where maybe it's not going to happen depending on how you
guys connected. But I highly recommend that you go for a hug in the beginning to establish a physical
connection between you two and then a kiss at the end to let her know that you are interested
and that this is not some sort of friend date and this is something where you are going to continue
to escalate with her. So she sees you as a guy that is going to be continuing escalating with
her because you're interested in her in a sexual manner. You have to make sure that
you're getting some of that physical in. A lot of guys ask me, especially in my coaching program,
a lot of guys are like, "any escalation tips I should use when I'm with her on the date like
touching her arm or touching her knee or something like that?" And I don't want you to think too hard
about how to touch her on the date. Make it happen naturally. If it happens, it happens. I feel that
you could ruin the date. If you're too robotic about it and thinking about escalation processes.
That's why I like to give you simple tips. Hug in the beginning, kiss at the end,
keep it simple. Next, more flirting stuff here. We're talking about push pull, push pull.
My favorite technique, the best technique for flirting where it's like you metaphorically
push her away, metaphorically pull her in with your words. For example,
you'll pull her in by saying this line. A good line is, "I think you might be my perfect type."
And then the push would be "except..." This is a great line. "I think you might be my perfect type,
except..." And that except can be anything you want. It could be something that you said
earlier that you didn't agree with. It could be "except... I don't know, this style that you're
wearing is just not my style. I'm kidding." So something about her where you're like "okay,
I like you, you're my perfect type. But except for... you know what, those earrings have to
go." But you have to be smiling during this because if you're going to be too harsh about it,
she's going to be overly self-conscious and think that you're an asshole. We got to stay away from
that altogether. But it's a nice line, a nice push pull line. You can use that. Another way to flirt
is by getting deeper and connecting with her more by asking her personal questions.
Good time to talk about my book real quick if you don't have this, which you should. It's called
Magnetic. In one of the chapters I talk about how to basically how to not run out of things to say
and how to ask certain questions that are going to get her connected to you. You don't have to get
the book to get what I'm about to talk about right now, but it's in my book. "The 36 questions That
Make Her Love You", which is a study that was done where people sat in front of each other, looked at
each other in the eyes and asked very personal questions and answered them. By the end of the
study, a couple did actually get married. People who did not know each other prior to the study.
These questions are proven to help you connect better with people. If you want to get them,
I have a video on it, or you can type into Google "36 questions about love" and you'll
find them right there. Or in my book, I do recommend a few. In fact, you know what,
let's give you one right now. You can ask her... "what is your favorite memory of all time?" That's
just one example. And that's one that's in these 36 questions. Sounds a little cheesy,
but I think it could go. I think it could be fine. "What's your favorite memory of all time?"
Again, this is getting you two to connect deeper. That's why you're asking her questions like this.
And you ask her a couple those questions on the date. She's gonna ask you them back, you
guys are gonna connect, you're gonna build more rapport, and it's gonna help with the connection.
My next tip is teasing. But you're only going to want to do this lightly. I don't want you to do
this too much. I'll give you an example of what teasing looks like. Teasing is like push pull,
but it's a little bit more push and then the pull is gonna be you smiling because it's gonna
be obviously a joke. She's gonna know okay, he's just kidding. He likes me. He's just teasing me.
Here are examples of a few teasers that I came up with. Ones that I've used in the past. If you're
on a date you can talk to her about what she was like in high school and before she even starts to
tell you, you can say "wait, let me guess. I bet you you were a total nerd in high school, weren't
you?" And then she'll be like, "oh my god, how did you know? I totally was." Or she'll be like, "no,
I wasn't." And she's gonna be very playful with you and you're being playful with her. Here's
another way to tease her. I call this a tease, but also a challenge. You can say, "you're not one
of those girls who never cooks are you and just orders out all the time?" Again, you don't have to
use these but it's trying to give you an example of what you can do to just give her shit. Give her
shit about something and you do that a few times and it's like taking her back to the playground
where the boys and the girls would tease each other even though they really liked each other.
This shows that subtle interest and spikes emotions high and gets her attracted to you. More
tips on this and exactly how to completely kill it on a first date and more dates in my Hooked
program. Check it out. Why don't you have it yet? Over 2,000 guys do. It's going to help you. Go to
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see you on the next video. And my friend, do your best and kill it on the first date.