Hey there. This is clay with modern love.life. And in this video, we're going to be talking about
five signs. Your ex genuinely cares about you. Now the whole process of saving a relationship can be
challenging and difficult for a lot of people. I've talked about this before, but pretty much
every situation that I've encountered has a lot of these ups and downs and twists and turns along
the way. It's barely ever just a straight line of just like normal standard linear, consistent
progress to getting back together. Usually it involves a lots of ups and downs and twists and
turns and confusion. And Hey, I don't know what's going on. This is weird, all that sort of stuff.
And so what we want to do is we want to, uh, know that we're making some progress here. Now let's,
let's go ahead and hen get into this because there are a few things that you can look at.
Um, however, as, as with any of the other videos on this channel about, you know,
signs, things to look for five things for this or whatever this is by no means an exhaustive
list. These are just five things that I'm going to be talking about today. If you don't see all of
these, no worries. If you only see one or two, no worries. If you don't see any of these, it doesn't
mean it's a lost cause either. It just means that nothing that we happen to be talking about today
happens to line up with your situation. Um, but anyway, let's go ahead and get into this. So
the first sign that your ex genuinely cares about you as they take an actual interest
in your life and things that you're up to now, this should be pretty obvious. But if your ex is
taking an interest in what you're doing, what's new with you, uh, taking notice of things that
you said that are coming up for you, certain deadlines, certain events and things like that.
And they're actually taking an interest in it. Um, then that obviously shows that
they're interested in you and that they care about you. Um, if they didn't care about you,
they wouldn't be very interested in what's going on. What's coming up. Um, if, if that thing that
you said you were doing is happening or not, or how it went, they, they just wouldn't care.
And so if they are taking an interest in you and your life and things that are happening in
your life, then yeah, that's obviously a sign that they care. The second thing is that they
remember or bring up, you know, small memories or small things about the two of you or,
or something like that. You know, whether that's like they remember, Oh,
you like this particular song on the radio or, Oh, you, you, you always wanted to go to this place.
Or, um, Oh, I remember that time that we went to this place and this, this
interesting thing happened. Right. And when I say memories, I'm talking about like the small
memories. You're not like the big ones, like, yeah. Obviously I remember that we went to
Hawaii. How could I forget? Right. But do you remember the time that you went to eggs and things
in Hawaii and you had to go up to the second floor and you ordered the guava syrup on the,
on the pancakes and you just couldn't stop talking about it for days and days and days.
There's just a couple of things like that that you might want to think about. Like,
are they noticing these like little tiny things that seem to resonate with you about you,
about your moments together, about your time together or things like that.
These show that their care, if they didn't care, they wouldn't be looking at these things.
They wouldn't be bringing up these things from the past. They wouldn't be remembering these
things. Okay. So are they noticing these small things about you? Are they noticing these small
things about, um, your time together? Are they remembering things? Are they remembering little
things that you like or don't like, et cetera, this shows that they care about you still,
the third thing is that they try to impress you. Now I know that this might be hard for some people
to believe, but your ex might actually want to impress you. I know that a lot of people have
this view of their ex is this perfect person that they put up on a pedestal. And obviously I don't
recommend that you do that for a lot of reasons that we've talked about in other videos. But,
um, it doesn't just go that way. You know, your ex is obviously a human being who
has their own fears and securities drives, desires, hopes, um, all that sort of stuff.
And as a human being, they might feel a little bit insecure around someone that they are attracted
to. That is right. They are attracted to you. The two of you, if you were into an actual
relationship where there is actual attraction and romance and all that stuff, they were probably
still attracted to you. Most likely they still are. Uh, you can just switch that stuff off, but
many times emotions come in the way and cloud that attraction from being able to do what it does,
which is to bring two people together. So if your ex is trying to impress you by maybe dressing,
well, maybe, uh, you know, standing up straight or, uh, you know, bragging about certain
achievements that they're going through in their life, or, um, other sorts of things like that,
then, uh, that just shows that they care about you and they care about your opinion.
And they're trying to do their best to seem appealing to you. Okay. Um, by the way, if you
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go ahead and get started. Anyway. Um, the fourth sign that your ex genuinely cares about you is
that they connect emotionally with you. Now, obviously we've talked about this in other videos,
but a lot of times people have a very difficult time connecting emotionally other people,
especially these days when we're all, you know, kind of connected
to our phones and social media, which has giving us sort of a social Labatt.
Additionally, there's a lot of places that are under locked down. Many of us haven't really had
much human interaction in the past year or so. So, um, w th there, there might be some issues when it
comes to connecting emotionally, but if they're trying, and if the two of you actually are able
to succeed by connecting emotionally, if you are actually able to initiate the connection with them
and facilitate that, then, uh, that can be helpful too. But if the two of you are
connecting emotionally, then chances are they care about you. It's really hard to connect emotionally
with someone and not form, uh, an emotional bond with them while you actually care about them.
It's extremely hard to connect emotionally with someone and to just be like, okay, cool. That's it
goodbye. See you never, um, we, we, we, when you see someone, when you see their humanity,
when you see the fact that they're afraid of something, when you see the fact that
they're nervous about something, when you see the fact that they want something that they,
they, you know, are hurt by something that they're frustrated by something that they're
feeling one way or another, you start to see a little bit of yourself in them.
And the more of yourself you see in someone else, the more you naturally start to care for them.
And so if you're connecting with them on an emotional level,
and if they're connecting with you, then that shows that they actually do care about you.
Okay. And the fifth sign that your ex genuinely cares about you is that you just kind of believe
that there's something there right now. I know that we can go through a lot of signs. A lot of,
if they do this, then that happens. If they don't do that, and that doesn't happen, but, you know,
look at yourself. What do you think on a gut level? Do you think that there's
really something there, if you do think that there's something there, and if you do have this
hunch that they really do care about you, then chances are they probably do, right?
Most of us have a pretty good intuition. And so, um, if you really do believe that there's
something there, if there's something deep down inside telling you that there's something there
there's some kernel of, you know, potential possibility there between the two of you,
then chances are there probably is. And the two of you do care about one another. There's just
obviously emotional obstacles that need to be navigated in order to actually bring the two
of you closer together and get the two of you back together. Again, again, that's what the
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