Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. On today's video we're
gonna be talking about why women reject you. I pretty much sum this up into
3 different categories of why they're rejecting you, why they don't
want to be with you and you might be falling into 1, 2 or possibly even
3 of these. Let's get into it right now. One, an obvious one that a lot of you
guys always comment on in the YouTube comments is that you're not physically
attractive to her. Now I'm gonna be very specific here. You're not physically
attractive to her. Some women they just have this idea in their head of a guy
that they want to be with in terms of what he looks like.
That doesn't necessarily mean that that guy is even gonna get her because
it's more than just looks but still a woman is like "no I want a guy to look like this.
This is the type of guy that I'm looking for. I want him to have blonde hair.
I want him to be these color eyes. I want him to have this face shape." It's even
true that a lot of women are attracted to guys that look like their father.
Not exactly like it but resemble in terms of how they're built. Either way, she
might be rejecting you right off the bat because she knows that this is not a guy
that I want to be with because she knows that this is not the look that she's
going for. Now let's move on to number 2 really
quickly because this is gonna all connect together. Number 2 is that she
is not attracted to your personality. Basically she's not emotionally and
attracted to you. Now here's the thing, this is the one that's most
important because even though a guy might be physically attractive to her
and like I said some girls have a type in their head. That doesn't mean all
girls have that type. They have an idea but some girls are really
keen on it. But either way, if you are the physical type of hers but you don't know
how to get her emotionally attracted it's not gonna work. Where the reverse is
actually true. Meaning that if you can get her emotionally attracted but she's
not necessarily physically attracted to you, she can
become physically attracted to you through the process of you emotionally
attracting her. I spit out a lot of words there. This might be confusing so
let me just lay this all out for a second. When you're talking to a girl and
you're displaying your personality and you're displaying your behaviors, that
goes farther than looks. That goes farther than looks. I've worked
with clients where I've taken them out and helped them approach women
and done phone coaching and things like that and these guys were very handsome guys.
Your typical good-looking guy, but they're still were not able to
attract women. Why, because the common denominator here the thing that is the
most important is displaying the behavioral traits. Those go further
because women are wired to be attracted to that. Do most women say they want to
date a tall guy who's fit? Yeah, they do but how many couples have you seen where
the girl's taller than the guy? I don't know about you but I've seen it a lot.
I've even seen girls say "if he was good enough" in terms of like a
good enough guy who emotionally attracted her and he was shorter,
she would still go for him. So just understand that. Still here these are
the two reasons why you might be getting rejected is she's not physically
attracted to from the bat and you're not getting her emotionally attracted
because you're not displaying your behavioral traits correctly. Let's go to
number 3. I'd say number 3 is the most common one. Why you're
getting rejected and why she doesn't like you. It's because you are being more
reactive than proactive. Meaning you're going into an interaction or
you're meeting a girl and you're letting her take over. You're
maybe a little bit shy, you're letting her dictate the conversation, you're
asking questions so you're giving all the work to her to answer the questions
and talk to you as you're trying to get to know her.
You're really putting it on her. That's being reactive. You're more
reactive to this situation instead of taking control and being more proactive,
being more dominant and leading the interaction all the way to the date,
to sex and beyond. You see, it's your job as a man to
do that because that's the masculine trait that she's attracted to and if she
doesn't see that, she's gonna reject you. Or she's gonna put you in the friend
zone which it's pretty much the same thing. Some guys will wait too long to
initiate, some guys will wait too long to ask her out, to move the interaction
forward and that's not gonna work because she's looking for the guy who's
fearless, who's gonna take action, who's gonna do it. This is why she's
rejecting you. She's not physically attracted to you, you're not making that
emotional connection and you're not being proactive in the interactions
where you are meeting women. Guess what I have for you.
Boom! Magnetic. My new book where it teaches you how to optimize
your appearance (that's in Chapter 2 by the way) and how to create that emotional
connection (that's the whole book we're talking about that) and also how to be
more dominant and more proactive in your interactions. If you don't wanna get
rejected anymore, I want you to check out this book. The link is down below yes I
wrote a book! It's time for you to check it out. It's on Amazon and I want you to
get it and it's very reasonably priced and it's 168 pages teaching you again
how to not get rejected. Like it says here become rejection proof. Check it out!
I want you to read it and I also want you to leave a review on Amazon.
Even if you hate it. I want to hear the review. I want to hear from you so leave
a comment down below. I want to hear from you there. Check out the book and remember
the 3 things we talked about today so you no longer get rejected by women
and start working on those piece by piece. See you on the next video.