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well hey yo guys and welcome to China
now today I'm talking about Chinese
girls you know I am the first foreigner
to ever make videos about China on
YouTube and so from the beginning I've
always gotten questions from people who
are interested in dating Chinese girls
who are perhaps thinking about getting
married to Chinese women and just
general questions from other foreigners
who are curious about Chinese girls and
so I'm going to answer the question that
I get asked the most still even though
I've made a video about this years ago
and that question is our Chinese girls
easy how guys as you can see the weather
today is absolutely terrible there's a
typhoon here so every once in a while
the heavens open up and we get drenched
but then like now I think it's safe for
me to put the umbrella away the rain
goes away for a little while so anyway
let me answer the question first our
Chinese girls easy the answer is yes
they are and - no they're not and there
are quite a few different factors you
have to take into consideration now the
reason I say yes is because as a
light-skinned foreigner like myself a
white person or someone with lighter
skin getting into a relationship with
the Chinese girl it's actually fairly
easy now if you are black or Indian or
Pakistani or any kind of a brown or
darker skinned person it's going to be
more difficult for you I'm not saying
it's going to be impossible but it will
be a lot more difficult now no problem
it's okay now the reason why I say it's
a lot more difficult is because yeah
there's a camera over there see
everybody has very curious yeah cool
I'm making a video yeah I'm making a
video I want to ask some of my Chinese
friends if they think that white
foreigners or black foreigners are more
handsome do you do do you think our
white Ferno or a black foreigner is more
handsome yeah why Guarani China by Byron
hai Saharan to be DIY by India
okay thank you okay excellent thank you
so much for your help thank you hey nice
to meet you my name is Winston yeah cool
really your deep friends from the nether
tryna human really oh oh yo who the
Shiva oh thank you your English is very
good too okay okay well thank you very
much sir
okay bye bye okay as you've seen there's
an actual example of it happening in
real life Chinese people do think that
white or light skinned foreigners are
more handsome than black of dark-skinned
foreigners in fact my friend C milk has
just done a video about this incredibly
racist advert that's just gone viral all
over China well all over the world it's
being shown in cinemas and on TV here in
China please go take a look at his video
he actually interviews a black guy and
asked his opinion it's worthwhile
looking at yeah to me I think so anyway
back to the topic at hand so as a white
foreigner you will actually find it
easier to get into a relationship with a
Chinese girl for various reasons number
one like I said they think that white
skin is more attractive and this is
actually part of Chinese traditional
culture for thousands of years now
lighter the skin the more
or hang on the reins kind of coming back
the light of the skin to Moreira
socratic or I should say the more
upper-class you are and that is because
typically people who do sort of
labor-intensive work out in the Sun and
I mean people like laborers people like
farmers they tend to have dark skin from
working in the Sun whereas people who
are diplomats or who are office workers
you know or who are princesses princes
etc have whiter lighter skin because
they spend all their time indoors
so just traditionally even before they
were introduced to people from the West
they always preferred wider skin or
lighter skin I should say number two
foreigners are exotic and it works both
ways think about it most people in the
West think that Asians are exotic right
they think well it's something different
but here in China of course you see
Chinese people every day as you look
around me all you see is everyone's got
the same color hair same color eyes same
sort of features so if you get someone
who's got facial hair like me like she
pointed out a little earlier someone
who's got different color eyes maybe
blue eyes maybe green eyes maybe light
brown doesn't matter something different
it's exotic
so it's something interesting and it is
definitely more attractive or very
attractive to local women here I know
what I'm talking about and if you don't
believe me you can just take a hike
hello hi I am making a video yes I'm
just making a video to show some of my
friends I want to ask you do you think
that white furnace or black foreigners
are more handsome which one burn of
black border yeah which one do you think
is more handsome early okay thank you
all right well thank you very much
yeah yes say you say hello
great thank you so much very friend man
with Ukraine come my friends come from
America and England what are you oh yes
I'm from England
yes I thought so that's cool
gentle oh really thank you thank you you
were in stringent honey
yes yes I work here yeah well what's a
job
oh I make videos as my job and also I
try to teach them doctors teach them
doctors yes so you're met a math teacher
yes yes how about you what do you do we
had sisters earn a college student okay
cool
okay we applying for jobs here oh cool
that's a good idea engines great yeah I
think so it's my start time to
accomplish engine and it's a very
ancient and a young City yes I think
it's a lot of opportunities for us oh
yeah for you oh that's great that's
great
oh oh no not here in Dongmin I work in
nanchang nice shine yeah take photo yes
of course you can please please go let's
take a photo together okay
whoops okay I'll take my umbrella down -
okay all right go ahead you go
okay and you - yeah great let's take a
photo together
Oh my name is Winston what's your name
very nice to meet you Lucy oh I've been
in shinjin for ten years yeah yeah yes
that's right yes yes that's right
okay all right good luck bye bye nice to
meet you
cool okay now there's something I really
want to clear up over here I'm not
saying that Chinese girls are going to
prefer foreigners over local Chinese men
because there are plenty of really
handsome Chinese men successful handsome
well-to-do Chinese men that Chinese
girls will definitely be interested in
as well what I'm saying is from the
perspective of a foreigner like myself
who is a light-skinned foreigner getting
into a relationship here in China is
fairly easy and this is something I know
from my own experience I'm married to a
Chinese woman in fact in the beginning
of the video the lady who says welcome
to another video that's my wife she's a
doctor she's from the mainland she comes
from shop one about a couple of fairly
serious relationships here in China as
well I'm not a Playboy I'm not the kind
of guy goes out there and plays the
field and tries to conquer as many women
as he can I absolutely detest that kind
of person I'm not that kind of person so
I've only had a few relationships here
in China like I said a couple of serious
ones so I'm speaking from experience if
I wanted to get into a relationship I
could have just chatted to those girls
for instance who came to talk to me
earlier I could have asked for their
numbers I could have invited them out to
coffee could have taken it further of
course I'm married I'm not interested in
that sort of thing
but I just want to show you as an actual
demonstration there you saw it for
yourself it's fairly easy as a or as a
foreigner to get into a relationship but
now when you're in a relationship there
are quite a few things that you're going
to have to be aware of because it's not
easy this is the part that's not easy
you know I said Chinese girls are easy
but they're not here's the part that's
not okay first of all China mainland
China people are still actually very
traditional here even the younger people
they may themselves may not be
traditional but their parents and
grandparents certainly are so they have
a lot of traditional pressure put on
them so as hip and how can I say
open-minded as they may seem they still
have a family that's constantly
pressuring them to get married and
constantly pressuring them to do all
these traditional things and hang on
rain rains picking up again now because
of all this family pressure this
traditional family pressure what you're
going to find out is that secretly any
Chinese girl that gets into a
relationship with you is actually going
to be thinking about marriage it may
sound strange to a lot of you guys out
there the people in China get married
very young part of the traditional
family system here and typically when
you get married the parents move in with
you and then they look after your
children and then when they get too old
you're looking after them it's the way
it works here something you have to take
into account
you can't expect China to have the same
sort of Family Values as we do overseas
so even if you get into a relation into
a relationship with a young girl in her
early 20s she's going to want to get
married fairly soon and even if she
doesn't personally want to get married
she's going to be having that pressure
from her family to get married very soon
and this is a big problem for foreign
guys because we don't want to get
married when we're 20 we want to get
married later on in life you know in
which way like 1335 whatever whenever we
feel it's right correct
that's how the Western world is that's
not how China is so remember when you
get into a relationship here with a
Chinese girl that marriage is going to
be on the cards whether you like it or
not whether she likes it or not her
family is going to be pushing her for
marriage so keep that in mind guys don't
get shocked if after a month you start
hearing little hints about marriage even
in a joking way because actually that's
what she really wants what he's got
apparently
the next big con to dating a Chinese
woman is the mistress and this is
something that's pretty much just
endemic it's a part of the culture here
as well because in Chinese culture
fidelity is not very good I should say
is that the right thing I don't want to
try and trash someone's culture I don't
want to upset anyone out there but it's
just a fact it's quite common for
Chinese men to have mistresses and to
cheat on their wives it probably comes
from the fact that they get married so
young
not knowing who they're getting married
to and they kind of fall out of love and
start looking for love elsewhere but
it's also part of business deals here
brothels karaoke bars that are actually
full of prostitutes it's part of the
norm here
it's not something that I want to shine
a light on that's not what my videos are
all about but prostitution mistresses
that kind of thing is a big deal in
China it's rampant it is everywhere and
so because of this there's a lot of
mistrust right guys it's time for me to
wrap up I don't want to stand here
getting soaked in this typhoon all day
so there are a couple of things I just
like to quickly check off before we
finish number one Chinese girls are they
easy they're easy to get into a
relationship with yes are they easy to
have a relationship with actually no
because of the big cultural differences
you're constantly going to have to work
on your relationship and expect to have
a real relationship don't expect casual
relationships our Chinese girls are
loose know the title of this video are
Chinese girls easy is a little bit
misleading that's not what I'm saying
I'm not saying that Chinese girls are
easy to get into bed they're not going
to hop into bed to do straight away you
know depending obviously whether they
low class middle class or high class it
depends it's just like anywhere else in
the world you get prudes you get people
who are lead you on you will also get
people who are very open to having
sexual relationships early on just
depends on who you meet do all Chinese
men cheat on their wives and girlfriends
no absolutely not of course you get
really decent faithful Chinese men I've
met quite a few myself
but like if you're a decent Chinese guy
I believe you're a decent Chinese guy
as a foreigner walking around in China
are you going to get women throwing
themselves at you yes and no depends on
you if you're a really handsome guy yes
you will
absolutely that goes for anyone even if
you're a really handsome black guy am i
racist for saying that Chinese girls
prefer lighter skinned foreigners over
darker skinned foreigners no absolutely
not
you saw I've just spoken to some people
here in public and the general consensus
is that they think white foreigners are
more handsome than black foreigners
am I an evil immoral foreigner whose
sole purpose in life is to bed as many
Chinese girls as possible
no absolutely not I'm married and I'm a
very faithful guy so let's put that to
rest done finally I would like to say
thank you to the wonderful people who
spoke to me today the random people that
came and spoke to me here on the street
I appreciated thank you for being
genuine and giving us your opinion
everybody out there I don't want you to
vilify these people this is the way
China is their opinions are genuine and
I think they're absolutely wonderful
lovely people and thank you guys we're
talking to me here on the street big
thank you to all of you who watch my
videos can't wait to see you in the next
one and as always guys stay awesome