Okay, do you... Do you even know where doubt comes from? Because if you don't, it's
eating up your greatness. And if you're not in that place, you're going to do
terrible. So let's talk about why doubt is ruining your greatness.
So, you already know inside of you that there's some really really good things
about you that maybe have seemed like they've
fallen away or dissolved or gotten covered up on the inside of you. But you
got... You got greatness inside you. Every human being has greatness. You have
greatness, I have greatness. Your neighbor has
greatness. But sometimes, you know, greatness can't get junk on top of it.
You know? And sometimes greatness can get distorted inside of us. And so as we're
talking right now about how to really help that greatness be alive
inside of you and really stop doubting your greatness, you got to understand
where doubt comes from. Doubt is an absence. It's an it's an absence of
something. It's an emptiness. There's like something not here. And when something is
empty then it creates doubt. You see your greatness that you have could be used
for a lot of things everyday. You can make better decisions, you could have
better relationships. You could probably make more money, you could probably be
have your house be more organized. You probably have a house. You know, your
greatness is going to be something that you really want to find and open up but
we've got to get rid of the doubt. And the doubt could be the fact that you
just don't realize what it is that's making you become literally this great
person. Now, I know one of the reasons why you probably clicked on this video is
because you don't really believe this even possible. But you know when your
friend doubts themself, you have a lot of comments to say. You know, when your
friend says, "I don't know if I can do this or not." You're one of the first
people to say, "Yeah, you can. Check it out." You can do good. You see you are a great
coach. You know, like you're like you're a life coach to somebody else. You got
great ideas, you got great compliments. You're motivating to your friend. You're
motivating to some of you care about. You you pull up all this motivational talk.
When somebody else is doubting their greatness and you fill in this space,
notice you begin to fill in that emptiness that's inside of them that they just
don't see it. So you try to bring up these comments. All these statements to
fill in that space. and you notice too. The more you start to talk about this
person's greatness. and then it starts to stack up on the inside. The doubt starts
to go away. Wow, hold on a second. We're literally finding here how you can build
yourself and so you can have that greatness to use every single day. How
rare is it that a person wakes up and goes "Wow, why am I so great?" How many
times do you do that? I don't you think you hardly do that.
Where you wake up in the morning and go, "I'm just going to sit here on the edge of
my bed. And I'm going to think of 20 reasons why I'm great." No. Most the time it's
after you hit snooze 3 or 4 times. Then you kind of roll out of bed. You're
kind of achy. You know, your muscles hurt, your back hurts, your neck hurts. And you
kind of you know, you head to the bathroom to go get ready for the day.
Greatness is not on your mind. It's a normal human being. We don't build and
find the evidence of why we're great. And that's why greatness can crumble. That's
why greatness can fall. That's why greatness has so much doubt.
Because we don't really build up a good size of list of evidence of why
we are great. And if I asked you why you're great, you would sit there and
search and search and search trying to find reasons why you're great. But if I
asked you why your best friend is great, Oh, you would come up with a list. You
would stack up a list. And you would have all these lists of items of reasons why
your best friend is like cool and they're like super great. And you would
just stack up this list. Now, check this out. If I go to your friend and I say, "Hey,
tell me why you're a great." They would say, "I don't know." And they would search
and they would think about it. And then I'd ask your friend why they think
you're great. And your friend will come up with this
big long list of all the reasons why you're great. So... How come you can come up
with their list, they can come up with your list and you can come up with this
list of each other's greatness. But when it comes to yourself,
you got nothing. Or maybe you got like 1 or 2 things but basically got
hardly anything. Your doubt and your greatness is because you don't have a
list. You got it about your friend and your
friends got it about you and you can pump up your friend and build them up
when they're in a doubtful moment or feeling discouraged. You can totally fill
in this empty space for them and help them. That's my friends or cool friends
is because they they build each other up. This way they talk to each other. What if
you took what you say about your friend and you started to say that about
yourself. Right? Wait? Shut the front door, right? What if you took what you say
about your friend and you woke up in the morning and you went, "You know what? Here
are some things that I really like about myself." Because man, I'm going to... There's
greatness all day long to make better decisions. Would be better with my
relationships. My performance is going to go up. I'd like to be able to pay my bills
and go play and have fun. I know what kind of life you want. But when you're
low on greatness, you're not going to have much to go on.
So, what you would say about your friend is what you say about yourself. And the
reason why we don't do this as people. You know, the whole psychological reason
why we don't talk good about ourselves to ourselves is because when we were
just young, were these little people, when we were little. somebody told us that if
we say that we did something good, we were told that that was selfish and
cocky. That you're selfish if you're going to talk about yourself you're selfish
and you're cocky if you compliment yourself. So we were taught at a young
age that that is a bad thing to do. And so we grow up not wanting to do the bad
thing by talking about ourselves. And then we have this big empty spot
inside of us. And we don't have a list or comments to say about our greatness. And
so we don't live up to our greatness. We don't perform up to our greatness. We
don't act up to our greatness. We can't even get there because we got this big
gap inside of us. And wherever there's a gap, it then gets interpreted as doubt. So
I think you today get to be the next person to change a terrible, terrible
wrongdoing that happened when you were a child. You were told the same thing. Don't
talk about yourself, don't compliment yourself. Don't act like you're doing
something good. Don't act that way because that's cocky and that's selfish.
And so, you've had a major glitch in your head. You've had a major glitch to not
find why you're good and why you're great.
I got to tell you right now. Today, if you think about your best friend and the
coolest people around you and why they're great. And you write down all
those things or you just even think about what you would say and how you
describe them. Right now, you start saying those things to yourself. You are going
to fill in this gap. You're going to start writing these
sentences in your head and gathering this evidence. So that there's no more
gap. Get rid of this doubt. Build this up so this wakes up inside you. You're going to
notice that you can do things you never thought possible. You're going to realize
you can change the way your lifestyle is. But until you start believing in
yourself, it's not going to turn out for you. It's just not. Because what goes on in
here affects everything you do each day. Everything. Comes from what's going on
inside your head. And if you are low on this, you're going to be low on performance.
If you're not good at this, you're not going to be your best out here.
So yeah, let's think about that for a moment. It's time for you to change. Time
for you to be different. It's time for you to quit following that old rule that
is literally cost you so much performance in your
life. Switch. Today's the day to switch. You
switch. Gather what you would have said to everybody else. And before you get out
of bed or even before the days over, you rattle through some of those things and
you say, "I am this. I am that. I am this." And just think of all the compliments
you give someone else and turn those into your compliments as it's time you
began to build a strong foundation. A solid strong foundation of why you're
great. Okay, build that strong foundation, right? I know. It seems so crazy but come
on. You want someone's got to start to help
you get better. So great comments coming to you starting today. And hey, if
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