FAKE RICH VS ACTUALLY RICH – HOW TO TELL THE DIFFERENCE.
If you want to tell the difference between the fake rich and the actually rich, you need
to make use of these two scenarios, to drive home the point.
Your next-door neighbour is one who seems very comfortable to you.
He is so quick to buy the latest devices, wears all the designers you can think of.
He is tall, with flawless skin, and he walks so confidently and seems not to be bothered
by anything going on around him, and of course, he has an excellent job, and he has some change
to throw around.
Or imagine this other situation where you are outside a hotel lobby, and this woman
with a model-like figure drives in with a new Ferrari.
She parks and walks out so majestically to the receptionist.
You really cannot stop staring at this point.
She must be wealthy, you think.
The two figures in these last two scenarios are so comfortable, handling the latest devices
and drive flashy cars.
But are they wealthy?
Are they fake rich or actually rich?
I mean, how can you tell the difference?
We live in a world where living for social media is a real thing.
There is a lot of fake posturing going on, mostly aimed at influencing the thoughts of
people and making think that they have the most perfect life you can imagine.
But how can you tell the differences between someone who is actually rich and some who
is only pretending to be rich.
Because let's face it, just about anyone can look.
With the right credit card and attitude, we can all look quote on quote “RICH”.
So in today's video, we are going to share with you tips you can use to spot a fake rich
person and also identify an actual wealthy person.
But before I continue with the video, I have a simple question for you guys?
Do you want to be rich?
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So this video is broken into two parts, the first part will talk about the 5 signs of
the fake rich and the second part will talk about 5 signs of the actual rich.
So let’s get started.
Sign Number 1: They Talk about Money, a lot!
This may not be surprising at all, as the fake rich don't have the money people think
they have in the first place.
A person is most likely to talk about what dominates their thoughts.
When a fake rich person is part of any conversation, he or she will most likely go on and on about
what they have and own, and there latest purchase.
Talking to a fake rich person can be very annoying.
(Comment below if you know what I mean).
Their lives only revolve around the idea of money, as if that is all there is.
Wealthy folks seldom talk about money; most of the time, they are on the lookout for smarter
people to learn from.
Fake rich people are so quick to speak about their financial successes even without you
asking, and you can be sure they will throw everything at you.
From how much their shoes cost, to what phone they are rolling with, to the car they drive,
where they're living and the parties they go to and so on.. are just a few examples
of what you may hear.
Aside from talking about money; They generally cannot stop talking about the general price
of things and how the economy is doing so bad, They will complain about how things have
suddenly become expensive, yet when you watch them closely, they still spend frivolously.
Number 2: A Constant Need for Validation.
Fake rich are so quick in seeking the approval of others.
They cannot stop worrying about what people think of them; they are always in need of
constant validation, and they are in endless awe of people who show them.
To the fake rich, everything is about impressing that person they feel is certainly below them
in the social system.
For them, more time and energy is spent on appearing successful other than actually putting
in the hard work to be successful.
The wealthy class does not bother with what people have to say about them; with them,
there is no need to show off on social media.
The real deal is if you are making money and you're happy with yourself, there is no need
to let the whole world know.
Number 3: They use complex titles for their job position.
This might appear funny, but this is also another way of knowing the difference between
a fake rich and an actually rich person.
They have the penchant for using complicated titles for the position they hold in a company.
Imagine you talking to someone and asking what they do for a living; then, they tell
you they are the director of “first impressions” in a company instead of replying straight
up, “I am a receptionist.”
This is mostly done to appear fancy.
They are quick to append the title CEO to their names even if all they are in charge
of is a small-medium scale enterprise.
The word ‘spin’ is useless in the real sense as many do not care, but the fake rich
pride themselves in doing this almost every time.
They are busy with finding a complicated title for the job they do, instead of focusing on
the job itself to earn the deserved promotions.
The wealthy are known to appreciate hard work rather than sugar-coating it.
Number 4: They always want to talk about themselves.
This is also another way of knowing the difference between the fake and the actual rich.
Fake rich people are quick to jump into conversations they are not invited to most of the time.
This is usually a good way of identifying people who are insecure about what they make.
You can easily spot this if you watch them whenever they are around anyone experiencing
success in any form.
The fake rich always want the conversation to be about them, people also notice this,
and they are quick to be tagged as douchebags.
Wealthy people want to know a bit about everything.
They want to ask the questions that matter and are always excited to hear people talk
about their journey and passion.
Number 5: They Always brag about the plans they have.
The fake rich always wants everyone in the room to know about the incredible plans they
have, which is guaranteed to bring in millions.
To simply put, the possibility of a fake rich person actually going through with their ideas,
even if they are good ideas, is very slim.
This is mostly due to a lack of self-discipline.
The fake rich is the perfect description of all talk and no work.
They always have that multi-million-dollar plan or idea every other time.
While the actually rich are super focused on the future and are so excited about what
it has to offer, they know that every great plan takes nothing less than a few years for
you to start reaping its benefits, not just a few months.
Part 2: Signs of the actual rich:
Number 1: The Rich are not Outgoing.
When it comes to identifying the actual rich, one of the things you will notice is that
they are not outgoing in any way.
They do not have anything to prove, so why should they be in our faces.
Rich people do not want to be at the centre of attraction, and this makes them harder
to notice.
They are not overt in their behaviour; a rich person would not seek you out in a room to
talk to you.
He is probably not that guy handing out his business card to everyone in the room; he
is not the guy making the rounds, nor is he the loud-talking guy in the room.
Rich people do not have a meet and greet agenda or a to-do list, they may be perceived as
rude by virtue of this disposition, but wealthy folks are one of the humblest people you can
meet, and you can be sure you will not see them trying to suit some schedule.
Number 2: They do not wear flashy clothes.
Many think every rich person is all about the expensive clothes and accessories they
own.
No, the rich are actually very humble, and although they do own some expensive cloaths
for important occasions, you will most likely find them wearing everyday wear.
They are simple people and who aren’t trying to impress anyone.
Even Mark Zuckerburg, the owner of Facebook, is known for his grey T-shirts.
This sense of casual dressing shows that the rich are not particular about setting new
trends in fashion.
But, If you keenly observe the rich, there’s always quality in what they choose to wear.
Pay keen attention, look closely, and you will notice the sophistication, the comfort
and proper fitting of there clothing.
The flashy designer logos aren’t evident, and they tend to wear darker colours.
Number 3: The Rich Only hang out with people who force them to level up.
The rich don’t make the conversation all about them, nor are they particular about
taking the spotlight.
Sure, you have heard of the expression, ‘if you are the smartest in a room, then you are
probably in the wrong room.’
Rich folks are all about seeking out those that are smarter than them; people they can
learn from readily.
Fake rich people, as mentioned earlier, are only concerned about making the spotlight
all about themselves.
Although this does not in any way mean the rich do not have cliques of their own, they
are most likely to connect with people they can learn one or two things from.
Number 4: The Rich Don’t Care if you have heard of them.
People seldom talk about this, but rich people do not live superhuman lives.
They live just like ordinary people, although far from being frugal, most rich people live
modestly.
The story was once told of an editor who met the superstar, the Weeknd.
On meeting him coming out of the elevator in a hotel, the editor was curious as to the
meaning of the long-chain he wore; the superstar calmly replied, it means Weeknd XO and gently
told him to google it.
In contrast, the editor was still confused as he thought he mentioned that it was the
weekend.
While he was sure, it was a Tuesday.
This lends credence to the fact that many wealthy folks are exhausted by the attention
they garner whenever they are out, and they try to avoid it as much as possible.
They do not want you to fawn over them, or ask for an autograph.
They are okay with you respecting them and letting them have their way quickly without
the unnecessary stares.
Number 5: They only want to talk about what they are learning.
As it is commonly known, in a bid for the rich to keep getting more productive, they
are not always interested in the small talks.
They only want to talk about what they are currently learning, the ideas that come to
them in the course of work, their experiences, and all.
Most people think the rich only want to talk about the last yacht they bought or the company
they just merged with.
No, they seldom talk about that; their conversations are mostly intellectual rather than practical.
Issues that rarely have anything to do with money.
They already have lots of it, so no need to be unnecessarily freaked-out about it.
In conclusion, some of the wealthiest people out there are the humblest people you can
meet, as earlier mentioned.
The fake rich just want to brag about their small achievements.
But with the wealthy, comes the actual realization that in the life we live in, there is more
to it than lots of money, so they do not feel the need to flaunt it at the faces of anyone.
When it comes to spotting the wealthiest person in the room, one very sure thing is that you
are not likely to meet them in funky or glitzy gatherings.
Focus on yourself and your skill, develop yourself in the best way possible, and the
rich will seek you out.
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With that said, thanks again, and I will see you in the next one.