Tripp Kramer here from www.trippadvice.com. You're gonna find
yourself sometimes in a situation where you just get attraction from a girl so quickly.
This means that you're probably out in a social scenario. Meaning, at a bar,
at a club, at a party. Something like that. And you're talking to a girl and it's
just going well very fast. She's very into and you can tell within just a few
minutes how into she is. She's giving you great eye contact,
she's talking to you, she's helping you continue the conversation, she's facing
you when you guys are talking to each other. So you're gonna come across a
time when that's gonna happen. But you're only gonna come across that if you're
talking to enough women and approaching enough women. If you're not, then you'll
probably rarely get to see this chance. If you get this chance, you have an
opportunity to kiss her very quickly. Here's the thing; do you have to
kiss a girl in five minutes? Do you have to do it very quickly? No you don't.
It's kind of novelty. But hey, if you have the situation where you could do it, why not
because yes that will help build attraction and more specifically, build
investment. Get her more invested in you quicker because you guys are making that
physical connection. I think also practicing this technique that I'm going
to show you in just a second is gonna be very helpful in terms of getting you out
of your comfort zone. A lot of guys will never go for a kiss that soon in an
interaction because they're scared of rejection. I say go for it if you think
it's there and risk the rejection because either way it's a win-win.
She rejects you, no big deal. It's good that builds up strength, that builds up
character to get that rejection. Or she ends up kissing you and it goes well.
Enough of the fluff, let's get to it. How do you do this? In what
scenario does this happen? This is gonna happen when you're talking to a
girl and within just a couple of minutes you can tell that she's interested in
talking to you. It's not like pulling teeth when you're talking to
this girl for whatever reason. Maybe she's into your look, whatever it is.
Maybe you're going up to her and you just have a lot of confidence and you've
done a lot of warm up approaches and it just feels really good
for her so you can tell that she's interested and attracted. What I want you
to do is once you can get that (well either way whether this is happening in
two minutes or 20 minutes) once you get that feeling, what I want you to do is
I want you to take her to a new location.
This psychologically makes it feel like you guys have been talking and hanging
out for a lot longer than you actually have
which deepens the connection and deepens the investment. So what I want you to do
is say to her hey let's go over here real quick.
And sometimes it can be for no reason at all but if you need a reason
you can say hey let's go outside, let's get some fresh air. Hey it's kind of loud
over here let's move over here. Hey I wanted to go get some water at the bar.
I want to get a drink at the bar come with me. Get her to move with you
and isolate her and get her into a situation where it's just you two and I want
you to grab her hand. Put your hand out, grab it and lead her to that place.
Be more specific in terms of where you're leading her. You want to
lead her somewhere where it's not by a lot of people. Yes I know I said
take her to get a drink at the bar but there could be no one over there.
So wherever you're gonna go, make sure there's not a lot of people around so
that she's gonna feel more comfortable in actually kissing you. So that's
what you're gonna do, grab her hand, go somewhere, find that place. And then talk
to her for like another minute or so (again she's already interested in you)
and then what I want you to do is I want you to just go silent. Don't say
anything. Wait for her to not talk either and I want you to have this kind of
stupid grin on your face. You're just gonna be grinning at her as
if you can't hold in this big smile you have and you're gonna be looking at her
right in the eyes. It's gonna look like this. Just like that and look at her.
Don't say anything. Wait for her to not say anything and
I want you to be very close to her in proximity and then when she's not
talking and you're not talking, it's gonna build that tension and then I want you
to go for it. And because you're already close to her, it's not gonna be really
weird where you have to lean over and do it. She's right there next to you
almost touching you. Maybe she's like three inches away and then go for it.
So that's a technique here. But here's the thing; obviously this is not
gonna happen with every single girl. You're not gonna do this with every single girl.
This technique only works but will work with the girls that you get that fast
attraction from. And this is really cool to do this. It's really good to be able
to understand where the girls at in the interaction and seeing okay she's
really interested in me right now and understanding that and then being able
to escalate and push it forward. A lot of guys are so scared, they won't get out of
their comfort zone, they will not push the interaction more forward and so I
think this is good practice for you to be able to do that. I also think this is
good practice because it's practicing empathy. Empathy is understanding how
another person feels. So you paying attention more on how the girls feeling
rather than being inside your head and how you're feeling and the anxiety
that's going on in your head. Focus on how she feels and that's when
they're gonna be able to pick up if she's very attracted to you or not.
This might not happen in five minutes but it very much can. It has
happened before. Lots of guys have done it. It's possible but like I said,
it might not happen that quick. It can happen maybe a little bit later. So even
if this happens 20 minutes later, 30 minutes later, whatever. You can still
go for and it deepens that connection because you guys are getting
more physically close to each other. I have a video of me and another girl
demonstrating how to build this tension. I call it Tripp's Tension Technique. It's a
free video. All you got to do is go down to the description and get this so you
can learn how to make that silence, build that tension and then go for the kiss.
And I do this in a little bit of a different way than I described on this
video and it's really cool. You can use what I talked about this video or you
can use Tripp's Tension Technique which will build the tension when you're with
a girl either at a bar or maybe you guys are at
your place, wherever. Go get that video. It's free, it's in the
description and I'll see you on the next video.