Hey, this is Mat Boggs, and in today’s video, I’m going to share with you seven subtle
signs that a guy likes you.
Number one is he tries to find out about your life.
He asks you what you did this past weekend.
He wants to know what it is that you like.
He wants to know where you’ve been, what you’re doing, and the reason he wants to
know those things is because that’s giving him ideas for when he plans a date on things
that you might possibly like.
the other thing is if, let’s say, he meets you at the gym.
He’s going to ask you, “Hey, do you normally come to the 6:00 PM class or what’s your
normal class?” because in his mind, he’s wanting to plan where you’re going to be
so he could see you again.
Number two: he’s anticipating being with you or meeting you.
This is when you’re on a date.
He’s the one who shows up early.
His hair is cut, his car is washed, right?
He’s looking good, he’s smelling good.
What that means is that he’s been planning, he’s been anticipating, he’s been waiting
for this moment with you and it’s important to him.
Number three: he talks about your imaginary “boyfriend.”
What do I mean by that?
Well, one of the ways that guys like to find out whether or not you’re invested with
somebody else or committed to somebody else, they’ll say, “Hey, so uh, how was that
concert?
Who’d you go with?
Your friends or your boyfriend or… what’d you do?”
They’ll just kind of throw out the boyfriend card and the reason they do that is to try
to investigate are you seeing someone?
Are you dating someone?
Because if you’re not, thumbs up for them because they can make a move and then ask
you out.
Number four is he texts you but it’s not just texting you.
He’s texting you kind of throughout the day at random times.
It’s not just late at night for booty calls or it’s not just when he’s lonely.
It’s you’re popping up in his mind throughout the day so he’s curious about you.
He wants to know what you’re doing.
And his texts often include questions.
And why does that matter?
That matter because he’s trying to further the conversation and the connection with you
to get to know you better.
Number five, and this one is not to be underestimated, he will try to be of service for you.
This means giving you his seat when he sees that you’re in heels.
This means opening doors, this means opening the car door, pulling out your chair, reminding
you if you forgot your scarf, “Hey, you forgot your scarf.”
The little acts of services, the little things that he’s doing is him trying to add value,
trying to be of value for your life.
Number six: he’ll invite you to play with him.
Well, actually as I say that, that kind of sounds a little weird.
Not play with him, but play games with him.
See, guys love to connect by playing games, by engaging.
So it might not be something you’re interested in, but just him inviting you into something
where he’s playing, it might be fantasy sports, might be Words with Friends, it might
be, “Hey, try to get this little piece of paper into that basket over there.”
If he’s trying to get you to play with him, that’s a good sign that he might be into
you.
Number seven is he’s going to try to impress you, right?
This might look like him telling you something that he’s doing.
“Hey, I’m doing this new cleanse I’m working on,” or, “Hey, I just signed up
for a crossfit class at 6:00 AM in the morning,” or, “Hey, I just went to this cool concert
with my friends.”
And so him sharing those things with you, that’s him trying to impress you, trying
to be a man of value in your eyes.
So what do you do when he’s sharing with you all of these cool things that he’s doing
and you’re wondering, “Why are you telling me this?”
Well, if you want to go out with this guy, you can try the softball approach.
Now, what’s the softball approach?
That means when he tells you something really cool that he’s done, say that you would
love to do that sometime, which is an open invitation for him to ask you out.
So for example, if he shares, “Hey, my friends and I went to this really cool comedy club.
It was awesome.
We had such a good time,” you can say, “Oh my gosh, the comedy club?
Blah, blah, blah?”
And he’ll say, “Yeah,” and you say, “I’ve always wanted to go there.
That sounds like so much fun.”
And just kind of leave it out there.
And most guys, if they’re interested in you, which if he’s sharing this with you,
he is, will say, “We should totally go.”
And it makes it a really nice, seamless, open way for him to ask you out.
So there you have it: seven subtle signs that a guy likes you.
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