[How to Attract Women Like James Bond] Dapper appearance, relentless charisma,
and raw appeal. No i'm not talking about me, i'm talking about bond
James Bond. No surprise that millions of men all over the world want to emulate the world's most
famous spy and we've all looked envious across the room to that guy with a beautiful woman on his arm
who just oozes charisma and sophistication and confidence just like double 07. i'm matt
artisan from the attractive man and if you aspire to be an international man of mystery
or just better with women then here are my 10 rules of how to charm anyone like james bond
number 10 is you must dress impeccably dressing well is a gift to others it shows self-respect
a mark of a man who cares enough about himself to make a concerted effort it is also a talking point
which sets you apart from the crowd for example imagine helping a woman carry her groceries now
imagine the fun that she'll have sharing that story of how a sharply dressed man for example
in a suit doesn't have to be a suit but just a really good looking guy who's dressed sharply
swooped her shopping bag from the ground compared to some random guy dressed average who just picked
up her cereal in the parking lot dressing well also shows status it shows that you're a boss
whether you're wearing a badass suit or a tux like mr bond or you're just dressed really nice
with a nice watch maybe nice rings and it looks like you spent some time and effort on your outfit
compared just looking average like everybody else or even worse having that old dad style
you got no right to wear new balance sneakers ever come on to me it really is the closest thing to a
magic pill because just by one little thing like changing your outfit to something more attractive
your attractiveness level goes way up so take some effort and work on your style my friends
next is hold your space and relax don't fidget and shuffle aimlessly when you're faced with a
negative situation for example if your joke falls flat or people are just flat out rude to you
the best reaction is no reaction maintain your space to show that you're in control relax and
sustain your bond-like response just think of how for example bond might be in one scene being
attacked by a hottie with a knife and in the next scene he's rolling around in bed with her
it's like nothing phases him and staying grounded amongst tension or adversity is one of the biggest
triggers of attraction that you can have and it's what of course we teach on our live workshops we
actually bring in models so that you can stand there in the tension and in the uncomfortable
situation of having a beautiful woman right in front of you so that you can get grounded
centered and turn her on number three is master your status you see there are two types of status
high and humble high status people keep their head up and they blaze a trail they are the
leaders whereas humble status people make friends but they don't tend to lead james bond types are
able to be high status when they get people to do things when they take charge and humble status
when they get people to open up and your ability to change status relies on your body language
signals for example when you're in high status you sit up you straighten up and you take up more
space you command attention you're not afraid to have all eyes on you when you're in humble status
you're smiling more you might even soften your body language just a little but of course you're
never gonna look low status by the way man make sure to subscribe to this video and click that
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next is practicing good manners not politeness however because politeness conforms to social
rules like asking someone how they're doing without actually caring whereas good manners
however is being present and fully focused on someone james bond makes a woman drop to
their knees simply because he is attentive making her feel like she is the only girl
in the world holding open a door commenting on a small detail remembering something she
said these are all signs of good manners remember where attention goes energy flows a lot of havana
looks like this it's crazy people are actually waiting to go into that little supermarket a
lot of these shops whether it's food or clothing are pretty much empty or they have very little
like the grocery stores have maybe 10 or 20 items clothing stores some of them are full but
a lot of them have not much this one's full for the most part but a lot of them you walk in
and there's like barely anything there not used to that communism thank you communism for
not giving us any variety here number five is deliver compliments correctly because surface
level compliments fall flat because women are bombarded with superficial commentary all the time
however acknowledging character or specific things about her that you really like is a lot better to
really set yourself apart compliment what people are doing or what you think they might be feeling
say why you complimented them and add a question to extend the conversation for
example you really have a playful edge i don't see that often have you always been like that
hi i'm matt do you have instagram yes or no what's up next take responsibility for the situation
because people want to follow someone who has a purpose and who knows what they're
doing someone who takes responsibility he makes decisions he's very decisive he's an action taker
so if you see a lady struggling with her bags for example make it your responsibility to help
and decide to pick them up for her next i want you to edge towards the knotty side
innuendo is one of bond's most powerful tools in seduction if the innuendo is sophisticated
women will flirt back and even if it's a little cheesy they will still probably laugh
little phrases like if you know what i mean or that's what she said can add a little spark of
sexuality to the conversation misinterpreting comments in a sexual way can also be really fun
imagine responding to that's a hard one with a sly smile or when she says she was up all night
replying with i bet you were at a sly smirk for added titillation
hopefully den doesn't blow away look at the waves crashing oh my god you can feel the water
i know i can feel it i can feel the waves all the way over here next surprise people and take risks
this creates a ripple in someone's day by just doing the unexpected for example holding your
umbrella up over a beautiful woman when it starts to rain or even giving a passer by a flower random
acts of kindness brightens everyone's day yours included and create magic moments that are very
memorable especially when you do things like that on a date think of the date as being an adventure
where there's surprises and she doesn't know what's gonna happen next that's gonna be really
memorable for her and it's gonna lead to a more romantic intimate level very quickly i
believe that's castro's boat behind me and over here we got all of his wonderful toys
next is don't seek approval which means i want you to maintain delight in what you're doing
because you enjoy it not because you want a reaction or expecting something in return
otherwise you act for the benefit of others and their whims remember that the act is in
the deed and not the result so if you want to compliment her just do it without any
ulterior motive or if you buy a woman a drink don't expect anything in return if you don't like
that then just don't buy her the drink and finally find the balance between saying yes and saying no
saying yes often leads to adventures and new opportunities saying no leads to purpose staying
on track and doing what you are supposed to be doing and staying focused because it keeps you
focused on your current tasks men often say yes when they mean no agreeing to going shopping
for example for hours and hours with her when they really don't want to or they say no when they mean
yes turning down a party or a social event where they could you know potentially meet
a lot of people beautiful women so i want you to find the balance between saying yes and saying no
i like these helmet football helmet taxis it's awesome we just left the war museum
and look man being an international man of mystery is not easy but these 10 rules will break down all
you need to align yourself with that 007 inside you try practicing one rule at a time until you're
consistent with it soon it'll be second nature and you'll be going out there and living the life of
jim's bond well maybe not exactly like james bond hopefully you won't be in danger life-threatening
situations every day but hopefully you'll be more charismatic confident and you'll have beautiful
ladies in your life and you can get more expert advice on increasing your charisma and confidence
by downloading my free confidence cheat sheet that gives you 18 different ways that are approved by
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