amanda tadi teenager from canada i had put out the video on youtube kind of
explaining some of the bullying that she went through all she was in high school
it turns out that she had some sort of an exchange with a man on face book
apparently he flouted hurt flattered her to chat too
the point where she flash ten on camera
took that image and then year later another man i don't know if it's the
same and it seems like it might have been another man contacted her and said
i know your address and your parents names and know what's which school you
go to
and unless you do live show for me
i'm going to make sure that everyone sees this muted image of you
well uh... she panic she went there inside the apparently he didn't go
through uh... with his uh... threat and setback image out to a bunch of people
that she knew and it is completely destroyed her life she had to change
schools
which led to another school attendance at have a fresh start
a bunch of girls from that school found out about that new picture
continued to ruin her reputation these kids were absolutely cruel to her they
were horrible to her
she actually in the schools again and the exact same thing happened
and uh... eventually she took her own life
yeah uh... uh... somewhere along the way approach overgrowth school
here are
anthony's laughter there before mike from
that something starts on rome
just so so
higher
change was going through
it's it's also the breaks my heart to hear the story uh...
and you know you look at this because there is a very like this is an
attractive young cruise with things for which is having the camera live in
and you know having
uh... you mean popular at school but
uh... i mean is it just
under a lot of fun in our life
but i'm still
horrible for her feel horrible for her family i still horrible for her as well
in her family and in the they did everything they could to get in to help
if she needed because
she was severely depressed
they went to counseling uh... she was taking anti-anxiety pills anti
depression hell's whatever it
whatever she needed to kind of
through this obstacle in her life and she couldn't get through it n
they are really two different issues here one is an issue we've talked about
extensively and that's the bullying issue any other issue is the new
pictures the sex scene you know young girls getting
word into our being convinced to sent people strangers naked pictures of
themselves over the internet
i feel like
education is usually the best way to come back these kinds of issues so in
this case she's dealing with both problems right
got tricked into sending this naked picture when she was young right
disguise use it against her
we have to educate
young girls about the consequences of doing this trend and i know i joke about
a lot when it comes to adults i always say don't do it it's gonna end up on the
internet
but in this case it's considered child pornography
and it we really wins these young girls' lives and i i i i feel like this is why
comprehensive sex education is so important because
sex education is something that's constantly evolving of course
you're not only does it change okay i'm not talking to them that this is
something stupid like that
on-site i take it is not my favorite person so sometimes they can pull back
you know comprehensive sex education can touch on issues like this it can tell
young girls
look here here's something examples of what happened to teenage girls who
decided to send these pictures of themselves
through the internet or to their boyfriends or whatever it is
they're real consequences and we should discuss that when it comes to bullying
we need to have a lot situation differently
i'm tired of the administrators they don't do anything about it
obviously this is an ongoing thing with her
the administrators weren't doing anything about it they were allowing it
to happen
and it's unacceptable witnesses to get fired
apparently went bowling is an ongoing thing they don't do anything about it
sure that that's the that's the case here uh...
uh... there are some people
fifty two price
they definitely have a hormone balance whatever it may be
pictures dot
much more i think that for that
i'm not buying that uh... because and and and everything they could for her to
deal with the bullying
but my sense is the bowling was ongoing and there was no adult intervention
there was
there were there were no
real consequences for the police
if i didn't know straighter at that school
and a group of girls
go-around tarnishing the reputation of another student
you're in big trouble you're getting expelled ok in i'm talking to your
parents this kinda stuff is not going to happen
the environment schools right now is not that way
right now teenagers get away with staying in doing whatever the hell they
want especially when it comes to you know i've you know social circles in the
way they treat other students
and i'm not having it and we need to stop it and i feel like there should be
real consequences for administrators
who'd ignore things that happen on a regular basis like this
yes it's difficult to prove right so there needs to be proof there needs to
be documentation
i'm not saying like all my god student was believe we need to get rid of the
administrators in there needs to be proof for it
but obviously there some sort of break down here
and we need to solve that problem well look
yes if i agree that we should do more to help
the victims of bowling
we should do more to stop blowing off together or at least had of minimize it
uh... we need to educate people parents students teachers everyone
uh... all that is true
but in this particular case i don't know what more could have been done
missing nothing more for the the i don't know what would work could be done
that the reality is that every single year we have
uh... a number of teenagers taking their own lives and tommy then could we have
stayed i'm sure of the state's sabke we have saved all i don't know
and happens my question is
what she one of those teenagers that we could not estate because
uh... for whatever reason they are their to their twitch pain there are there if
they're just too far remove
their desire to live the fighter with their lives because
me in this instance
it seemed that the records are pretty obvious on behalf of the russian was she
was uh... you know subjective cruel off of work for alarm for time
but there are three that's the scoop
this is the link was that bad and you're really surprising whitish what if you're
if you do it that you're wondering like
what happened right at a lot of that has to do with you know
and she came in as well that's why i love
i love the it gets better campaign because when you're in it when you're in
high school and high school wasn't too long ago for me i remember
thinking like
this is this is the real world
right you think that you're gonna be with those people for the rest of your
life you're gonna have to deal with those people for the rest your life so
their opinion of you means the world but you have to find a way to get it through
their heads that no this isn't even close to reality you're never gonna see
these people again after you graduate unless you want it