- On YouTube do you see "Happy Couples"?
- Mr. Bee surprised his girlfriend with 100,000 roses.
- Hum
- 100,000 roses? (giggles)
- That's good.
(uplifting music)
- How did you see the world when you were a kid?
We brought in three couples to receive counseling
from kid therapists to see if a kid's perspective
could guide the couples through the relationship struggles.
- Do you know what a therapist is?
- I think a therapist is someone who helps other people.
- People or couples, if they're having a bad day
or if they are in a bad situation.
(soft music)
- Hi, my name is Isabel.
- Hello, this is Ruby, I'm Andrew.
- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you too.
- Hello, my name is Evan.
Hi Evan, thank you.
- Hello
- Are you Gavin?
- Yes. So how are you guys feeling today?
- I'm feeling good.
- Well, I'm feeling nervous. I've never done this.
- Same here
(giggles)
- We have a couple of things that we might need to work on.
- So I'm very, very different from my wife here, Kathy.
I love video games, a lot.
- Same here
- But, that means I also like to stay at home a lot
and just kind of do things, you know?,
On my own and play video games with my friends.
- Yeah. So I prefer going out.
So I like hanging out with my friends outside.
I like going out hiking, picnic, you know, the park?
- Yeah. I actually have a park by me.
I also like to ride bikes and stuff.
- Yeah. So our problem is that I like going out
and he'll prefer to stay indoor.
So every weekend we have, you know,
trouble deciding what to do
I mean, always argue about it.
- Wait. I have an idea, you know "Pokemon Go"?
It's like a video game, but you can walk around.
You can try that out.
So the first of the week, you play video games that he likes
and then the other 50 of the week,
then you'll have to do what she likes.
(laughs)
- Okay. Got you.
- It's 50, 50. - I like that a lot.
Right now it's 80% video games and 20% going out.
- So we have to split it halfway then.
- Yeah, I like that. That's fair.
- Yeah. Okay.
- So, What do you guys disagree on?
- What do we disagree on?
(laughs)
You have "Instagram"?
No. Well, we disagree on "Instagram" sometimes.
I don't know.
I sometimes have a problem that you don't like
to post me on your "Instagram".
You should be proud of who you're with.
Like you should want the post them. I don't know.
It is just sometimes it feels like he tries to hide me.
- I don't think that it's much of a big deal.
If you want to contact virtually you should,
use text messages, "FaceTime" or.
- Or "Zoom"?
- Yeah.
- "Zoom" me? (laughs) Yeah we could, I guess uh?
- How can I help you guys?
- I get a little grumpy when I have a bad day.
- Yeah
I come home and I do put it on her sometimes.
- And I don't know how to deal with this sometimes.
Like, I don't know how to make him not be grumpy.
- Do you know how we can fix that?
- Well,
- I would think probably like
if you guys have like other rooms,
you could go to one room and then you can go to one room.
- Yeah, Okay.
- It makes sense.
- And then when you cool down you can tell her all about it.
- Yeah. That's a good idea.
- Why didn't think of that?
- We never thought of that. So.
- Good suggestion.
- I feel like we sort of disagree on things
when it comes to like jealousy
and like fear of losing someone
Like all relationships end,
and it is going either end in break up,
in death, or a divorce.
- Are you afraid that I will leave you?
- No.
- Okay.
- Just wondering.
- So if you, if you guys had to choose,
Would you propose right now?
- Propose right now? What?
(soft straining music)
(laughs)
- Just straight up pull out a ring and propose right there.
- That's like you got to plan that. So I would no.
- No, if you had it planned though?
- Oh, if I had a plan, of course, yes.
But like, as of right now, just get down on my knees.
That wouldn't make sense.
- Well, I think of it like a rank, like karate.
Do you have like this belt?
(video game sound)
You're at the second highest ranking.
And then when you get married,
(video game sound) you go to the black belt.
- Okay. So you think it would be like a level up?
- Yes.
- Okay.
- I do have something else to ask your advice with though.
- Okay.
- So at home, we live together
and I do everything around the house
and he's great at cooking. So he does the cooking,
but I do everything else.
Do you think that's fair amount of chores?
- No.
- How can we make that more fair?
- You do 50% of the house and then he does the other 50%.
- Yeah, but cooking is a lot of work.
You have to chop the stuff.
You have to buy the stuff.
I cook every single day.
But you only clean every three or four days.
- I clean the kitchen every single day.
- That's true.
- Yeah, you have a point. I have an idea.
First teacher how to cook. Okay?
(laughs)
- That's true. Doesn't get any worse
- First start at eggs.
Even I can make scrambled eggs.
You just turn the oven on, get a pan,
break the eggs, scramble them up. Done!.
- Thank you for teach, so he should teach me how to cook,
I should help him cook more and
he should help me clean more.
- Yes!
- I love that!
- Her and my sister don't really get along.
- Yeah. And I'm not sure why, you know?
I don't know how to talk to her if she doesn't talk to me.
So how do you think I should try to befriend her?
- Probably get her like a gift and tell her
how you really feel like, I think you're not
like, being nice and probably say something like that?
- Okay. Well, Do you think she would want to to me though?
- Probably. Give her flowers on a card or like a Teddy bear?
Like most people do, kind of.
- Yeah, Okay.
- She loves "Nightmare before Christmas".
- Oh you see? Yeah! You should have told me that.
- Oh, there you go.
- Okay. (laughs)
- On YouTube. Do you see "Happy Couples"?
- Oh yeah. Mr. Bee surprised his girlfriend
with 100,000 roses.
- Hum
- 100,000 roses? (giggles)
- That's good.
- I guess she wants, like, a necklace or ring,
you should save up to buy what she wants.
- Okay.
- I think he does do that.
He surprises me a lot so I think that was good advice.
He's meeting those requirements right now. (laughs)
Well, I appreciate you taking the time out
to sit down and talk our problems with us.
- Thanks Kevin. - Thanks Kevin.
- We're going to find those games. Okay?
- Bye
- Bye. - Bye. Nice meeting you
- Nice meeting you too.
- Thanks Tom.
(giggles)
- All right.
- What do you think makes a relationship work?
- That they trust in each other
and to love each other
and not cheat on each other?
- I think love is a level beyond friendship.
- It takes a lot of hope
and a lot of responsibility and trust
to make a relationship work.
My best suggestion for games, "Among Us"
or "Friday Night Funkin'"
"Among Us" is is like, oh!, there's imposters and stuff.
And then "Friday Night Funkin'" is like,
it's like a beat game.
"Roblox" is pretty good because it has a whole bunch of
different games. There's a game called "Sims".
I don't really like it, but my mom does because,
it's like a real life, but inside of a game.
- So you think she'd like that?
- Yes. - Maybe we should try it out?
- Yes.