Having a cat is awesome, and sometimes you just want them to know how much you love them.
Luckily, there are tons of ways you can express your affection in their language, like, of
course….
#1: Playing games Cats spend most of their time waiting for
you to get back from work or school, so it's only natural that they crave your attention
and time once you walk through the door.
You can snuggle together, talk to them, or choose the activity your cat likes best: playing
games!
Pick something that your kitty can’t get enough of, whether it’s a laser pointer
they can chase or a toy with a special smell.
Of course, you can always try something new and play a game of hide-and-seek together!
Most cats get bored easily too, so it won't take that much of your time.
But your cat will certainly feel the love and look forward to your next playing sesh
together!
#2: Sleeping together Cats are highly independent and fierce creatures,
so they’ll never put themselves in a vulnerable position if they don't trust a person.
And when are you more vulnerable than in your sleep, right?
If your cat always curls up next to you, this means that it sees you as a protector and
someone it can trust its life with.
So next time you're about to watch some TV or take a nap, lie down next to your kitty
to show that you trust and love it too!
#3: Training No, learning tricks isn’t just for the dogs!
Cats are exceptionally trainable too, and training your cat is a great way to show affection
as well as strengthen your bond together.
What’s even better, they love a good mentally stimulating task!
Teaching your cat to do different commands and tricks will give it new interesting challenges,
and those little tasty rewards will make your feline friend see you as a caring provider.
Just make sure to start with simple commands, be patient, and never punish your kitty for
not catching on.
#4: Turning the faucet on Believe it or not, your spoiled little fluff
ball is still mostly driven by those natural instincts that helped its ancestors survive
in the wild.
“Ok, but what does this have to do with leaving the faucet on?”
Well, the thing is, cats subconsciously view running water as the best kind of water because
it's considered the safest option in the wild.
That's why your cat looks so happy when it drinks water from the faucet and doesn't seem
too excited when you pour it into a bowl.
Turning on the faucet and letting your cat drink from it shows that you understand and
respect your kitty’s innate needs and wishes.
Plus, some cats just like playing in the water!
#5: Slow blinking Cats are just like people in a lot of ways
– whenever they're with someone they love, they let their guard down.
And when cats feel relaxed and at peace, they start to blink way slower to let you know
that it's all thanks to you.
So if you wanna show them that you feel the same way, start blinking slower too!
Trust me, your cat will instantly get the message!
However, if you notice that your cat keeps squinting just one eye at you, it’s definitely
not a sign of affection but of a possible eye infection.
The best way you can show your love in this case is to get your pet to the vet ASAP!
#6: Nose-to-tail rubs Ever wondered why your cat often rubs itself
on your leg from nose to tail?
Hey, they’re simply claiming you as their personal property!
You see, cats release special pheromones from glands in their cheeks and rub this scent
on you to mark you.
So, giving your cat a couple of nose-to-tail rubs sends the same message, that you see
them as all yours too!
#7: Holding hands Cats are natural hunters with incredibly sharp
tactile senses.
That is, they love to touch, hold, and grab things.
That’s also why they really like it when you pet them!
But if you really wanna strengthen that bond even more, try to hold your cat's paw from
time to time when you cuddle together.
This is the ultimate sign of support, love, and affection that your cat will easily understand.
Sometimes cats make the first move by putting their paws on your hands, so definitely don’t
miss your chance to respond accordingly!
#8: Head bumping If you have a couple of cats or you just love
watching cat videos on YouTube, you've probably seen cats bumping heads against one another.
This is their universal sign for trust and respect.
And, again, it’s a way for them to mark what is theirs when it comes to their trusted
circle of human or fellow animal friends.
And if you do the same, your kitty will definitely appreciate it.
Also, if a cat bumps its head against you and then tucks it down or turns it to the
other side, it simply wants your attention.
If the food or water bowl and litterbox look ok, then perhaps it’s playtime again?
#9: Leaning in You ever tried to hug your kitty just for
it to run away from your loving arms?
Hey, don’t take it personally!
Hugging just isn’t how cats show affection – it’s a human thing.
As for cats, they see it as aggressive, kinda like a predator snatching them up.
The cat equivalent to a hug is leaning in.
But never initiate it first!
Instead, next time your cat presses against you as you're watching TV or something, press
a tiny bit of your weight back into them.
Just be careful – you wanna show Whiskers the power of your love, not crush him with
it!
#10: Saying your cat's name You know how psychologists say that we trust
people who say our name more?
Well, the same goes for cats too!
Make it a habit to greet your cat by name every time you come home, even if it doesn't
come to the door.
This will make it feel acknowledged, important, and loved.
This trick also works wonders when you need to explain to your cat that it did something
bad.
Your furry friend will listen way more carefully if you refer to it by name.
Hey, kinda like your mom did when you got in trouble as a kid, right?
#11: Voice mimicking Experts claim that a cat’s meows and purrs
are way more diverse than we think and can mean completely different things depending
on their tone and pitch.
So, one meow can mean “Come closer,” while another that sounds almost the same might
translate as “Go away!”
However, there's still something you can do whenever your kitty starts “talking” to
you (especially if it's in distress) – respond right back with something of the same tone
and pitch.
Or even better, sing to them!
This will calm your cat down and make it feel like you genuinely want to communicate with
it.
Speaking of which…
#12: Learning your cat's language Even though cat experts do their best to figure
out everything they can about cat communication, every feline is different.
And the earlier you understand how your cat expresses its emotions through body language
and meows, the stronger your connection will be.
When we love someone, we wanna know everything about them and dig deeper into their personality,
right?
Well, your kitty deserves the same attention and effort.
So spend time with your cat, try to find patterns in its communication, and your bond will be
unbreakable!
#13: Letting it be Cats really value their independence and often
need to spend some time alone.
So if your cat isn't that playful and rarely comes to you for cuddles and kisses, don't
try to force it.
Just let it be!
Your cat is just an introvert who wants to protect its personal space.
When your kitty wants some affection, it'll come to you for back rubs, petting, and games.
Once your furry friend will know for sure that you understand its introverted ways and
respect its space, it’ll fall in love with you even more!
If you know any other ways to show love and affection to a cat, leave them in the comments
below!
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