One incredibly attractive trait that men can't resist. One of the biggest things about this
is that most women don't do it, so if you do it, I guarantee men are going to be noticing
you, your attitude, and gonna want to take you out on dates. A lot of women, in fact,
a lot of people come to me with struggles in their life. Sometimes it's around their
struggles compared to their romantic life, so it's their boss or their neighbor or or
lack of time or a lack of money that is stopping them from meeting the man they want and desire.
Sometimes it's in other areas of their life. They can't make enough money, they don't have
enough friends. There's not enough time for something else. There's some kind of struggle
there that they're not dealing very well with and there's two kinds of people. When this
happens, the first kind complains about it, you know, it's a pretty shitty day here for
filming.
It's certainly not the best. I didn't want the background of my videos to look like a
horror movie, but this is what it is. And if I complain about it, if I sit here being
a victim, then it really doesn't do a lot of good for me and it probably doesn't have
you finding me with a very attractive attitude. And yet so many of us do this in our lives
with the problems that come up. The truth is the problems you have, define the next
step in your growth and when you can have, when you can have that in the right space,
when you can take that attitude towards men, men are going to find you unbelievably attractive
compared to other women who don't. Because when it's raining, you have a few options.
Number one, you can put up an umbrella. You can create a boundary around whatever is bothering
you in your life.
By doing this, you say, you know what? I'm not going to have this negative attitude.
I'm not gonna let this affect me and I'm going to put up walls with anything in my life that's
not serving me and not empowering me. That's pretty cool and it's attractive. Number two,
you can take yourself out of the situation. You can go inside, you can get under cover,
and any time you can distance yourself and get away from something that's not empowering
you, men are gonna see that attitude as attractive as well. And number three, perhaps most powerful
and sometimes most difficult, you can learn to dance in the rain, right? It was pouring
down here earlier. We still had a bunch of fun and really that's what you've got to do
in the difficult areas of your life. If you come to me and say, Hey, you know what, Mark,
I don't have time, I don't have money, but I figured out how this has empowered me and
how I'm going to get over it. I'm already thinking, wow, this person is a cut above.
So you can complain if you like, and you can be a victim if you like and let's be honest,
we all do that. I certainly do that at times, but if we want to be the most attractive people
we can be, the way to do it is to figure out how that situation empowers us, we can either
get away from it, we can put up a barrier or we can learn to dance in the rain. So whatever
the thing is in your life, I want you to think of the thing. What's the thing stopping you
from getting to your next goal? Is it a lack of time? Is it the fact that you've got two
kids and you've gotta be a mum? Is it the fact that your neighbor's constantly yelling
at you? Well, you didn't have to ask the question, what am I going to do about it?
Am I going to complain about it like most people do and be that an attractive personality
or am I going to learn number one to get away from it? Or number two, to put up a barrier
or number three to figure out how that empowers me. How does my neighbor yelling empower me?
How does that enhance my future? You answer to that, and you will have a more attractive
personality than almost anyone on this earth. This has been Mark from Make Him Yours. I
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