Heya playa, now that school is coming to an end and the summer is coming up, your routine
for how you talk to your crush is going to change drastically.
Don't worry though, there are still a few things that you can do to keep in touch with
your crush and I'll go through what they are right after this.
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It doesn't matter if you're in middle school, high school, college or wherever.
The summer puts a huge dent in you making progress in talking to your crush.
Chances are you fall within one of these three types of situations, so I'm gonna start explaining
from the easiest all the way to the hardest.
If you're in a situation where you're able to talk to your crush and meet up with them
in person quite frequently but not all the time, that's ok.
Even if you guys see each other once a week now or even once every two weeks, that's still
enough time to keep each other updated on all the cool things you're doing this summer.
Just because you're not seeing them every single day doesn't mean they're going to stop
paying attention to you and forget who you are.
When you meet up with them, you can fill them in on all the cool things you've been doing
the entire summer like going to cool places, exploring cool things.
And for those times that you guys do get to spend together, remember, you're not in school
so you have access to so many things.
Go hiking with them, go for a walk, go to the beach or just hang out, watch movies and
play video games in a room with the air conditioner on.
Now, if you're in a situation where you can talk to your crush frequently but you can't
meet up with them in person, this is a little bit trickier but there are still things you
can do.
The situation may play itself out where one of you guys are traveling a lot or you just
aren't able to take the bus, train or drive over to go meet with them, so what do you
do?
Social media is going to be your best friend here.
You can always Snapchat them pictures of what you're doing throughout the day, send them
DM's about cool things and questions you have, keep in contact with them so you guys don't
drift apart.
Message them every few days just to keep them posted on what you've been doing and to ask
them what they've been up to will keep you fresh on their minds so they won't forget
about you.
Plus it's the summer time so you can probably message them any time you want, they're probably
staying up late as are so you can have early conversations as well as ones going into the
late night.
But the hardest situation of all is not being able to seem them all summer long or talk
to them all summer long.
It's almost as if you guys are going to lead two separate lives for the next few months,
and technically you should treat it like that.
If it's someone that you like and you just haven't had the chance to get close enough
with them, well then you can use this summer time to focus on your own personal growth.
Go out and have fun, hang out with your friends, exercise, read books, do everything you can
to grow as a person so when you do come back from the summer, you'll be ready for them.
If you're worried that the little progress you have made in talking to them is going
to completely fall flat, well then I think it might just be better to start from the
beginning.
Coming back to school with lots of stories to tell and being confident enough to approach
them to talk about them is a surefire sign that you've definitely grown over the summer.
What do you think though?
How do you plan on keeping in contact with your crush throughout the summer?
Leave your comment below and we'll talk about it.
And if you're not just worried about talking to your crush throughout the summer and want
to know how to do things like make friends in places like summer camp or on vacation,
check out my video right here where I go more in depth on the process of interacting with
people, making friends and really making the most out of your summer.
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It can be a real drag to feel like you didn't make the most of the end of the school year
by not talking to your crush enough, and now that summer is here you're missing your opportunity.
Don't worry though, focus on your own growth, focus on learning, focus on teaching, focus
on experiencing.
Take that with you throughout the summer and back into the school year so you can be an
awesome person.
As always guys, love and peace.