OK, Jasmine, on tonight's episode,
Eris told you something that no wife wants to hear.
Let's see what that was.
The past few days have just been
a little complicated for me.
I'm trying to take the approach of giving you grace
because I feel like when it comes to our feelings,
we're different.
Right.
Like, I feel like we both are here for the same reason.
I just kind of want you to be aware
of, like, where my head is because right now, I feel
more of, like, a friendly vibe.
Yeah.
You said that things had been a little complicated.
That indicated it hadn't been smooth sailing.
Me and Eris were having conversations,
and then, we took our phones out,
and we follow each other on Instagram.
OK.
So we had a few mutual friends on Instagram.
And I was like, OK, cool.
I was like, how do you know him? He's like, da da da.
It's like, how do you know her?
He was like, that's our mutual friend?
I was like, yeah.
How do you know her?
He was like, I might have slept with her two weeks ago.
So, wait.
Two weeks ago, y'all been on the honeymoon a week.
Well, two weeks before we got married.
- OK, I'm just checking. - No, no.
I'm just checking.
Two weeks before we got married--
OK.
--they were dating.
So, where did the conversation go after that?
That must have been awkward. - Oh, yeah.
I walked out, and I gave him the silent treatment for
a little bit, just to process.
So this is the complications that you're talking about.
This is a lot.
I tried to catch my breath twice.
[laughs] clutch the pearls.
I did clutch my pearls.
Did he even tell her?
She told me he told her about what he was going through
and that they couldn't date anymore.
But going through the whole process, even when it
starts-- because it starts before the two weeks of getting
married.
Like, I've been preparing to be a wife for years.
And the fact-- it was just a little red flag for me
that, you know, you're still dating and living
your bachelor lifestyle.
We have had Eris on the show, and full transparency,
he was clear that he had slept with someone the day
before he found out that he was matched.
The curveball is that you knew her.
- I knew her. - Ooh!
Wow.
So, Stacia, on another note, do
you have any advice for Jasmine on how
to get out of the friend zone?
I would just say do things that try
and create some type of intimacy.
Play, like a game where, like, you have the little sex
dice where you can, like, kiss on the neck
or certain body parts.
It doesn't seem like either of you
have taken the opportunity to create the space of that.
It can allow the intimacy and the attraction to grow.
Exactly.
So we're going to leave you alone for a minute, Jasmine.
OK.
We're going to switch to Nicole.
Cool, cool, cool.
[inaudible] also had a little bit of a hiccup
during your honeymoon. - Oh gosh.
Let's take a look at that.
What's wrong?
Talk to me.
They told me I can't have the dog at your place.
Why not?
There's a two dog restriction.
I can't abandon them.
No, that's not an option.
Look at me.
I don't know the solution right now.
[mumbles]
But we will figure it out.
No.
I don't know what to do.
We got to talk about this, the breakdown boo-hoo.
I wasn't-- I thought somebody had died.
I'm not gonna lie.
You did too.
And you know, I'm a dog mom.
It's funny.
The situation was never funny and still is not,
but it's funny in the moment to be like--
Yeah.
--we-- it's like, you're in a tunnel.
You're so upset over hearing this news,
and he was just distraught.
And I'm like, OK, I don't know this man,
but I know I want to make it work.
So I'm going to do whatever it takes, and that's what I did.
Seeing him get emotional this early--
was there any piece of you that was a little concerned?
Like, oh, he's a little more emotional than I thought.
I'm just curious.
Honestly, no.
I'm a huge dog person.
Because I saw that he was so emotional over something that
was also so important to me, I was like,
this man really cares about the things he loves.
So, Sasha, what stands out to you most about--
yeah, you got to say something.
You have got to say something.
I mean, these dogs got y'all hemmed up.
I am not a dog person at all.
It's hard to understand. I get it.
I get it.
When I found out he was crying because of the dogs,
I was like, oh my god, y'all got me trapped in this matrix.
This is Justin all over again.
When I saw Sasha's face, it was almost like she
had like a flashback--
Yes.
--of that whole situation.
Let's talk about the dogs.
I know there have been some challenges with the dogs.
He was just like, no, she just doesn't like other dogs.
And you know, and I played it now.
So, Newton was just roaming, and--
Right.
--next thing I know, this bloody scene is happening.
It reminded me so much of last season.
Yes.
I'm going to stop you all right there.
But he went into this with two dogs not knowing I had a dog.
So, he throughout the entire process
said, my dogs are coming with me.
My dogs are coming with me.
And then he finds out your dogs are--
We get all that. It's OK.
We know you got your man.
She's like, y'all are not going to talk about my man, his dog.
Not today.