Hey everybody.
Mat Boggs here and I’ve got a special episode for you today.
We are here in Los Angeles and I’m helping to lead a training.
Part of what I do is I train and certify life coaches and help them grow their businesses.
So I wanted to bring you into this environment because I have a special message for you today.
So we’re backstage and we’re in the middle of a three-day training.
So come with me.
I’m going to show you what we’re doing and I think there’s something that you’re
really going to like, so come with me here.
This is backstage at our Life Mastery Institute training.
I’m going to come this way and we’ve got the team setting up here.
We are about an hour away.
This is the stage.
We have 300 people from all over the world.
People from Australia and Europe and all over the United States here to become certified
as life coaches, right?
And the reason I wanted to talk to you today from this vantage point is because each one
of these people – and we’ve been having an amazing time.
It’s just been awesome.
But each one of these people have made a decision in their life – and for many of them, it’s
a major life decision.
Like they felt the calling to be a life coach for a long time and it’s a scary leap for
them to make.
And this resonated with me and I want to share this with you because so often, we doubt our
decision-making, and when we doubt our decision-making, we don’t trust ourselves and it can be very
difficult for us to move forward.
And it’s natural for us to doubt decisions because every one of us have made decisions
in the past that haven’t worked out and have been painful.
And so the more you can trust yourself to make good decisions, the better life you can
life and the more dreams you can build and the better relationships you can build.
So I’m going to give you three signals that you can tune into that will help you determine
whether or not this is a great decision for you to move into or one that you should avoid,
right?
Specifically with your relationships and with guys.
So the first thing to tune into is that still, small voice and ask yourself, “Is this the
voice of discouragement or is this the voice of my dream?”
Right?
Discouragement will tell you, “You know what?
This guy’s too good to be true.
You know, I’m going to find out something that I don’t like or it’s not going to
work out and I probably shouldn’t even try because the other shoe’s going to drop.”
Versus the voice of your dream says, “You know what?
This is in alignment with what it is that I want.”
Which voice is talking to you?
The second one is the voice of fear versus the voice of fulfillment, right?
Are you making a decision of should you lean into this relationship based on fear, like,
“You know what?
I should probably stay with this guy because he’s the best guy I’m every going to get
and there’s nobody else out there and I don’t want to be alone.
I’m afraid of being alone so I should just stay there.”
Versus the voice of fulfillment, that there is something better for you out there, that
there is something calling you to be more, have more, do more, a more fulfilling relationship.
Which voice is talking to you in that moment?
You want to listen to the voice of fulfillment.
And the last one if the voice of worry versus worthy, right?
The worthy voice will tell you that you are enough for this amazing relationship, that
you are enough for the life that you want, for this dream that you’re going after.
The worry voice is that there’s something flawed in you like, “Oh, if I go into this
relationship, he’s going to find out something about me that he doesn’t like.
He’s going to leave me, so many I should hold back or keep him at bay or keep him at
arm’s length rather than really leaning in.”
Because the voice of your dream, the voice that will lead you into the relationship that
you want is more expansive.
It’s always for a freer, fuller, more expanded expression of yourself.
So notice: is this a fear?
Is this discouragement?
Is this a worry voice?
And if it is, that’s not the decision you want to make.
You want to lean into a more expanded version of yourself.
So my encouragement for you today is to make a decision that moves you in the direction
of a deeper, more fulfilled, amazing relationship that you’re creating for yourself, a more
fulfilling life that you’re creating for yourself.
So I’m glad you’re able to join me on this quick adventure that we’re having and
hold space for all of these amazing people here that are coming to follow their dreams
in becoming a certified coach.
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forward to seeing you again soon.
Take care.