It's Tripp from TrippAdvice.com.
I'm coming to you with another one of my little special presentations.
I'm excited today because we're going to be talking about something that guys asked me
about pretty much every single day.
I love when you ask questions because I get to answer them.
Today, we're talking about how to stand out with a girl over text.
Definitely have a lot of videos talking about how to stand out with a girl when you're in
person, but a lot of you guys are doing so well.
You've been watching so many videos and getting so many amazing results that some of you even
way past this point.
A lot of you are starting in a lot of numbers.
You want to know what the best way to handle text messages are.
Here's the thing.
A lot of people are also using these dating apps.
That's popular too.
You're getting numbers from there and that leads to texting.
You're even texting over those apps as well.
I wanted to go over how you can stand out with a girl over text.
There's a few cool techniques that I’ll be showing you today.
Before we get into that, I want to tell you about one of my blog posts.
I give you my secret tips to texting.
It's called from text to sext.
Actually, that's not right, It’s from text to sex.
If you want to check that out, go to trippadvice.com/ blog.
There's only a few blog posts on there right now.
You should be able to find it.
It’s the one all about texting, from text to sex.
Check it out, learn a few things that will go deeper and more in detail than the stuff
that we're going over today.
I'm pretty certain that the stuff we're going over on this little presentation is not on
the blog post.
Finish this video, watch this, then go to the blog and check that out.
Let's get into it.
Why do you want to stand out?
It should be obvious.
There's a lot of women who are beating a lot of guys, like I said, especially from these
apps.
We're meeting people through online dating or meeting people going out.
Women have a lot of chances to meet a lot of guys.
It is important that you stand out.
You have to be the one to stand out amongst the rest of the guys.
We're going to over some methods to be able to do that.
It's funny that there's a lot of guys out there who don't use these types of methods.
They don't really understand how to get a girl interested, especially once you get the
girls number.
If you can stand out what happens?
She's going to be more attracted to you.
She'll be more interested in going out with you.
That's what we want.
We want you to get the girl.
Let's go into method number one.
I call it the “Opener Recap Text.”
What is this all about?
The opener recap text is basically you recapping who you are, as the first text message that
you send a girl.
You don't have to do this.
This is more of something that's optional.
This is more of something that you can do if you meet a girl on an app, or it could
be anywhere, you met a girl in a bar, and she's probably giving away a few numbers.
You got to be the one who's going to stand out.
You do that with an opener recap tax, letting her know who you are in a witty fun way.
I'll give you an example in a second.
Let me tell you a bad way of doing an opener, of starting a conversation via text, a really
boring way.
It’s saying, what's up?
It's Tripp, or, It's Tripp, we met last night.
Or you don't even say your name.
You just say, what's going on?
Or Melissa, what are you up to today?
She's gonna be like, who the hell is this?
What the hell's going on?
These girls are getting a lot of numbers.
Here's one example of something you could do.
I just threw this together.
You can say something like, it's Tripp, the woodie dating coach who likes hypoallergenic
dogs and tennis, which is not necessarily true, but I thought it'd be funny to throw
that in there.
You don't want to lie.
This is supposedly a conversation that you've had with a girl.
You did talk about tennis and hypoallergenic dogs and you told her what you did.
She's going to remember who you are.
What you want to do is for her to remember.
You want to be able to pick out something that you guys talked about whether it was
something via the dating app, or something at the bar, or something if you met her during
the day.
Wherever you met her, something you guys talked about, and you can throw it in there.
It's going to have you show a little bit of personality, which is really fun.
It's gonna have you stand out because she's gonna be like, wow, that was cute.
Guys don't send stuff like that.
You can send something like this.
It knocks three birds with one stone, gets her attracted, lets her know who you are,
and at the same time helps you be different from the other guys who are doing some weak,
or boring opener text.
Let's go to the next technique, pictures, I'm sure you've sent a picture before.
It's so easy to do it with these phones.
You can send as many pictures as you want.
What's the point of pictures?
Why do you want to do this?
You want to send pictures, of course, not only to stand out, but to show her that you're
having a fun time, that you have an interesting life, that things going on in your life are
fun.
Everyone likes to see pictures.
She's gonna be able to connect with you even further if she sees what you're doing.
It's not just these text messages back and forth, she can actually see what you're up
to.
I have a couple of pictures here that I threw in from my cell phone that I thought would
be a good example of something that you could send a girl.
You can do something like this or come up with your own thing.
Here's one idea.
Here's me on a boat on Lake Michigan in Chicago.
I took that picture, is a really cool picture, kind of crazy that I was able to take nice
picture like that from my cell phone.
You do something like this.
We can do that these days, take these awesome pictures.
That was me on a boat.
You say something or you caption it with like, I'm on a boat today, check out my view.
Show her that you're having fun and shows her that you're thinking about her.
She gets a sneak peek into your life and you're sharing that with her.
That's what makes the connection right there.
Here's another one.
This one's a little bit blurry.
It's like a selfie.
This is me on a party bus with some friends, having a good time.
You send that.
This is an example of a picture that doesn't have to be as nice as Lake Michigan picture
to my left.
This is just like, I'm having a good time.
This is what I'm doing, thinking of you, thought of you, whatever it is, sending her like a
nice “this is me” selfie picture.
Those are always fun.
Here's another one.
This is a picture that I took when I was at a restaurant and the chef was creating this
crazy dish.
That's a fun experience picture You're doing something fun, you're doing some experience.
It's very specific.
You take a picture of it and send it to her like, look at this, this is crazy.
I wanted to share this crazy moment with you.
You can even do something fun when you send the picture and you don't say a word.
She was like, what the hell is going on here?
What's going on?
What is this guy doing?
Is this your friend?
Where are you right now?
That's another intriguing way also.
These are some examples.
Come up with your own.
Pictures are a great way to stand out over text with a girl.
You'll definitely appreciate it and get attracted.
Let's go to the next one.
This is my favorite one.
This is because seriously, no guys do this and every girl loves it.
I'll say this again.
No guys do this and every girl loves it, Mid-Text Call.
If you're ever in a pretty serious text conversation with the girl, and you guys were texting back
and forth, it's almost you're basically talking to each other like you're chatting.
This is not some asual texting where you text once, or maybe an hour later or the next day.
This is like you guys are having a full blown conversation over text.
What you want to do is give her a call right in the middle of that.
She's probably going to pick up 9x out of 10 unless she's doing something where she's
on an event and she can't talk that's why she's texting you.
Either way, give her a call.
She'll appreciate it.
Women want to talk to you on the phone.
They really like to talk to you on the phone.
There's minor exceptions.
There's some people out there who don't like talking on the phone, but most people do.
Give her a call in the middle of the text and tell her, I wanted to call you.
I wanted to stop texting.
I wanted to hop on the phone with you.
She'll appreciate it.
It's going to show balls.
It's going to show confidence.
At the same time, it's going to help get her more attracted, you guys can connect over
the phones than texting all the time.
You want to move from the texting to the call.
It's so important and you can do it in the middle of all your texting, calling it mid-text
call.
That's another technique.
Let's go to the last one here, intriguing statements.
This is a good one too.
Intriguing statements is you texting her something that's intriguing and it's not a question.
Very simple.
Instead of saying, how's your day?
Or what are you up to today?
Or what's your weekend look like?
That's so boring.
Everyone's asking those questions.
You can do that with a girl if you've been dating her for a long time.
That doesn't matter at that point.
We're talking about in the beginning of you guys starting to date and you are starting
to get interested in the girl.
You want to send her an intriguing statement.
You're probably like, Tripp show me an example.
No problem.
“Holy cow, I just saw the craziest thing ever today.”
This is something that you can send her, something along the lines of this.
Don't copy, make up your own.
Don't just copy this, try to come up with something interesting, intriguing.
Of course, you can't lie.
Don't send this and hope for the best, then come up with some lie.
Hopefully, there's something that you are doing that's intriguing.
Make it sound intriguing so she can get really curious and then text back.
You can send something along the lines of this, “holy cow, I just saw the craziest
thing today…”
Or you can say, “I saw the craziest thing ever today!”
Put an exclamation point.
Write something like that, so she can respond and say, wait, what is it?
Or what are you doing?
Or what's going on?
Then if you want to double up, what you could do is, you could send this, get her to respond,
see if she responds.
If she does, then you can send her a picture of the craziest thing ever today, which could
be this as an example, this picture right here.
That would be the craziest thing you saw today.
There you go.
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