- In this video, I'm sharing the top four traits
that men find so attractive, utterly irresistible,
in a high-value woman.
I'm Crystal from The School of Manifesting Love,
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So diving right in with these four top traits.
The first one is fun.
Men love women that are fun.
This is one that I could not grasp.
It was so confusing to me.
When I first got together with my husband, or even now,
when I would ask him, you know,
"What made you like me so much?"
Like, "What made me the one?"
And he'd always just say, "I don't know, it was just fun
"being with you, you're fun."
And I always felt like it's gotta be deeper than that.
It's gotta be something else, right?
And he just kept saying, "It was just really fun
"being with you."
I'm just like, "Other women are fun."
He's like, "I don't know, babe, you're fun, I like it."
And that's really a big part of what attracts any man
to a particular woman, and it's gonna make her stand out
in his mind, is does he have fun with her?
Does he feel good with her?
The word fun is the word that my husband used,
and is the word that I use, men use, over and over again.
But what this actually is coming down to is energy.
What is the energy from that woman
that a man is picking up on?
What does he feel when he is with her?
He likes feeling a particula type of energy.
Now every man is gonna have slightly different preferences,
but this good feeling energy is pretty universal.
Trait number two is passion.
Now some women are just passionate about everything,
and you can see their passion from a mile away.
Not every woman's passion is gonna look the same.
What being passionate really comes down to
is someone who is an active participant in life.
If you hate your job, if you're living in a city
that you despise, if you have a dingy apartment
that you're miserable with, you don't have friends,
if you just go from work to home,
and you watch Netflix by yourself every day,
you're not being an active participant in life.
Men can feel that.
When someone is bored with their life,
or they dislike their life,
or they feel like they're a victim to their life,
it's not an attractive energy.
You can be passionate about anything,
and it's not ultimately going to matter.
It's the passion, it's the energy,
it's that active participation,
it's that thing that you care about.
Someone who is passionate about something
can talk about something that you have no interest in,
but you're just like, oh yeah, tell me more,
because their enthusiasm is contagious.
It's exciting, it's fun to be around.
Passion is whatever is real for you,
and the truth is, is when you can embrace
the things that you're passionate about,
other people are gonna pick up on that energy.
So it doesn't matter what the passion is,
whatever it is that you love, that's true for you,
that's real for, embrace it, own it,
and speak about it so that people can feel what you feel.
Number three is independence.
When I'm talking about independence though,
I don't mean this attitude of independence
where it's like, I don't need anybody,
I can do everything on my own, I don't need you.
I'm talking about independence energetically
meaning that you have control over your own energy,
over your own emotions, where you know that you're okay,
where you can feel that you're okay,
and you're okay regardless of what he's doing.
It is a lot of pressure on a man
when you're not okay if he's busy at work,
or if he has to cancel a date.
Now obviously if someone's doing these things repeatedly,
and they're not really showing up for you,
it's probably just not a good fit for you.
A man has to feel that if for whatever reason,
he has to pull back, even briefly,
that you're gonna be okay.
If your whole world falls apart
because he's visiting his parents for a weekend,
that's not gonna be a man who's going to feel comfortable
getting closer to you, and committing to you,
and giving everything to you.
Because when a man falls in love, he gives everything,
he gives all of his energy, his time,
his money, and his resources.
Everything he does is for the woman that he loves.
But for a woman who is too demanding with her energy,
where she needs him constantly to make her feel okay,
the thought of that is gonna be overwhelming,
it's not going to make him feel like he's winning,
it's gonna be too much.
He'll pull back, that's not something
that someone's going to want.
So being in control of your own energy,
and of your own emotions, is very attractive.
The next trait that is very attractive
is a confidence and a worthiness.
But there is actually an energetic paradox
that the most attractive women hold.
So here's what I mean.
The energetic paradox is that on the one hand,
I believe that I'm amazing.
I have value that I give to the world,
I am worthy of whatever I desire,
I'm worthy of love, I'm worthy of respect,
I'm worthy about appreciation.
I know who I am, I know what I bring to the table.
While also holding on to the energy
that no one owes me anything.
I'm not entitled, so everything that I get,
I am grateful for, and appreciative of.
So it's this energetic paradox where you're just like,
I'm amazing, I should have everything that I want,
but also I'm not entitled to anything,
and you don't owe me, and if you do give me something,
when you give me love, when you give me attention,
when you take care of me, when you love me,
I am appreciative and grateful for it.
It's an energetic paradox that is very, very powerful,
and it's extremely attractive to a man.
So I wanna hear from you.
Tell me in the comments, what are some of the other traits
that you've seen men really be attracted to?
Maybe something that you've been complimented on before.
I hope you absolutely loved hearing these four traits
that men find so, so attractive.
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