What happens to humans is they're in a relationship they don't like and they're miserable.
They're in a job they don't like they're miserable.
They're in a home, they don't like they're miserable, right.
And what happens is that they don't know how to, it's not necessarily about stepping out
of it.
It's about mastering it.
Pay attention to how often you are being asked to let go of control.
Pay attention to how often you are playing the victim, and blaming other people.
Pay attention to how often you are ignoring what your intuition is telling you.
Be acutely aware of how often you're ignoring what your intuition is telling you.
Because here's the thing.
If you are in any situation in your life right now, that is making you unhappy and miserable,
but you have these reasons for being in that you can easily step out of victimhood and
into creatorship.
In that experience, you stepping out of victimhood and into creatorship and into an empowered
state doesn't mean that you step out of something that you're unhappy in.
Right?
What it means is that you take complete self responsibility for it, you're empowered in
it, you're choosing it, right you are you are beat, you're committed to it, I'm in this,
I'm choosing this unhealthy relationship.
Go ahead, girl, you go.
If you're choosing something like you're going to be in this marriage, right now, you're
only going to perpetuate your own suffering, if you complain about it, no one's forcing
your hand to be in that marriage, no one has a gun to your head saying you have to be in
this marriage.
So you're either committed, or you're not, you're either committed to your higher self
or you're not.
But you're going to make welcome, you're going to welcome in a lot of disturbances and a
lot of disruptions and a lot of discord.
If you're fighting yourself, I'm choosing to stay in this job that I can't stand Great,
that's very different.
That's a very different energy.
Because your higher self is going to cheer you on, it's going to hold you no matter what
you're doing, okay.
But on an intuitive level, you're going to know this job isn't for me, okay, great.
But when you're in the job that you don't like, you're miserable in that job.
If you can find yourself in an empowered state, I'm choosing this, I'm choosing the way I'm
responding, I'm choosing the way I'm walking into this job, I'm going to choose it until
I have the strength to step out of it.
Right?
When you when you find yourself doing that, you will find yourself out of it much faster.
Just as you said, I'm gonna, I'm gonna find the strength to step out of it.
What I heard is you won't even have to step out of it, because the universe is going to
eject you out of that situation.
Because if you've already mastered that realm of working at Starbucks, or wherever and nothing,
nothing throws you off your center.
Yep.
And you're of no use there.
Exactly.
You're of no use.
Yeah, you master it.
But this journey isn't just about the people around you.
It's about your constant and continual expansion.
So if the universe feels like it can't promote you into a higher level within that job or
within that relationship, then of course, you're going to get ejected out of that situation,
because you've become the master within it all.
And now you're going to go master another game where you crack this is that you, you
literally empower yourself in it.
So you start to say to yourself, I'm choosing this, I'm choosing this, because because when
you start doing this, you're not going to stay in it for very long, you will if you
will get ejected out, right.
So you're you're it's almost like you're becoming the Jedi, right?
And so you're like, I know how to play this game.
I'm in a relationship.
I can't stand but I can't seem to get out of it yet.
Because I'm afraid or I don't have the money or I don't know where I'm going to go.
Okay.
So step one is you start to recognize that this is a choice.
I'm choosing.
I'm choosing this, I'm choosing this every day you say to yourself, I'm choosing this
and then watch how your ego is going to say, No, you're not, you're not choosing this,
you have no choice, come back to I'm choosing it, I'm choosing it, I'm choosing it, then
you start to choose how you are going to respond in it, how you're going to feel in it, how
you're going to think in it, right, you start becoming empowered in it.
Because then as soon as you do that, you're going to find yourself elevating out of it.
You're not going to be stuck in it, you're not going to be tied to it.
You're not going to be in like the spider web of it, because you're going to start to
find yourself, recognizing what the whole thing is through.
Stepping out of victimhood through empowerment through choice And then you're going to be
like, holy cow.
I'm way up here time to go drink and you're going to exit out without it without a plan.
Without any idea.
You're gonna, you're gonna grow out of it.
I'm getting that when you outgrow it.
Anything that you master becomes an illusion.
Exactly.
It's an illusion.
When you're in it, you just don't realize because you're in it.
Everything feels real.
When there's fear.
Yeah, you're so freaking real.
When fear is in the mix?
Yes.
What everything feels so illusionary.
When you beat every game?
Yeah, so true on it.
Like, it's so true.
A virtual reality game feels real.
If you hold trauma in your body, by the way, I've put those goggles on before and I had
people shoot at me and I felt my trauma.
Yeah, like, it's really good.
felt real.
Yeah.
But when you master a game, and you outgrow it, it's not real anymore.
You're actually mastering fear, you're mastering fear.
And you're indirectly teaching it, that there's a better way.
At the core of why you're not leaving the core of why you're not leaving the miserable
job, the core of why it's fear, there's a fear underlying you staying in something that
you don't want, period, you can break it down, you can make all the excuses you want.
But at the end of the day, it's fear that is tying you to whatever situation you're
on, you're in that you're miserable, bro it.
So you're just cracking the code of fear.
So you're basically like, if I know this, then I'm going to, I'm going to become the
creator above it.
Yes, and if and then if you can think of fear as a consciousness that's neither benevolent
or malevolent.
It's neither mean or good or evil or angelic.
The fear is going to keep you bound to that situation, until you crack the code.
So you might resist being at the same job or being in the same relationship or living
in the same country.
That's because you think that where you live is real, you think that you're really unhappy?
That's a that's an illusion, right?
It's what I mean, is it?
You know what I mean by an illusion, like you think that that living or being in that
relationship is horrible like to you?
It's so real, that it's horrible.
You're caught in an illusion, right?
But you can't see that you're in the illusion.
When you're master.
You don't even play with those illusions.
Right?
You're done.