This video is about = "This is WHY you are not happy!" I'm going to reveal the reasons why you're not
happy possibly at this current moment of your life... To find out more, please stay tuned to this video...
Welcome to The SCG Show! Please hit the like button for the YouTube algorithm, and turn your
life around with BetterHelp! The link is in the description down below! ⬇️ What's happiness? Happiness...
is an emotional state characterized by feelings of joy, satisfaction, contentment, and fulfillment. While
happiness has many different definitions, it's often described as involving positive emotions
and life satisfaction. The reason why you're not happy = I believe (and of course I can be
very wrong maybe in my assumption) that the main reason you might not be happy right now, is because
something's missing... Perhaps on paper you tick a lot of boxes, you have a very good job or career,
you might have a relationship, or you might be single just out of a toxic one, or you might
have a really good social network of friends, and you might have a good family. Regardless if
you have some or all of those things (or perhaps none) I believe there might be something missing...
Now what do I mean by "missing?" Perhaps you try to preach gratitude, and you are kind of content with
things, but you still feel you deserve more... you just want a little bit better, you like your job
but it's not stimulating you, you like your career but you feel you could earn more doing something
else, your relationship is "all right" but is that what you really want out of love "all right?" your
friends can be fun, but also draining, negative, they bring a lot of drama... There's nothing wrong
with raising your standards and wanting more out of life, for example I had a thriving business that
went bust a few years ago, I could have given up, got a job that paid well, and plodded along
but I wanted more...I wanted the thrill and excitement of building something from scratch...
I wanted to create something meaningful! I wake up every single day working on The SCG
Show with a smile on my face, because it honestly genuinely makes me happy!
Something is most likely missing from your life, and maybe it's never been there, or it was there...
and god forbid it was taken away... Let's explore ways we can become happier in our lives...
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Before we explore human relationships, connection etc, we must first discuss our purpose...what gets us
out of bed every morning basically. I'm 35 now but I'll never forget at the age of 22 going
to the city to work a job in admin. I was sold the following by the agency who put me forward =
"it's a stable job with great progression! Admin is not as bad as you think... in a few years time you
could be a senior administrator! The pay is good!" Whilst all the above may be true, I can assure you
I HATED that job and the entire experience with a passion. On top of all that, my boss
was a narcissist who drove me insane, abused me, and eventually fired me! It was after that experience I
said to myself "never again will I work a bad job like that, and for a boss like that too..."
Where am I going with this? It was no surprise that when I worked that dreadful job = I was miserable...
My family could see it, my friends could see it, even strangers on the street could see
how dejected and humiliated I felt... I had dreams, aspirations, I wanted to make a name for myself
I didn't want to be an administrator working for a tyrant of a boss....
It was shortly after getting fired that I began my journey as an entrepreneur, and I've carried that
on ever since. My purpose was to be an entrepreneur, and in doing so through adversity once more (losing
my publishing business I started a few years ago and after i got fired) I created this channel =
the greatest project I've made to date! My purpose is to grow The SCG Show organically
to a million subscribers, and readers on my blog! I won't stop until I get there, and that
puts a big smile on my face, and as well makes me really really happy! What's your purpose? Seriously
what is it? Find it. Look for it now, because I guarantee you when you find it, it will make you happier...
Now if you are really unhappy and struggling with depression, I'd like to take
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description just down below! ⬇️ Let's look at love and how it MIGHT be playing on your unhappiness...
Love is a set of emotions and behaviors characterized by intimacy, passion and commitment...
It involves care, closeness, protectiveness, attraction, affection and trust. Love can vary in
intensity and can of course change over time. I'm going to split this into two parts = #1 - Single people
desperately seeking love and #2 - Those who are perhaps in relationships longing for the same thing too...
Yes if you are single, alone, and feeling desperate, and needy, it could be because love is missing from
your life....Trust me, I'm not saying that's the main reason but it might be a factor... This can really
suck because love is built over time through connection, intimacy, getting to know someone,
and there you are alone on a Friday night watching NetFlix feeling sorry for yourself...Maybe you had a
date but they bailed on you, or maybe you can't get a date at all, or in a rut of rejections...
you keep attracting the wrong type, you keep scaring people off, you just can't catch a break,
you cannot meet someone who meets your standards, you've tried everything and still struggling...
Dating can be hard, it's tough for some people, and even for the high achievers, the good looking, the
popular too.... When you have an ideal in your mind you want to stick to it, and not settle for less...
For example, I left a narcissistic relationship a few years ago with one intention = to never date
a narcissist again, and I've struggled to find a woman who's met my needs, and is on my level since...
However I do not know when I will eventually find someone like that..
but I'll be FAR happier dating, and eventually finding somebody who is my "really great woman."
So until that happens, I continue to work on myself and improve myself
as should you! Read books, watch YouTube videos, learn about yourself, change your career, diet,
change your style, make yourself the best version of yourself to attract the best potential partner...
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THIS part of the video will now focus on those who are unhappy in relationships, and in my opinion
seeking love as a result of it, not elsewhere as such, but from their current partner, spouse,
marriage etc. Reasons why you might be seeking love in relationships = there could be an abundance of
reasons why you feel unhappy in life, but your relationship may be a HUGE factor. This could
include a lack of intimacy, or communication, basic trust, genuine burning desire, warmth,
humor, healthy habits, the feeling of security, there may be constant bickering and arguments,
regular lies, betrayal, deceit, there may be cheating going on, there may be chronic dissatisfaction,
you may not feel not worthy, you may feel unsatisfied... Here's my personal motto =
my motto regarding toxic unfulfilling negative relationships of any kind is simple
and straightforward = "you will never be good enough for the wrong person!" No matter what you do,
how much you change, how badly and desperately you want things to work out,
sometimes it's just not meant to be, and therefore you're not ever going to make it work, aka
you will always be unhappy! Of course I eventually realized I was dating a narcissist but I moved
heaven & earth to try and make it work initially, and I've got the scars to prove that I failed
terribly! You cannot shift a negative relationship, you cannot change a narcissist. Fortunately I got
out and even though I am single right now, I am far happier to be apart from a toxic relationship,
and that includes friendships too of any kind! Take some serious time to reflect on your current
relationship. You might be afraid to be single again or so on and so forth, but staying stagnates
and only makes things worse, and you more miserable... Lastly do what makes you feel happy! Sometimes when
our jobs and life itself gets on top of us, we can dwell in misery, and go down a dark road,
like I was a gambling addict, and the longer I was doing things that I found miserable...
So we can smoke, drink, eat, gamble too much when we're unhappy about certain things
going on in life. But all we're doing is tricking our brains to suppress the suffering, pain and
misery, and our current situation. And all we do is scar and hurt ourselves more along the way...
Do what makes you happy! instead of a vice, why not do things that genuinely make you feel good
and happy? Like read a book? Listen to a podcast? Go play with a puppy? Go to your favorite restaurant,
and enjoy yourself (screw the diet!)? Travel? Ride a roller coaster, or just go to a theme park?
Watch a funny feel-good film? Bake a cake? Distract yourself by doing something you love and enjoy...
Something that makes you smile just thinking about it... This will have a really interesting
impact on you, because it will immediately remind you of the good, positive, happy emotions
that may have been dormant for a long time! You'll wonder "when was the last time I laughed, smiled,
felt good?" which will ignite the following = "life is too short to be bloody unhappy!" Yeah your job
sucks = change it. Your relationship sucks = change you first but if it's still the same, change it! Being
single sucks sometimes, but so does being with the wrong person, and you must keep trying to meet
people no matter what, even when it hurts! Get over that adversity! You are, and will always oversee
your own happiness! You're in charge of this, you're the ceo of your happiness! So make a change...