chuckle I lost my little brother who died in a random medical accident he was
someone that I always looked after how do you deal with grief and loss of men
in your command someone asked me a similar question that the other day
someone along the lines of how gonna be good
when you lose a loved one and that's definitely a tough question and I almost
replied no it isn't good there's nothing good in death and and then I started to
remember the people I've lost throughout my life the memories of them the
experiences the fun their unique personalities and everything they've
given me not only in their life but in their death what their life taught me
and what their death taught me the mark
the mark they had left on me and I realized I realized that even in death
even in death there is good first of all I was lucky to have that person in my
life even if it was only for a short time too short of a time but at least I
got that those unforgettable moments those precious moments at least I got
those and I got to experience those times to know of the beauty of their
personality their attitude their outlook on the world
they were all unique and I'm thankful for the opportunity that I had to
interact with them even if it was just for a short amount of time and now comes
death death is horrible and death is wretched and death is cruel and death
isn't fair and I don't know why the best people seem to get taken from us first
but the fact is death is inescapable
there is no way out in death in that death is part of life in
like the contrast between the darkness and the light without death then there
is no life and the people that I've lost
they taught me that
they taught me how precious life is how blessed we are to have every day to
learn and to grow and to laugh and to live to live to live every day with
purpose and with passion to wake up in the morning and be thankful thankful for
that morning and thankful for the opportunity to go out into the world and
live to live for them for those that don't have the opportunity for those
that were stolen away by deaths cruel hand for them I will live I will cherish
their memory and I will live so let's cry no more let's mourn no more let's
remember but let's not dwell instead
let's laugh and let's love and let's embrace and cherish everything that life
is and every opportunity it gives us
live