- You've slept with her mother!
What do you do?
(laughing)
Yo guys, Jack here.
I'm from "Love Island,"
and I'm chillin' with BuzzFeed today,
and I'm gonna give you guys some love advice.
- What do you do if someone ghosts you
but then comes back four months later
and says, "Sorry, was just really busy.
"How are you?"
I can't lie.
I've definitely ghosted some girls before,
and I have, then, popped back up,
but then, on the flip side,
I've had a girl ghost me and then pop back up.
I mean, give it a go, will you?
Give it a go.
At least give it a try,
and then if you feel a vibe,
if you feel like the vibe's off,
and you feel like they're gonna do the same thing again,
then cut them off.
Don't give them a chance to come back.
You're not a mug.
Don't get treated like one.
I know my boyfriend cheated on me,
but I can't reveal that I know
without saying that I looked through his phone.
Maybe not bring up the fact that you know through his phone,
but you can say, "Look, I know you cheated on me."
Not say anything
because then, his mind's rattled, right?
And the more it's rattled,
the more you'll get out of him,
and the more you'll have to see how he reacts.
What would you do if you love your partner,
but you hate their family?
Family is very important in a relationship.
You know, you're in the house.
You go to their family events and stuff,
and if you're not vibing with the family,
then it's gonna be a bit awkward,
but, in the same sentence,
if you're there to be with the person that you love,
not the family,
so you try to make it not affect the relationship.
I would definitely make your partner aware
that you're not clicking with the family.
My girlfriend loves feet.
(laughing)
My girlfriend loves feet, but I'm super ticklish.
How do I not deprive her of her love for feet?
Yeah, I don't know, bro,
you're gonna have to hold that one, man.
You're gonna have to deal with it.
You're like, ticklish.
What are you?
You're childish.
You childish?
When is the appropriate time
to fart in front of your significant other?
We've been together three years,
and I can't take the bloatin' anymore.
Depends how far along you are in the relationship.
The first year, nah, don't do that,
but if we get to like, year six, year seven, year eight,
like, you just kind of have to just accept it.
That's the way life is at the moment.
But I wouldn't want you to feel bloated all the time.
That's not good.
How do you ask someone for space
if they want to spend all of their time with you?
Listen, in a relationship here,
you have to have space.
Like, you have to have the space,
and I think the best thing to do
is just actually be honest.
Like, "I really like you.
"I really care about you,
"and I love spending time with you;
"however, you're drainin' me."
But in turn, actually say, "But that will benefit us,
"because if we get too comfortable,
"I feel it'll go downhill."
You're going to meet the parents,
but when you get there,
you realize that you've slept...
You've slept with her mother!
What do you do?
(laughing)
Well, my guy...
That there is a sticky one.
That means that the parents are together,
so the mum cheated.
(gasps)
The mum cheated!
Yeah, it's a mad ting.
Let me be there.
I'll come.
I'll just sit in the corner.
I'll just watch it unravel.
What do you do?
I don't know, man.
You tell me.
The guy I'm seeing always say he's just bad at texting,
but I always see that he's been online on WhatsApp.
Do I believe him?
Uh, honey, he just don't wanna chat to you.
I'm just gonna say it how it is.
But then why don't you just call him?
Why don't you just call him up?
Have a conversation that way?
It ain't gotta be about textin'.
And then, from the phone call, you can see the vibe.
I fancy someone at work.
How can I tell 'em?
E-mail.
Straight up e-mail 'em.
Bang up.
Or yellow post-it note
straight on their screen when they've gone for lunch.
"Meet me in the toilet, five minutes."
And don't let them know who it is,
and then when they go to the toilet in five minutes,
just be there.
My boyfriend is really bad at kissin',
but I've never told him that,
and I now feel like it's gone too far
for me to be upfront about it.
How do I help him to improve?
Now, do we actually mean kissin', or do we mean sex, here?
Subjective, yeah?
Subjective, okay.
Maybe watch porn together.
Maybe get some toys.
Definitely don't talk about past experiences.
Should you tell your partner
that you have gotten with one of your friends
before they meet them,
or should you just keep it a secret?
It's a real sticky one.
Now, let me tell you why.
It's difficult.
It's hard.
You have to just read the situation.
You have to be able to read the situation
and know your audience.
You need to be able to have a strong connection
with the girl that you're with and just say,
"Look, there's people I've slept with before you,
"and vice-versa.
"We're probably gonna bump into them."
You know, be honest with each other.
If they're gonna be there, let me know.
Don't hide it,
'cause then, what else you hidin'?
I broke up with my long term partner
and then the next night had a one-night fling with someone.
My ex found out and is angry at me,
but I don't think they have the right to be.
Who is in the wrong here?
Your ex has every right to be angry at you.
Your ex wouldn't have a right to be angry at you
if your ex broke up,
but you broke up with your ex,
and then, the next thing I know,
you're jumpin' in bed with the next man.
It's a bit raw.
That's the way to use it.
It's a bit raw.
It's a bit savage, not gonna lie.
What should you do if you fancy your best friend's...
What's SO?
- [Woman] Significant other.
- Oh...
(scoffs)
What do you do?
I really don't know, if I'm honest.
That is really sticky.
You potentially lose both friends.
Yeah, I don't know.
I actually don't know; that stumped me.
I actually don't know what to do.
You know what, fuck it.
Tell!
Tell the person that you fancy them...
By e-mail.
(laughs)
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