Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence.
Today we’re going to discuss something we know everyone
wants to know: The things girls want from men.
We watched Teachingmensfashion’s video on 10 Things
Girls Really Want From Us Guys, and we were truly inspired to share our own ideas
to get her to like you.
We’re also going to share an important secret at the end on the one
thing she absolutely detests, so prepare yourself for that one.
Let’s start!
9.
She Wants Someone With A Backbone At the start, you need to become attractive
to her, and you do this by showing confidence.
How to become attractive is by presenting yourself with a backbone because without
one, no matter what you say, she won’t be interested, and all your effort will be wasted.
Picture this: You see Signs A Woman Wants To Be Approached, and you head over there,
but you’re nervous and full of self-doubt.
Your eyes are fixed to the floor, and when you talk,
you’re muffled.
You’re hunched over with closed body language, and you’re fidgeting.
The results?
She’ll turn her back and ignore you.
How to get her to like you and make a good first impression is to approach with
your head up high and with a charming smile.
Show her you’ve got a backbone because it’s
appealing to a woman when a man appears determined, cool and presents with courage.
And if you’re not so sure on how to tell if a
woman even wants to be approached, watch our video on
How To Tell if She Wants to Talk to You to know the signs.
8.
She Wants You To Dress Attractively We’ll let you in on a big secret.
Being attractive is not a trait you need to be born with.
What all women really want from men and what plays a big factor in attracting them is
how you dress.
Yes, attraction is based on personal opinion, but there are some universal
rules that guide how to dress better and be more attractive.
When it comes to men’s fashion, women know a thing
or two about what they want to see on their man, and for starters, she doesn’t want
a sloppy Joe or a man that dresses worse than the homeless guy down the street.
You just need to turn a few pages into a Men’s Lifestyle magazine to see that the
hidden rules behind menswear is about finding clothes that are a good fit, are high quality
but good value, and lack anything too excessive.
In other words, no fluro abstract suit with a bright blue and green fedora.
Tone it down.
These rules have been around for a long time, and they work; just check out men’s fashion
in history books to see.
All the heartthrobs dressed well.
7.
She Wants You To Groom Yourself This plays hand in hand with dressing attractively
– how to get the girl you like is to be well-groomed.
This doesn’t mean you can’t have a long beard, or you need to wear a
military-style haircut.
No, men’s grooming isn’t about shaving all the hair off and keeping
everything really short.
It’s more than about hair.
If you really want to attract her, then listen well.
You can win the award for best-dressed man, but it means nothing if you
smell bad, have dirty fingernails, and sporting the thickest unibrow.
There are habits women love and find attractive in men,
and grooming properly is one of them!
How to get your crush to like you is by liking yourself enough to show a bit of self-love
and carry out some self-maintenance.
Invest in antiperspirants, get some nice cologne, and if
you sport a beard or mustache, buy yourself a trimmer for easier grooming.
Watch our video on Best Daily Habits For Men That Attract All Girls to learn how to be
considerably more attractive by possessing good habits.
6.
She Wants Friendship This isn’t new, but it is extremely vital
for a relationship to work.
Start with building a good foundation.
We know how to make a girl like you is by treating her with patience and care,
giving her support, and having fun with her, like you would any other close friend.
Share secrets and let your crush know you trust
her and that she can trust you.
Attraction plays a huge part in bringing you together, but it’s
the friendship and companionship that make it
long-term.
5.
She Needs Assurance Understand this relationship advice gentlemen,
and you’ll be playing in the big leagues!
Everyone, especially women, want to know you really like them.
She wants to be assured that the relationship she’s about
to enter is a real deal.
Reassurance is needed that you’re not playing games and just fooling
around, and she needs to know you genuinely like her and want to be with her.
There will be hidden but obvious signs she wants you
too, but she’ll hold back starting anything until you’ve given her enough assurance.
You do this by showing her how you feel about her.
Learn her love language and constantly give her affection and make her happy.
Prove to her without hesitation that you want her.
If you’re hesitating because you yourself are
unsure of the signs a girl likes you back, then watch our video on Hidden but obvious
signs she wants you.
4.
She Wants Genuine Interest From You If you stop asking her questions or stop showing
that you’re interested in the things she shares, then she’ll likely pull the
breaks quick and fast.
This isn’t about her appreciating your listening skills.
While that might be an admirable quality in a man,
showing genuine interest in her is about you valuing and respecting her.
What all women really want from men is someone who wants to build a meaningful
connection and someone that understands them.
Get to know her likes and dislikes on a deeper level.
She doesn’t like strawberries?
Find out the reason behind that; there might be a fun story.
Ask about her childhood, her dreams and her goals.
Your crush will really feel a sense of commitment from your genuine
interest.
Hey gentlemen, I know you’re taking scrupulous notes, but I just wanted to remind
you that at the end of this video, we’re going to be sharing the one thing your crush
absolutely detests.
So, if you want to avoid that, stay tuned!
Now for the last 3 items on our list.
3.
She Wants You To Have Moral Integrity She wants you to treat her as you would someone
important to you: with respect and integrity.
A relationship is more likely to end, or not start at all, when a person feels mistreated
or constantly patronized.
Even if you’re in the middle of a disagreement, she wants you to
show moral integrity by making sure respect is maintained.
You can show her you have moral integrity by taking ownership of your actions
and behavior as well.
Don’t engage in the "blame game" as this causes more disagreements
and conflict.
Make sure to keep promises and make sure to always be honest.
Get her to like you by showing her you are mature and have strong ethical standards.
2.
She Wants You To Be Intimate How to get your crush to like you is to show
her you’re not afraid to be intimate.
Now, people can get this one confused with sex,
so remember, intimacy isn’t just about sex.
It’s about how close you are in your relationship
and when you’re connected on a deeper level.
It develops with time as you grow to care for each other.
Intimacy is when it’s more than the attraction.
You care because they have become a big part of your life, or you want
them to be a big part of it.
You’re more and more at ease with them because of a
combination of strong physical or emotional connection.
This is what all women really want from men, that
strong bond.
So, build it by spending quality time together, communicate well and have stimulating
conversations, and talk about what’s important.
Creating that intimacy doesn’t have to be complicated.
It can be as simple as playing a little truth or dare like
we have on Mantelligence.com.
We’ve dropped the link in the description for Fun and Unexpected
Truth or Dare Questions.
1.
Promise Her A Future We left this one for last because it’s a
big one.
How to get her to like you is to show her she
has a future with you.
It’s not just about the here and now.
You’re not just killing time.
You’re searching for what she’s searching for and that’s a commitment.
This is similar to giving her assurance, but whereas that was
about assuring her of your feelings, this is
assuring her that her future is secure with you.
This means you don’t have a recent history of a trail of broken hearts, and you’re
a responsible man that has goals.
Convince her you’re this devoted and faithful person
by sharing your plans with her when you have your talks and make sure to include her in
them.
Now that you know the things girls want from men, the one absolute thing she detests
is when she feels like you’re hiding her.
In fact, this is a major red flag for women.
Hiding her could be you failing to introduce her to anyone
significant in your life like your friends or
family, or going out of your way to make sure none of your get-togethers are ever made
public on social media.
Your relationship might not have reached the point where you want to
introduce her to everyone, or you might not be the person that shares everything on
Facebook, but if she starts to feel like you don’t want anyone to catch wind of her
existence, then she’s going to feel like you’re not serious, and rather insulted.
It’s fine to keep your relationship separate and away from
outside forces being able to intervene, but make sure you don’t leave her feeling
insecure about the reasons you’re doing it and
never let her feel like you’re ashamed of her.
Don’t be shady and make sure to keep communication open.
Have you ever unintentionally made your crush get the wrong idea?
How and what happened?
Share your experience with us in the comments below.
Gentlemen, hopefully the things girls want from men are now less complicated so
you just have to focus on the signs a girl likes you back.
Watch our video on the 10 Signs A Woman Wants To Be Approached and
take the guesswork out of it.