do you have a secret crush and would you like her to pursue you chances are you probably did say
yes now all of us have had crushes at some point in our lives but things can get complicated when
there is no obvious sign that your crush likes you back now this is where psychology can play
a helping hand and by implementing a few of these psychological tips in any interactions of today's
video with your crush well you dramatically increase the odds of your crush chasing you
so it's a win-win situation so keep watching to learn about the tips and the tricks that you need
to make your crush fall head over heels for you let's go like and subscribe
the first one stand out from the crowd if you stand out from the crowd in a good way others will
always notice you including your crush now people who aren't afraid to be different and confident in
themselves are attractive to be around confidence is magnetizing especially for women and if a woman
is going to invest her time energy and emotions into a relationship then she needs to feel secure
that the relationship will be worthwhile and that is down to you to show her your authenticity and
to prove to her that being with you is a great investment psychologically speaking if a woman
feels that you are a confident and secure man she is way more likely to be interested the next tip
is to not be desperate needy desperate guys are an immediate turn off for the ladies they don't
want a man who practically is begging to be with them and hanging on to every single word we know
that you probably really like this girl and that's why she's your crush but you gotta play it cool
showering her in compliments and constantly telling her how much you admire her and yet it's
going to push her away and put you into the friend zone women want a little bit of mystery and charm
they don't want to be with someone who is obsessed with them so pay her enough attention so that she
knows you are interested and available but not so much that you become suffocating and almost creepy
independence is key leading a successful life is a single independent man is super attractive to
women it shows that you are mature responsible and not looking for a woman to become an incarnation
of your mother women want to be with men not boys and being independent secure and stable is majorly
attractive in fact men who are successfully independent and single often have several women
pursuing them at once and science says that these men will make the best mates as they will likely
be great providers for their future families obviously everyone's situation is different you
might not have your own place yet but your mindset is just as important as your physical lifestyle
so if you are content being alone you are driven to succeed and passionate about your goals
then you are a catch my friend and if a woman knows that you are happy being single she knows
not to mess around with you because you are happy to let her go and psychologically this makes you
way more desirable be friends with her friends it's often super important to women how their
friends perceive potential future partners women deeply value the opinions of those close to them
so if you get a chance to meet her friends or you already know them be sure to make a great first
impression you want to be attractive in the eyes of her friends too because if you think that you
are a catch is going to instantly boost your value in the eyes of your crush too so be respectful
kind funny and charismatic make sure you put your best face forwards and you will have your crush
chasing you in no time make her feel safe but also keep her guessing it's important to be a safe
space for your crush psychologically if a woman finds that she can come and confide in you and
trust you to be there for her then this will put her at ease and she will feel free to be herself
she is also a lot more likely to view you with a thorough more attractive lens
and being a woman's safe space is a great way of building trust but make sure you still keep some
mystery about you check in with her every now and then but let her come to you first too share some
of your life with her but don't share everything mystery is very alluring and psychologically we
are wired to want to discover more of the unknown so be safe but also oh so mysterious
intentional body language be intentional with your body language to get really good at this it's
worth observing yourself in the mirror whilst you pretend to enact an interaction with your crush
what's your stance your posture facial expressions and mannerisms body language is the incredibly
important unspoken language of humankind so you need to get it right give her lots of eye contact
lean towards her when you speak to her smile at her often and when standing have your feet
a distance apart this creates a strong masculine posture and will most certainly get her attention
treat her as a friend i get it this might sound bizarre but until you feel some real chemistry
and attraction between the two of you it may be worth friendzoning your crush we know that this
does sound very crazy because no one likes to be friend-zoned but by friends owning your crush it
shows them that you're not just going to wait around and do all the chasing and if your crush
is into you then chances are that the friend zone is going to make her feel super uncomfortable and
she will find any way to get out of it definitely be wise with this kind of psychological trick
you don't want her to think that you are completely not interested but leaving her to guess
a little bit is a sure way to win that attention keep a busy schedule you need to keep yourself
busy a woman will be completely turned off if she feels like you are anxiously waiting for her texts
and calls or just counting down the days until you get to see her again so plan social events with
friends and family and stay busy whether it's work school or something else make sure that you don't
become idle by staying focused on your goals and personal life you show her what kind of man you
are and you value the things that are important this kind of attitude is super desirable to women
make her jealous jealousy is an impressive psychological phenomenon now this may sound
a little counterintuitive but hear me out if a woman experiences feelings of jealousy it means
she wants to protect what's hers so if you can make her a little bit jealous of you
you instantly become more desirable to her but be careful with this definitely don't date other
women or come across as being a player but giving a little attention to other women whether in real
life or on social media can help to bring out your crush's fiercely protective instincts make
her laugh laughter is the best medicine when we laugh it releases endorphins into our body which
boosts those feelings of happiness and positivity whilst reducing feelings of stress and anxiety and
if you can make your crush laugh then you are also simultaneously creating memories associated with
ultra positive emotions psychologically laughter bonds people together and creates a deeper level
of connection additionally if something makes us laugh then we want to come back for more
so think of that favorite movie tv show or podcast the one which always makes you laugh and smile you
probably watch or listen to these things regularly because they make you feel great similarly if you
can make your crush laugh and smile then she will want to come back for much more become the best
version of you ultimately if you want to become the best version of yourself you are immediately
more desirable and attractive being the best version of you means physically emotionally
spiritually and mentally taking care of yourself it means pursuing your goals and dreams and
putting yourself first and knowing your worth having full confidence in who you are and what
you deserve is super attractive and makes you a desirable partner remember women do not want to
be with a man who is super needy or demanding they want someone who is strong secure and confident
willing to take those risks and not be afraid to be authentic dare to be the best you and that
concludes today's video where we've looked at different psychological tips and tricks
that you can use to make your crush chase you we hope you enjoyed watching until next time
and there you go we've reached the end of the video let me know down in the comments
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