why is it so difficult for men and women to be friends? it seems so ordinary
and turns out to be almost impossible either there is an ugly compromise like man and wife
or else passion that eventually turns into hate why is there this ugliness between men and women
it is very simple to understand
marriage is the ugliest institution invented by a man it is not natural it has been invented
so that you can monopolize a woman
you have been treating women as if they are a piece of land or some currency notes
you have reduced the woman
into a thing
remember that if you reduce any human being into a thing
unaware
unconscious you are also being reduced to the same status
otherwise you will not be able to communicate
if you can talk with a chair you must be a chair
marriage is against nature
one can be certain only of this moment that is in your hands
all promises for tomorrow are lies and marriage is a promise for your whole life
that you will remain together that you will love each other that you will respect each other
till your last breath
and these priests
who are the inventor of many ugly things
say to you that marriages are made in heaven
nothing is made in heaven there is no
heaven
if you listen to nature
your problem your question will simply evaporate the problem is
biologically man is attracted to women women are attracted to men
but that attraction cannot remain the same forever
you are attracted to something
which is a challenge to get you see a beautiful man a beautiful woman
you are attracted nothing is wrong in it you feel your heart
beating fastest
you would like to be with this woman or man and the attraction is so tremendous
that in that moment you think you would like to live with this woman forever
lovers don't deceive each other they are saying the truth but the truth belongs to the moment
when lovers say to each other that i cannot live without you
it is not that he is deceiving
rc is deceiving
they mean it
but they don't know the nature of life
tomorrow the same woman will not look so beautiful
as days will pass
the man the woman both will feel that they are imprisoned
they have known each other's geography completely
first it was an unknown territory to be discovered now there is nothing to be discovered
and to go on repeating the same words and the same acts looks mechanical ugly
that's why passion turns into hate the woman hates you
because you are going to do the same thing again
to prevent you the moment the husband enters the house
she goes to the bed she has headache
she wants somehow
not to go into the same rut
and the man is flittering with his secretary in the office
now she is an unknown territory
to me it is all natural
what is unnatural is binding people in the name of religion in the name of gods
for their whole life
in a better more intelligent worlds people will love
but will not make any contracts it is not a business
they will understand each other and they will understand the changing flux
of life they will be true to each other the moment the man feels that now
his beloved holds no joy for him he will say that the time has come to depart
there is no need for marriage there is no need for divorce
then friendship will be possible you ask me why friendship is not possible
between men and women friendship is not possible with being the jailer and imprisoned
friendship is possible between equal human beings
totally free from all bondage of social society culture civilization
only living truly to their authentic nature it is not an insult to the woman to say
that honey the honeymoon is over it is not an insult to the man if the woman says
no things cannot be beautiful the wind that has blown
is no more there the season has changed it is no more spring
between us no flowers blossom no fragrance arises it is time to depart
and because there was no legal bondage of marriage there is no question of any
divorce you