My name is Kay and this is Beardy with our pal, Larry and this is Mantelligence.
I recently saw a video by The Infographic Show and it made me especially worried about
how we'd all be able to get our lives back to normal.
One question that struck me most is how to get a girlfriend if COVID-19 lasts longer
than expected. So in this video, we'll be talking
about 7 things you can do to get a girlfriend if the pandemic lasts 18 months or more.
And at the end of this video, we'll be sharing that one thing you should not do when you're
trying to meet someone online. Let's get started.
7. Go Online
Hey Kay, do you know where people are looking for dates right now?
Hmmm… where? Online, Kay. They're downloading online dating
apps like crazy! These apps have reported a huge spike of new
users ever since people were advised to stay at home.
Wow! That's pretty remarkable. Yes it is. It truly proves that people are
looking for someone they can share this unique experience with.
I think they also want to make sure they stay sane during this highly stressful time.
Yes, I agree. So do you know how to flirt with a girl that
you met through these apps? There are actually a number of great apps
you can use to find a date. But in order to know
how to text a girl you like, you need to take a look at our video on how to
make a girl crazy for you. In that video, we gave you guys our 10 tips
on how you can attract the girl you like with your
personality. You can use these tips to bring out your
personality, even if you're meeting girls online or through an app.
Of course, you won't be able to go near each other… at least not now. But when you are
able to get her to notice you, everything else will follow.
So if you guys want to know our tips, make sure to check out that video. It's already
gotten over a million views.
6. Know What You're Looking For
So previously, we talked about going online to look for a date during COVID-19.
But since there are so many potential dates that you might meet on these apps, it's
important to know what it is you're truly looking for. Otherwise, you'll end up constantly
having too wide an array of options that you to sort
through. While this may sound like a great deal, it isn't actually the case when you're
trying to know how to get a girlfriend. Yes, just because people are now turning to
online dating sites and apps doesn't mean you
have an eat-all-you-can buffet in front of you. If your goal is to find a girlfriend,
then you obviously need to just pick one. This is why
you need to know what it is you're truly looking for in a partner. Identify three to five non-negotiable
traits that you want in a girlfriend and using this, you can start eliminating
the potentials. It should give you a shorter list of options because you
already know what you're looking for. Even though we don't have the answer to how
long will quarantine last, we are, of course, hoping that it does end soon.
When it does and you are finally able to hang out with a
potential partner, you'll want to be able to meet that person in real life and actually
go on a date with her. If you are using this period
to meet as many girls as possible, you might end
up wasting all this precious time in trying to date around. So if you're truly serious
about finding a girlfriend, you need to know what
it is you're looking for.
5. Go Talk to Her
Since this period is about staying at home, communication is best done online via texting
or calling. You need to know how to text a girl in a way that she will respond to you.
You don't need to stress about things too much, but you do need to be able to catch
her attention. You need to be different from all
the other guys she's talking to. One way you can do that is by practicing our
tips on our previous video, This is how a girl
wants you to text her. In that video, we gave you guys some tips on how to flirt with a
girl over text so that you get her to notice you.
It may not seem much but these tips will surely get you ahead of the game. Let me show you
a few examples. Hey Larry, give me back my phone.
When you're texting a girl, you shouldn't send
out long paragraphs or blocks of text to her. Long paragraphs sent over text are too
intense for a light conversation that you're having with a girl. They may be okay when
you're talking about more intimate and deeper things.
But for casual talk, it’s not recommended. On the flip side, you also shouldn’t send
line-by-line texts. While you may be trying to imitate your natural voice when talking
in person, if you send text after text, it will
make you look annoying and impatient. You need to know how to text your crush so
you can master the art of texting a girl. When you do that, you'll be able to catch
her attention. Make sure to watch our video on the
11 tricks to flirt with a girl over text. You'll learn a thing or two!
4. Get to Know Her
One thing that you've got to appreciate during
this COVID-19 pandemic is that when it comes to dating, it has certainly turned things
around. Before this whole pandemic even took place,
people have been using online dating apps and websites to find a potential casual fling.
Most guys only use the app to find someone to spend time with, not to find a serious
mate. And while there are still some people doing
this, it has been way more difficult for casual meets to take place during this pandemic.
Instead of using the app to just to find someone too keep them occupied, more and
more are using it for its intended purpose: how to get a girlfriend.
Many may be impatiently asking, how long will pandemic last. But you can put this time to
good use to genuinely get to know the other person you are talking
to. You can have more meaningful and deeper conversations with the person you are talking
to since you both are in no hurry to meet anytime soon. And because of this, you both
can truly develop feelings for one another that
will make for a strong relationship foundation when you decide to go that route.
Boy, time surely flies when you're in the middle of an interesting topic.
I know Beardy! We're already halfway through our list.
Are you still asking how to make a girl like you during this COVID-19 pandemic?
We still have 3 other tips to share so hang on to your seats.
And since we don't want you to strike out, we'll be sharing one crucial tip to help you
know how to get a girlfriend during this time.
Let's get back to our list!
3. Don't Get Catfished
Hey Beardy, have you ever been catfished? Personally, no. But I've known a lot of people
who have gotten catfished by the person they met online.
Yes. It's so easy for online scams to come at you nowadays. So we really recommend that
you take your relationship to another level, especially
if you are getting seriously interested in that
person. Because of the pandemic, you can't exactly leave your house to do that.
Instead, invite her to have a video call with you. You can think of it like a casual virtual
date. If she tries to make excuses about meeting up for a video chat, don't roll over.
Prove to her that you're worth it. This is a tip that we also shared on our 7
texting rules every guy should know video. In that video, we gave you guys different
tips on how girls want you to text her. When you watch that video, you will learn
different tips on how to talk to girls over a
text or through messaging apps. Now when you have a strong connection with
someone, you can move your conversation off of text and into a video call.
That way, you can both see that you are talking to a real-life, actual person and it will
definitely improve your connection.
Your date may not be as hot as Genevieve, but you'll be able to build a stronger connection
with her. And that's something no one can take away from you. Don't forget to
check out our video on the 7 texting rules every guy should know. It's
gotten almost a million views already!
2. Have a Virtual Date
After learning how to talk to your crush, the next thing you need to do is to ask her
out. But Beardy, we're in a health crisis. We can't
exactly go out anytime soon. That's right. Well, lucky for us, technology
is on our side. In our how to make a girl fall in love with
you fast video, we talked to you guys about being the gentle jerk. It's one of the ways
how to get a girl to like you because you're letting
her see you as sweet, caring, and helpful but also as an unapologetically bold person.
You can achieve this when you actually ask her out on a date. With COVID-19 disturbing
our dating tendencies, you can turn to doing things online. Hop on a video call and have
a virtual drink or meal together. You can also
watch the same movie together. Ohhh I heard Netflix released a new feature
that lets you watch with your friends at the same time.
Yes. This feature is called Netflix Party and I
think it's a great way to feel like you're watching a movie with your friends.
I'll definitely try that one soon. But I also wanted to add that the options for a virtual
date don't just end there. You can also set up a multiplayer online game, if you're both
into gaming. The list goes on. You can get creative,
depending on your interests. This way, you can show her that you're a sweet
and easy going guy, and innovative, too! Don't forget
to check out our video on how to make her fall in love with you fast. It already has
almost 2.5 million views!
1. It's Your Call
You know how there are guys out there who always say how they want to have a girlfriend.
Well, do you know what it is that keeps them from having one, Kay?
What Beardy? Their big problem is their own selves. Even
if they are dying to have a girlfriend and eager to
Be in a releationship, they are afraid of being confident with themselves.
Oh, that's true. I have some friends who keep wondering why they still don't have a girlfriend.
I mainly tell them that if they want to have a girlfriend, they have to man up.
These are the same guys who are too blind to see the signs she wants you to talk to
her. We've shared 5 signs that girls send out when
they want you to know they like you. If you neglect to see these signs or you see
them but you neglect to respond to these, You've probably been wondering why you still
have no girlfriend - until today. That's because the girl is already doing her
part in showing you she's interested. The rest is up to you.
You can't expect her to still show interest in
you if you keep doing nothing. If you don't man up and ask her out, somebody else will.
And you will regret that big time. If you want to live a life with no regrets, this
is one step you have to take. She'll really be happy that
you took an initiative in asking her out. Don't forget to check out our video on when
to approach girls. It already has 12,000 likes! Alright… we've come to the end of our video.
And as promised, we'll be sharing the one thing you should never do when you're trying
to find a girlfriend online. And that is-- never, ever give out your crucial
information. You know, things like your bank account details, home address, social security
number. This is actually a very basic tip that everyone
should remember when they're going online.
And during this time of crisis, scammers will really stop
at nothing to try to rip other people off. You have to be careful that you're not dealing
with those kinds of people. Basically, you should
not disclose any type of information that people might use to their advantage.
Just don't. Nothing good can come from sharing those types
of information.
Gentlemen, this is Mantelligence. today we’re showing you 14 Expert Tips to
Texting a Girl You Like. It can be hard enough knowing what a woman
wants when you’re with her, much less with a few simple characters on
your cellphone’s screen. And that’s why it’s so helpful to have
a list of tips, from a woman, telling you exactly what to do.
So, here’s how to text a girl you like:
Guys, the first texts that you send to a girl
are extremely important, because it’s these texts that help her determine
if she wants to be more than just friends with you.
So, be sure to follow each of these three powerful tips closely:
1. Text her within 24 hours of meeting her.
You’ve heard the old-school rule: guy’s should wait 2-3 days before contacting a woman
But times have changed, and today, that rule is absolutely ridiculous.
And that’s mostly because it has become so much easier to get in contact with someone,
and since it’s so easy to pick up your phone and send her a few words, she thinks:
If he’s interested in me, why wouldn’t he get in touch with me more quickly?
So, send a text within 24 hours, otherwise she’ll think you’re not interested.
2. Use her name. Immediately jumping into calling a girl a
nickname, can be off putting. Instead, it’s better to start things off
somewhere comfortably between formal and casual, so in your first texts, simply calling her
by her name is the safest way to go. #3 – Remind her of something that happened
when you met. In your first few texts, you don’t want
to send her something boring, and unoriginal, like:
“Hey it’s Ryan” or “Hey how are you?” Instead, send her something interesting, by
reminding her of the night that you met, like: “Last night was so fun! You’re a maniac
on the dance floor!” #4 - Use proper grammar.
Do you still text like you used to back in high school? You know what I’m talking about:
Using the number 2 instead of T-O, or using the letter “Y” instead of “W-H-Y”.
Texting with improper grammar is a big turn off to a girl because it shows you’re too
lazy to do even a simple task like writing out a full word.
It takes less than a second to spell out the word, but it makes all the difference.
Equally as important are those texts you send right before you ask her out,
because otherwise, she’ll get bored before you can even ask her out..
How do you do that? Pay close attention to these must-know things:
#1 – Text her the same way she texts you. For an easy way to figure out how to text
this girl, look at how she’s texting you: How many emoji’s does she use? How long
are her texts? How often is she texting you? Mirroring how she‘s comfortable texting
you, is a great, and safe, way to text her.
2. Text with a purpose.
Think about it: the whole purpose of texting a girl is to
eventually go on a date with her, right? So, don’t send random, pointless texts,
because if the conversation isn’t going anywhere,
either she’ll lose interest or she’ll think you’ve lost interest.
Instead, send texts that compliment her, entertain her, and keep the conversation going.
3. Make her wait to hear from you.
Because women want a man with better things
to do than sit around waiting for her next text,
you shouldn’t always immediately text her back.
Now, this doesn’t mean you should be rude, but give it some time before texting her back.
4. Send her exciting pictures of what you’re doing.
Alright guys listen up: A woman wants her man to have a life outside
of their relationship and the reason why is simple:
It shows that he is someone interesting to be around.
So show her your interest and send her pictures of you doing your manly hobbies.
5. Remember things she tells you about herself.
One of the most important things to a woman is to know that her man is listening to her.
It’s a simple thing, but it makes her feel appreciated and loved.
Let her know that you hear her by either bringing up something she’s mentioned in the past,
or by asking questions about something she has said, in order to have a deeper conversation.
So you’ve asked her out, and she said yes? Congratulations! But guys, this is where most
women get hugely turned off by a guy’s text. Why? Because this is where a lot of guys get
careless in the texts that they send. But it’s easy to avoid that by following
these tips:
1. Don’t rely only on teasing her to keep
her attention. Guys here’s the thing...
Girls will eventually think men are cowards if they always hide their feelings behind
teasing. And at some point she will want you to man
up and tell her things like, “You’re pretty”, “You’re so smart”,
or “I like being around you”.
2. Show her your good traits instead of
telling her them
Do you like listening to people brag about
themselves? Of course you don’t, and neither do women.
So instead of bragging and telling her these things, show her, by sending her texts like:
“I finished my book last week and can’t find a new one, any suggestions?”
3. Joke with her, but not inappropriately.
While it’s important to show her you have
a sense of humor, telling inappropriate jokes will make you
look like a immature, crude man. What are innapropriate jokes?
Avoid anything that’s racist, sexual, insulting, or overly mean.
4. Don’t constantly text back and forth, when you can just call.
As you two get closer, you’ll end up spending less time texting,
And more time talking on the phone or physically together in person.
And at a certain point, a girl will get confused why you’re constantly texting her instead
of just calling. So when it’s time, instead of sending, “What’s
up? I’m just chillin at home.” Be a man, pick up the phone, and call her.
5. Don’t suddenly stop texting her.
We’ve all done it before: you’re walking
into the gym, a meeting, or a bar to meet a buddy,
and you suddenly stop sending text messages. Normally, this is fine, but if you’ve been
quickly texting back and forth, the sudden silence is confusing, especially
in the beginning of a relationship. So instead, be polite, and let her know what’s
going on, for example: “Just got to the gym! I’ll text you later.”
What are the other tips you have on how to get a girlfriend during COVID-19?
Let us know in a comment below!
Gentlemen, since we’re all cooped up in our homes and we all don’t know
how long will quarantine last,
the best way to get closer to your goal
of Learning how to get a girlfriend amidst this COVID-19 pandemic
is through texting, above all.