This story is called.
"Wife of 16 Years, Gets Caught Cheating - I CALL HIS WIFE".
Hello everyone,
I have never posted on any of these forums, but I have been reading them for years.
This story is 100% true, and happened to me about 2 months ago.
My wife and I have been married for 16 years.
I found out that my wife has been cheating on me with one of my friends.
I will call him John.
John and I have been friends for about 15 years, and he is like a brother to me.
We have done everything together, and our families are very close.
I found out about the affair through some text messages on my wife's phone.
I took screenshots of ALL the messages I found.
She had John's name saved under, get this, "customer service", as her contact, and I saw some of their texts where they were making plans to meet up.
At first I couldn't believe it, but then I started putting the pieces together, and it all made sense.
My wife has been acting strange for months, and I just chalked it up to her being stressed out from work.
But now, I know the real reason she has been acting so distant.
We have only been intimate 3 times in the last 12 months, and I just assumed she wasn't in the mood.
Now I know, she was getting her needs met elsewhere.
I haven't let her know that I saw the messages, because I want to get more CONCRETE evidence before I divorce her.
One day while I was at work, I decided to call a lawyer here in Las Vegas to see what my options are in divorce, we don't have any kids, so, I was NOT worried about any kind of child support.
The lawyer told me that I need to get evidence of the affair, and he gave me some advice on how to do it.
He did recommend a private investigator in the area, but I decided against that, because I wanted to do this on my own.
I had to figure out what vehicle I was going to drive, because if my wife saw me, she would know something was up.
So, I decided to take my brother's New Tesla, he just tinted the windows on this car.
I put a small camera on the rear view mirror, so I wouldn't miss anything.
The next day, I went to work and told my boss I needed some time off to handle some personal matters, he asked me how much time I needed
off, and was everything okay, I told him, I think my wife is cheating on me with a long time friend of mine, you should have seen his face.
He was in disbelief, and told me to take as much time as I need, and told me to not do anything stupid, then he said, if I am going through the trouble of getting evidence to divorce her, FOLLOW THROUGH!
My boss said, he made the mistake of RECONCILING with his wife after she cheated on him, but, she cheated on HIM AGAIN.
So, I took the next 4 days off from work, and followed my wife.
She went to work like normal, but then, after work she met up with John.
They went to a coffee shop together, and talked for a while.
Then they left in John's car, but, they couldn't go to John's house, he is married and has 3 kids, so, they went to a hotel nearby.
They checked in and went to the room, I waited for about 20 minutes, and then went inside and told the clerk at the desk, that the person with this LICENSE PLATE number, left their inside lights on, in their car.
I went back outside to see if I can get a closer look at John coming out of the hotel, to my surprise, they BOTH came out, walking hand in
hand, I took a small video of them holding hands, John reached in, and turned the lights off inside the car, and they went back in to the hotel.
They went to the Hotel, 3 nights in a row, and my wife was home before 9 PM, but, she get's off work at 7, and always told me she was working on a project for work, or, she had to stay late for a meeting.
After I followed them for a few days, I compiled the evidence and planned to give it to my attorney.
My next step, was to prepare this evidence to give to his wife, in the form of a POWER POINT PRESENTATION, and I did just that.
But, I didn't want to give it to her just yet, I wanted to let them continue their affair for a little while longer, because I knew, once I gave her the evidence, she would put a stop to it.
I was going to wait until they had been meeting up for about 2 months before I gave her the evidence.
But then, something happened that changed my mind.
My wife and John decided to take things to the next level, and they started planning a weekend getaway together, my wife used our joint bank account to book the hotel, and she even used OUR AIR MILES to fly there.
She told me she was going away for the weekend with her girlfriends, but, I knew she was lying.
I decided then and there, that I was going to give his wife the evidence right away, and at the same time, give this evidence to my divorce attorney.
I waited until my wife left for her "weekend getaway", and then I went to John's house, and rang the doorbell.
When his wife answered, I told her, I have evidence that your husband is cheating on you with my wife, and I have been following them and taking pictures and videos of their affair.
She was in complete shock, she asked me to come inside, so we could talk about it.
I went inside, and showed her the Power Point Presentation I made, with all the evidence I had collected.
She cried as she watched it, and when it was done, she asked me, what should she do?
I told her, it was up to her, but, if it were me, I would confront him with the evidence, and then divorce him.
She thanked me for coming to her and telling her what was going on, she said she was going to think about what she was going to do.
A few days later, John's wife came to my house, and rang the doorbell.
When I answered, she gave me a big hug, and said, thank you so much for coming forward and telling me what was going on.
The next day, my wife and John return from their "WEEKEND GETAWAY", and my wife had no idea that I knew what was going on.
A few days later, John's wife came to our house, and rang the doorbell.
My wife answered the door, and when she saw who it was, she tried to close the door, but John's wife put her foot in the way, so she couldn't close it.
John's wife told my wife, that she knows about the affair, and she showed her the Power Point Presentation I made.
My wife was in complete shock, she could NOT deny it, and she did try to deny it.
After John's wife left our house, I told my wife I have already filed for divorce, you should be served soon.
When I went back to work, I asked my boss did he know of any places that I could rent, it turns out, he owns a few properties, and he rented me one of them.
I moved out of our house, and into my new place, and I haven't seen, or heard from my wife since I moved out.
My attorney has since filed for divorce on my behalf, I am just waiting on the hearing, the house we have, is paid for, and we both make about the same amount of money at our jobs, I really don't care if I have to split the proceeds with her.
I plan to give you guys an update on my situation.
This story is called.
"UPDATE".
- Wife of 16 Years, Gets Caught Cheating.
- I CALL HIS WIFE.
It's been a couple of months since posting my story, when I presented the POWER POINT PRESENTATION to John's wife, she was distraught, and proceeded to file for divorce.
In the events that followed, at the divorce hearing, my ex-wife was awarded half the proceeds of the house, but, it wasn't very much, I took
out a home equity loan to pay down some credit card debt, she ended up with just over $50,000 after the sale of the house, I got a little more.
Her attorney tried to get me to pay alimony, but, the judge wasn't having it, he said that she made enough money to support herself and she would also benefit from the sale of the home.
As for John, he didn't fair so well, his wife told me, she is a stay at home mom, he has to pay her $2,000 a month in spousal support, child support for the 3 kids, she also gets to keep the house, and one of the cars.
They share custody of the kids.
It's been 2 months after the divorce, and I have NOT seen or heard from the ex-wife, but, I did receive a text from her asking me to call her, but, I never text, or called her back.
I am going to change my number in the coming weeks, I don't have any idea why she is texting me.
Rumor has it, that my ex-wife and John are together, but, I don't know for sure, and I do NOT care, I have moved on with my life, that was a horrible experience for me, I lost 2 people for the rest of my life, in a matter of months.
I want to thank everyone for their support, It really helped me get through this!