want to know exactly what's your hidden talents and your gifts are well in
today's video insider I'm gonna share with you three powerful ways that you
can discover that right now and this process by the way it's gonna seem very
simple however what makes it very difficult is society's conditioning upon
yourself and this is something I'm gonna talk about today because I'm sure you
know that you've got to find your passion and all of our stuff and this is
not what I'm gonna share with you you already know that what I'm gonna share with you
more in-depth in regards to psychological reasons you may be blocking yourself
from discovering what you're really born to do so make sure to pay close
attention now before I reveal these ways I wanna just give a quick shout out to
an insider who submitted this question over to us on Facebook she said please
Tim Han how can you know your talent and what you really love to do in your life
firstly Pekayo I just want to say thank you so much for submitting your
question and insider if you also want to be featured on our show all you have to
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chance to be featured on our show as well so Pekayo you pretty much
answered the question yourself it is all about love it's all about passion now if
it was as simple as that everybody should be really following their heart
and living their dream right but in reality most people out there they block
themselves and this is something I'm gonna reveal much much deep into around
the final point so make sure to pay close attention insider so the first
point is something I like to call h2h this is a principle I've now revealed to
people all across the globe and they find this very powerful it's easy to
kind of understand but then again most people don't really get it and it's
because they're trying to process it logically but it doesn't really make
sense logically you know what I mean ok so I want to realize when you're born as
a baby you've got a blank slate and this is who you really are when you're born
this is who you are you're operating from why light called a core identity
you've not been conditioned by the society in regards to what to believe
who to believe who are you what label should I wear am I a banker am I a lawyer am I a
rockstar whatever it maybe right you're you get conditioned by society the moment
you're born firstly your parents tell you what the world is like money is like
whatever to believe whatever religion whatever country you live in laws and so
forth think about it they've got the best intention at heart but your your
parents can only teach you what they know there can only operate from what
they know they only condition you from what they're operating at does that make
sense and your friends and the people around you your teachers have also done
the same and it's no surprise most people out their they lack clarity is
because they're actually saying this is me but what they're actually referring
to is the surface layer identity you know what H2H stands for it's
about receiving signs from people that you may be connecting with that you're
not really familiar with or you're not normally associated with and this is
something I've gone through and it was a breakthrough experience I wanna share with you
this story this illustrate this perfectly there's once a banker named
Adam and he worked in the city of London and after work he would always hang
around with his fancy banker friends he would always wear this expensive Armani
black suit and he'll go over to a cocktail bar very expensive place order
the fancy drinks and so forth and he would always hang around with his
friends on one evening they decided to do the same thing as usual go over to
that cocktail bar and have a drink and once that guy was about to order a
drink he noticed basically was his in the bar you looked as right and he saw a
ragged looking rock star out of nowhere and he took one look at this guy and
he's just kind of like looked back at the bartender and all of a sudden the
rock star basically start a conversation with him and before long they began to
just basically talk and talk and talk and hours went on by and his banker
friends were looking on them they realized he was still back at by the bar
talking to this ragged-looking rock star and pretty much the whole night was
spent like them to just speaking to each other about music and he was on the way
home that night thinking why did I connect with this guy I would normally
never connect with somebody who look like that
he's not a banker he's not like like me or my friends but then that's when it
all makes sense when he was younger his dream was to be a rockstar his ultimate
dream in life wasn't to be a banker yes it has got him all the money but deep
inside he was unsatisfied it wasn't what he's born to do and this was the same
case for me when I was conditioned by my friends when I was hanging out with a
incredibly negative friends you may know I used to be addicted to a lot of
different drugs my friends were also addicted to alot of
drugs I got involved with committing crime even dealing drugs
my friends were also doing that so you can imagine one evening when my stepdad
was watching this TV show called Dragon's Den which is equivalent of
shark tank here in England where entrepreneurs pitch to investors this
was totally out of the norm in regards to what I normally watch compared to
like normal which would be like something really averaging mediocre but
I found it so fascinating in fact that night I began to grab plastic bottles
out of cupboard began to try to invent some new ideas and so forth
put some flavoring into popcorn and all of that stuff and that night I was also
researching online in regards to forums to do entrepreneurship and so forth the
next day I told my friends about it they literally all laughed at me he said
Tim you're like dumb literally somebody actually said that to me either Tim
you're not smart you can't make money look just just continue doing what
you're doing with us you know and that's when I realized how the moment you try
to escape the bucket everybody begins to pull it down so what
H2H is it's by realising that you can actually receive signs in
regards to what you're really born to do your hidden talents and gifts from other
people that you connect with that may actually not be your ordinary peer group
and this is what ends up happening with me at the age of 17 which was a decade
ago I ended up starting my first ever online business and I've not actually
looked back since it all happened from that one connection I had with somebody
who's out of my normal peer group that I just really connected with and ever
since I know what I'm born to do because I connect with other
entrepreneurs I connect with other high achievers because this is what I'm born
to do this is who I am at the core I'm not born to be mediocre
or average I'm not born to be employed I'm
born to be unemployable working for myself right so H2H think about who
you've connected with in the past and as you go on today I want you to be aware of
where you are connecting your your energy with regards to different people
be open to it as well be open to new opportunities landing on your plate and
notice how you feel about those connections because sometimes that can
reveal your hidden talents and gifts and maybe you can jump onto website such as
meetup.com and try to join different groups and see which groups you tend to
be attracted towards that gives you a clue in regards to what you're really
born to do right so that's the first point H2H second point is fear now what
do I mean sometimes in life I found most people out there they actually do know
what they want but they talked themselves out of it because of this
word that begins with B ends with a T it's called but they tell themselves
such as yeah I really wanna do this Tim but I'm really passionate about this
but and they tell themselves every single day but what if the thing that you're
born to do is actually on the other side of fear what if the gift you meant to
share with the world is actually on the other side of fear what if your life
actually began at the end of your comfort zone in which I want you to realize
it most likely will if you were to have told me several years back
Tim you'll be an international speaker traveling all across the globe meeting
president of a country and getting this huge network around I would have thought
are you crazy I'm an I'm an introvert right I've come from a social anxiety
background I'll be like no way and yet it's a reality was this scary when I
jumped on the stage for the first time you bet
I was sweating backstage I've never done so many jumps to get into state before
but when I gone to the stage for first time second time third time fourth time
fifth and sixth seventh time I loved it I found the thing I was naturally good at it
took many many practices to get rid of my conditioning of being shy because of
my bullying background when I was bullied when I was younger but then
I began to find my voice and then began to accumulate millions of hits
online sometimes the thing you're born to do insider it's on that other side
of that fear it's not about what you can do right now is not about whether or not
you can achieve it as who you are right now so always ask yourself who must I
become in order for me to achieve that goal because every single goal requires a
different level of thinking a different level of you showing up
so if asked yourself create a list of everything you're fearful of begin to
take it off one by one and sometimes the thing that you're resisting the most
that's the thing that may be holding that gift that you desire that's the second
point fear go towards where the fear is okay
the third point this has been a life changer for me which is Steve Jobs
quote I started my journey as you may know I was very very inspired by Steve
Jobs commencement address that's when I woke up in my life Steve Jobs in his
commencement address said you cannot connect the dots looking forward you can
only connect dots looking backwards sometimes in life I found is hard to
gain that absolute clarity clarity in regards to what you're really here to do
what you're born to do and the more you think about it sometimes us when you
actually end up with less clarity what I found for my journey is you got to take
that first step you gotta trust whatever happens will happen you look at river
going towards the destination look at it from a sky point of view like a bird eye
point of view you see it meanders goes left and right sits never in a straight
line most people in life what ends up happening is the moment the river of
their life the river of truth begins to go their way that they don't want to
they begin to resist the begins that you swim the other way and that's when you
know we begin to have signs in our life that feeling of not being aligned for
that feeling of uneasiness but what if that corner that you're experiencing in
your life what if that's the corner that's gonna me and you around will be
around even faster so you get to your destination quicker what if you fully
trusted that journey what if you trusted you intuition your
heart the thing that you find yourself being pulled towards but you can't
logically justify what if you were to take action
well I found during my journey I've always found that there's always been
that one thing that I'm interested in and I take action on that I do whatever
it takes and that ends up basically closing that chapter of my life and that
leads to a new chapter and I closed that one in my life that begins a new chapter
in what I realizes life's as a series of chapters but unless we have the courage
to begin that chapter first we cannot finish this book called life in the way we
want to at the end the day what you want your story to be about somebody who
played it safe somebody who didn't take action or somebody who had a courage to
follow their heart take action and make something of it somebody who actually
tried to do something yes they may have failed but at least they tried at least
they got back up at least they did whatever it takes that's what it's all
about in the day you know deep inside I believe what your heart is calling out
to do if you don't go check out more videos here on success insider and get
clear in regards to what is it what's my heart saying go towards that make a
whole list take it off one by one give it
everything you've got don't wait clarity doesn't come from
thinking about it it comes from doing it take action every single day
commit to mastery my friend and that's how you gain clarity on the thing your born to live
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