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KIRSTEN: Shaquille, I would say yes
that I would love to continue this journey with you,
and I would like for us to stay married.
All right, Shaquille.
It's been very difficult for me as a man to really just try
to step up to be the man that you wanted me to be,
that you needed me to be.
But honestly I've just not settled with us.
So what is your decision?
My decision would be for us to get a divorce.
OK.
I've-- I've been feeling alone.
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I've been feeling like there's times where I needed
you and you wasn't there.
What more do I have to do as an individual
to get you to see that?
And it's been hard, and every day I've showed up.
I tried to get you to let down your guards,
but I don't think nothing is ever good enough.
Even when you say it, I don't feel it.
I don't know if there's any more that I
can do to show you that I've been
here for you since day one.
But I hope that you can respect my decision.
I feel like it takes more than eight weeks to decide if you
want to continue in a marriage.
I feel like I've given you chance after chance for you
to show up for me in this marriage,
and I've been very patient and I've shown you so much grace.
And I hate that you didn't receive what you felt that you
needed in this marriage.
I really wish that we both could have explored a little bit more
and gave each other a little bit more time together
to see if this is something that we wanted to do,
but I wish you the best and I hope that everything
in your life works out the way that you
truly want it to work out.
(SINGING) I'm sorry that your heart is broken,
and I'm sorry that you're not the one.
Needless to say, this is not what we were hoping for.
I'm, like, totally shocked.
I'm just, like, gobsmacked.
I didn't expect this, Shaquille.
It's your life.
It's your feelings.
Only you are the expert at that.
I'm just sorry.
Ultimately my decision came from the heart,
and my heart was just heavy and wasn't
at peace to know that Kirsten and I
can be together for a lifetime.
Thank you.
(SINGING) And I'm sorry that you're not the one.
Are you [bleep] serious right now?
Like, I should be the one crying.
You're the one that's saying no.
You're the one that's giving up.
[music playing]
Sometimes people can aim so high and they'll never
receive what they really want out of life
or be OK with who they are and where
they are in life, so good luck.
I'm just shocked.
That is wow.
How much does he need?
I'm sorry.
I don't see him getting any better than that.
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