Self-Love Success Story time - from Adelyne in Perth. So I've been following you
since 2016 and I'm trying to apply the Self-Love meditations but never really
meaning it because I thought it didn't make sense and not important at all. So I have
been just your silent viewer - long story short I have moved down to Perth from the small town
last year and hoped to have a better life but I have been moving around every year from one state
to another, one city to another. Last year was very tough year for me and my family but
I'm pretty sure everybody had the same. Since there has been too much drama, loss, mourning,
disappointment, depression etc that hit my family and I so I decided to heal myself within. Usually
I will run away to Bali for healing but because there is covid so I am stuck in Perth. Why did I
say I needed to heal myself? Because I nearly lost my Dad for two times in a coma and other
family members as they all suffered from the high-risk disease cancer and heart attack.
I've been doing your Self-Love and Ho'oponopono meditations and it has helped me a lot in the
healing process. I also attracted some people in my life and I met a lovely man last year,
he was everything that I needed in my life. We loved every moment that we spent together,
he wanted to make it official after a week we met and he introduced me to his big family
and invited me to have the Christmas dinner together
with them. That was the first time to bring a special someone over to meet the family.
I felt so special and loved, he also met my family in Perth and everything was going perfect like
I've always dreamed of. And the last was we had our first holiday together for New Year's Eve.
I was the happiest lady alive, he treated me like a real lady and we had such a deep connection like
I've never had with anyone else and until I never did Self-Love meditations anymore
because I thought that I already met the love of my life, okay.
Okay, so I think you're saying at that point I stopped doing Self-Love meditations.
I was wrong, I became needy, annoying, short-tempered and all the bad emotions were in
me. I blamed him for this and that and I got angry quickly then I ruined the relationship in seconds
like you wouldn't believe. One day he told me he can't deal with this anymore and he
lost his feelings for me, it broke me into pieces. I never believed that he left me
and wouldn't give me any more chances. I had a massive breakdown
lost five kilos in three weeks, cried every single night and kept searching on YouTube
'How to attract an Ex back'. Nothing worked for sure because I was so needy and I was dependent on
him loving me. One day after we broke up I saw him on the dating site as my friend told me.
I blamed myself for everything and I made space with everybody including
my best friends because I didn't want to talk at all. I wasn't able to share my pain and my
broken feelings while I actually needed help, I was living in a dead body. For around a month
I took all the time for myself to heal again, I quit social media so I didn't have to check on
him, I didn't see anybody else or even talk to anyone. I always went to King's Park every time
I finished working just to be close to nature and sometimes crying as well. And finally I was
ready again to do Self-Love meditations and Ho'oponopono. I started to get my confidence and
strength back and then I slowly did the sending love to the SP, Whispering Technique, scripting,
living in the end and I think I nearly did everything. By the time it became too much for me,
I focused on doing Self-Love, Ho'oponopono and sending love because I didn't want any anger
and hatred within me towards him. Because he was a good man and part of my life. Sometimes
I had a little breakdown like losing hope or no motivation at all, I think that's the part of the
process and I told myself I accept this feeling, I accept this sadness and losing and missing - I
surrender with this. Whenever I felt like not myself I straight away did Self-Love meditations
and said positive affirmations to keep me aware. Or I went to King's Park - I know where that is
um Adelyne because when I was in quarantine in Perth it was right near where I was so
isn't that funny that was close to where you are writing this story about. So,
because we used to go there a lot and I just reminisced about the beautiful moments we created
there I know it hurts a lot but also it made me feel like he was with me in spirit, that's
how I found my strength back and healed myself quickly by visiting the places we used to go and
reminiscing about everything because I didn't want to make it a trauma whenever I visited it again.
I slowly had dreams about him and his family, got signs from the universe - like I saw his name car
and even somebody that looked exactly like him everywhere. I accepted it from the universe.
It has been nearly three months since we broke up and I feel so much happier and better than before.
I've been joining muay thai for a new hobby, having an active lifestyle, making friends and
new connections, learning new things, doing my nails to make myself happy, reading books and
visiting new places. To be honest I'm completely a new person and way calmer this time. I manage
my emotions very well now this is not the end of everything Agnes but a big starter of something.
Here we go, for the past three months I've been focusing on myself meditations and just me no
more him or how to attract him back - it means I found the meaning of Self-Love. You won't believe
what happened to me, I have manifested things so easily from the little things such as getting into
the car park easily, no need to wait in line to order coffee and making money around 10k
in a few hours for the company I work for. I have impressed my manager and boss because I
have been just working there since February this year. When I said I sell "this" today,
it happens easily. I have attracted so many guys in the old school way, no dating sites for me
anymore which is - I meet them at a coffee shop or at work or at a bookshop. Sometimes I found
it creepy because every single guy that I smiled at suddenly approached me and asked me on a date.
For these past three months I have received dinner invitations from more than 10 guys including some
of my customers - like seriously many. I didn't go with all of them because right now I have upgraded
my taste and no more average joes for me, all of a sudden most of my exes and the guys I've
dated in the past suddenly send me texts to reconnect back or stalk me on social media,
even though they have blocked me. One by one, started to approach me back
every single day - this is because of the magic of Self-Love meditation and just like the random
guys at the shopping centre suddenly walked to me just to say 'I just want to say you're so
beautiful' or 'I feel so attracted to you I feel a good vibe when you walked into the restaurant,'
it happens many times. Creepy? uh a bit but I was more surprised
so I played with my mind again - "let's have Anastasia Grey's life now" - if you know the
'Fifty Shades of Grey' movie then you know, I told that to myself for fun only nothing
serious at all. This is the hot part of this story let's call it, I was attracted
to someone I didn't know he had a high position -not my boss though, not related to my company.
When we first met at his department he was a bit cocky so I told myself, 'you're going to chase me
and date me, you might fall in love with me' - I said those words for fun only so nothing serious.
After a week or so he started to approach me and then he followed me to the lift,
this was the time he asked me for my contact - he started chasing me, cooked for me. asked me to go
on a date - we even celebrated my birthday last month together. Everything truly fell into place,
he is a nice gentleman because I said in my mind far before 'this man is such a gentleman
to me'. He even kept mentioning like 'you're such a love magnet, I like your vibes' or
'you are very attractive and I just feel you are a magnet'. Yes in some of the Self-Love
meditations there was an affirmation where it said 'I am the magnet of love,
I am attractive in my own way' - seriously that part became real like you wouldn't believe.
And one day he told me that he likes me I was like wow seriously I never thought I'd attract an
affluent man right now. I felt like living in Anastasia Grey's life for the first time. Anyway,
everything is not exclusive yet because I'm still enjoying having my new happy single life. Now this
is not the end yet just a week and a half ago when I was at the coffee shop doing some work there was
a man sitting there suddenly asking my number and wanting to take me out for dinner - like
that easy. So we went out for dinner last night as I am still a free lady, at dinner he told me
he liked me when the first time I walked into the coffee shop - he even said that I am a love
magnet and this man is not an average guy. He is settled with everything at such a young age,
he's a successful businessman living in one of the richest areas - I can tell he is part of
the affluent men in Perth. And here I'm kind of manifesting my Anastasia Grey life again that I
never thought I'd be in this situation at all. I know my story is long Agnes but I can tell
you that I've attracted around five affluent men after someone broke up with me - it was
out of my expectations and sometimes I said things for fun only but it came into reality. Do I still
want my ex back? Well i don't really know since i found somebody that is way, way, way, way better
so I think I deserve this all because why should I go back? I am a happy lady right now living my
life but still confused how the hell I manifested all of these men easily. Right now I want to focus
on manifesting my first own apartment terrace and having a way better financial status while
I am still young. For all of these men, let them still chase me until one of them has the courage
to put the ring on me - let's have that attitude for now shall we? The conclusion and for all of
your viewers - I have been there and done that, it's okay to feel down, lost, broken and better
to accept it rather than deny it. Take your own time, as much as you need. Cry as much as you want
but remember one day you need to expand your wings back it's totally okay to have another
breakdown in the middle of the process to manifesting your specific person because that
was me before. No matter how much you want to attract someone, if you are still needy, insecure,
anxious, so it will never work because your vibes don't match theirs. Self Love is a must like your
life is depending on it - trust me Self-Love is my magic mantra now - heal yourself first,
upgrade and make yourself more attractive - I have never been this better in my life
at all. I am completely a new person because of Agnes' meditation - oh don't do it too much,
focus on one or two or three at most and do it before you go to sleep and after you wake up.
Don't worry about anything else or checking on the person, save yourself from the negative emotions
because that's what I did. I'm still doing Self-Love meditation until today to keep me aware,
remember your happiness depends on you - you get love from you, don't ever ask or even depend
on it from someone else at all because once that person leaves it will leave you nothing
but heartbreak only. Thank you so much for taking your time to read my long story Agnes,
thank you for your beautiful meditations without you I might still be crying tonight.
Lovely. Adelyne in Perth. Ah, I've got to go that's the alarm for a coaching client so,
lovely Adelyne thank you for the success story and it is - Self-Love success stories are a real
success because once you get that right the rest is easy. I will put the Self-Love success stories
playlist down below and I will also put some Self-Love meditations down below in a playlist and
that should be enough lots of love.