This video is about "The Power of Walking Away from a Woman." I'll explain the power of walking
away from a woman you're dating, seeing, in a relationship with. To find out more
please stay tuned to this video! Welcome to The SCG Show! The SCG Show is officially sponsored
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A few years ago I walked away from a toxic relationship with a woman who was attractive
but a narcissist. I remember speaking to another woman who was interested in dating me after
when she found out I was single. She said "Oh no SCG how did you mess it up?!" I said
"I was not the problem in the relationship..." She was bemused by my statement. She said
"But you're a man and she's beautiful, surely you did something to screw it up?!"
Is this how most men are seen these days? Bumbling buffoons who can't do anything right?
Possibly but I digress. What is toxic shame? Toxic shame is a feeling that you're worthless... it
happens when other people treat you badly and you turn that treatment into a belief about yourself
The amount of toxic shame I got when walking away from that ex was astounding! As I mentioned I was
accused of "screwing up the relationship" others said "you might never find a girlfriend again"
I was 31 when I was single others said "you've missed the boat to get married" others said "you have
no chance of settling down" and even some insisted "go back because you might not find anyone else!"
The above did my confidence no good at all and it really confused me at the time
when I was trying to heal and recover from the breakup
Whether the woman you're walking away from is a supermodel or a partner of several years
either way if you're watching this video i can guess that she's not good for you that
she's not healthy for you that is, she's not bringing anything to your life that is positive
good and worthwhile and she might be making your life more toxic, difficult, stressful, negative
overall. So if you are thinking of walking away or already done so, pat yourself on the back for
having the guts to do what most men wouldn't even dare or dream of doing these days. Let's continue
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If you have the guts and courage to walk away from a woman in a day and age where men are viewed in
a particular way that's discouraging, that makes you unique my friend. Unique in a very positive way
What do most men do nowadays? They settle. They settle in loveless
and sexless relationships... settle for toxic partners and situations... settle in mediocre
jobs for an unsatisfying pay... they settle for whatever they can get under a scarcity mindset
Who can blame them? Remember that toxic shame I endured when I walked away? That is what
most men are believing and are adopting, thus shaping their reality and decision making too
Walking away and blocking going no contact is rare. I personally know a man who had difficulty
walking away from a very toxic woman, she was attractive and played with his emotions for years
every single time he tried to leave she'd hoover him back in and like a hamster on a wheel he'd
run in circles ruining his life in the process, not to mention his mental health. When I told
him how I walked away and stayed away, it gave him the courage and confidence to do the same
"You're the only man I know who's done such a thing, most of my friends are cowards, are in the same
boat as me as well," he said. He finally did what he needed to do, he walked away for good, deleted
her number and went and remained no contact. "I was met with the tirade of toxic shame" he said
"but then I realized that the men in my life almost looked up at me as inspirational for standing up
for what I believe in and actually standing up for myself" Remember that is the power of walking away
especially from a woman! Especially from any woman! I'm not degrading women here because
it's just standing up for yourself and what's best for you especially if that person is toxic
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If most men settle, bow their heads like lap dogs, have no voice and backbone, not to mention sit
there and take all the abuse and neglect etc, what does it make the man who walks away from
a woman? Extremely attractive! There was a man who was a pushover to his partner, she'd say jump and
he'd ask "how high" He was smart, intelligent but she chipped away at him and destroyed his confidence
over the years... she would begrudgingly show him affection... she'd never really kiss him or hug him
and they rarely slept together and she woke up in the morning sometimes and gave him a sigh
of disgust. Whenever he tried to be intimate she'd make an excuse "I'm tired... I'm not interested"
or if he'd show off his achievements at work it'd be dismissed. She was a nasty, horrible partner and
then one day he cracked "I can't do this anymore!" he said, he packed his bags and left. He was met
with a tirade of abuse "You scumbag! Coward! You'll be back! You're nothing without me!" but he blocked
her number, took time to reflect and decided what step he'll take next. After a few weeks he
realized he wanted to break up and returned home to gather his things, and his partner had changed
She was nice to him, apologetic and begged him to go to bed "I can't get at you out of my mind....
I crave you... I need you.... you're so attractive to me...I just don't know why?!" she said. But he turned
her down, took his stuff and split with her. He met the love of his life shortly afterwards and
actually got married and this old partner of hers never moved on and has always struggled dating
and she always talks about "the one who got away" aka her ex who she mentally and emotionally
drove away through her abuse and her bad behavior. This man literally became attractive overnight by
packing up and walking away from a woman who was abusive and toxic and extremely negative
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Yes contrary to what the media, social media, strangers, friends and family will have said
there's options out there! There are plenty of fish in the sea, there are plenty of women out there
You have just been raised and convinced to have a scarcity mindset
What's a scarcity mindset? A scarcity mindset is when you're so obsessed with the lack of something
on a planet with literally billions of people. How often do we find ourselves saying "there's
just nobody out there....every woman is taken.... the dating apps suck for men but it's great for women...
I'm too old to date... I'm too fat to date...I'm too short to date....I don't make enough money to date
I've been out of the game for too long... I'll never find anyone as attractive as her...." I remember after
walking away from a toxic relationship and thinking the same thoughts almost immediately. I
thought my life was over genuinely... I thought that no woman would ever want to date me, see me, love me
again and I even foolishly thought of taking back my ex if i struggled to meet another woman. Well
since that fateful night I've had plenty of dates, I have met many women, I've had two relationships
and fallen in love twice in the space of three years of separating, blocking and walking away from
the narcissist. There are options out there, there are women out there, there are women who will love
and appreciate you for you, they will be attracted to you, they'll find you interesting and if they
find out not in a showing off way that you've walked away because you think you deserve better
you'll be more attractive. You just need to do a lot of work on yourself, you need to stay strong
after walking away, you need to heal and recover and learn and you need to believe in yourself
and put yourself out there as well. Take the risks with dating, go up to women, face rejection head on
Walking away from a woman is the only way. "This is the way" as the Mandalorian will insist. You
have most likely done a variation of the following = tried talking things through... you've tried changing
so much even tried therapy and even couples therapy extensively... you've tried every approach
you've been unbelievably patient... you've sacrificed so much... you've worked so hard to
improve things to please her and so on and where has that realistically gotten you? Right here
watching this video. You'll never be good enough for the wrong person. I know it sucks,
it's a massive blow to the ego but you are in a predicament here where this woman needs to go
but maybe she won't and you should not expect her to, no matter how much you push her to convince her
to and so on. Instead you, yes you, need to be the one who has the courage and guts to do so. You must
walk away, you must walk away to move on and do you know what... do it for her... do it so she can
move on eventually... she can find someone else better suited for her and if she doesn't want
to find someone else, it's her life, her choice but also do it for your future self, who will
thank you for having the courage to actually make a positive lasting impact in your life!