Now, when most people want other people
to pay more attention to them,
what do they end up doing?
They go and seek attention from that person.
And I'm here to tell you that that is completely wrong.
Here are three powerful ways to make a man miss you
and pay more attention to you.
Keep watching.
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Hey there, Adam Lodolce from sexyconfidence.com
where I help the 21st century woman create a love life
that she absolutely freaking loves.
And this video is going to be teaching you
how to make a man miss you.
But for starters, I want to say that this is really
designed for single women
or women who are kind of casually dating a guy.
If you're in a relationship,
then this really isn't the video for you.
Because I believe that if you're in a healthy relationship
then you really should be open and honest with a person
about how it is that you're feeling.
The tactics and techniques in this video
are really not designed once you are in
that real, committed relationship.
But if you are single and there is a guy that you are
definitely into and you want him to pay more attention
to you, be more interested in you, then do this one thing.
Stop trying to make him miss you
and pay more attention to you.
I'm about to give you some mother(bleep) girl game.
Which will teach you how to get a man
to pay attention to you, without playing manipulative games.
Number one, be really social with a lot of people
when you're around him.
Let's say you're both at a party or a function or a bar
and he happens to be in one part of the room,
and you happen to be in the other part of the room.
What I want you to do is go around
and talk to a lot of people.
This is not to make him jealous,
I don't want you to just hone in on one guy
and keep looking over to see
if he's paying attention to you to make him jealous
'cause you're talking to some dude.
No, I want you to actually just work the room.
Be incredibly social and talk to a lot of different people.
Some women and some men.
Move around the room, talk to different people,
but at the same time stay away from him.
He's going to take notice that you're talking
to a lot of people
but you're not necessarily engaging with him.
And then as the night goes on, let him come to you.
Let him come over to you.
Yes, as the night goes on, you can give him a few looks,
maybe a smile.
But let him finally make the move
and come start talking to you.
Then we jump to step number two,
which is what I call the Touch and Flake.
This is where you essentially break the touch barrier
and touch somewhere on him.
Have a quick conversation but then move on.
I remember I was once at a party with some friends
and there was a woman there who I was really into
for a while.
And I remember, just like I said in point number one,
she was working the room,
talking to lots of different people
and then I finally just had to come over
and start talking to her.
And then I remember, the moment I started talking to her,
she comes up to me, puts one hand on my chest,
one hand on my neck and comes in and smells my neck
and says, "Mm, you smell good."
Whew!
Now that's some girl game.
And she knows.
She didn't stick around, she didn't keep talking to me,
she actually walked away.
And when she started walking away from me,
I remember thinking to myself,
"I have to have her in my life."
So this is a great way to be able
to show interest in a guy
and show him that you're interested
but not necessarily lingering or sticking around
or making things awkward.
It gives him that little interest
and then before you know it,
he's going to start paying a lot more attention to you.
And finally number three,
which is I want you to be busy and be hard to get.
Don't play hard to get.
Be hard to get.
A lot of women and guys, for that matter,
when they're playing hard to get,
they're playing these ridiculous games
to make it look like they have a cool life.
My advice to you, as always,
is to have actually a very cool life.
Find something interesting to do with your life.
Start traveling.
Commit to finding a hobby
that you can do on a regular basis.
I remember about three years ago,
I started kite surfing and, I don't know,
wherever you live if there are kite surfers,
it became truly my passion.
What I get to do in my free time,
when I'm not doing Sexy Confidence,
when I'm not working on Sexy Confidence.
And it gives me that ability to kind of enjoy my life
and have my own time.
And for all you sexy, single ladies out there,
it's so important for you to have your thing.
Have your time where you can kind of space out
and enjoy yourself and also have something interesting
to talk about when you are around people.
It'll make you less available to men,
it'll make you a more interesting person,
and that is ultimately what is going to make a man
miss you and want you
and want to really pay attention to you.
Because he's interested in you,
the substance of who you are,
not just this idea of who you are.
So I want to hear from you
in the comments right there below.
Which one of these three things
are you gonna focus on the next time you see a guy?
Leave that comment right there below.
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Thank you so much for watching and I will speak to you,
you sexy, single lady, next Thursday.
Buh-bye.