Hi this is Christy Whitman with the Quantum Success Show where you can get your information
and inspiration to create your desires and I’m really excited about today show because
I had to really amazing thought leaders, transformational leaders with me into amazing women that I
call friend, a friend so it’s Sonia Ricotti and Natalie Ledwell.
So everybody’s heard about the law of attraction and most people think that is the most important
law to understand and work with.
The truth is the law of attraction is just literally reflecting back the vibration that
we are giving out to it.
So law of attraction is working all the time the matter who we are.
The thing is it’s not really working with law of attraction is working with all the
other universal laws.
My favorite law in the one that’s literally changed my life, my business, every aspect
is working with the law of sufficiency and abundance.
Because when you’re coming from that aligned vibrational place of abundance…
When you’re sending a signal out, when your thoughts reflecting when your beliefs reflect
abundance when you’re really feeling a sense of connection and just alignment and expansion…
That’s when the universal law of attraction then kicks in and that’s when you see the
evidence in your reality.
So I am with two amazing abundantly mind set it kind of women and I’m just really excited
to have a discussion about what is abundance mean to you and how do you work with the law
of sufficiency and abundance in your own life?
Well I’ll start…
For me what’s really important and I talk about this a lot with it and all of my teachings
is the importance of you know a lot of times we focus on I want to attract this or what
to track that and what I talk about is the importance of actually getting yourself into
a specific state.
Which is a state that opened yourself up to receive great things.
The main ones that I talk about our love, peace, joy, and gratitude.
Those are really high vibrational states and if you focus on them and getting yourself
into that state then you will be amazed at what opens up for you and then you will start
receiving things coming to you as your focusing on the things that you want to come into your
life.
And so to me that’s the most important thing is really getting yourself to place of inner
peace.
To place of love.
To place of being grateful for everything that you have in your life.
And you know being instead of love.
And those are phenomenal states.
Once you’re in those states like feels good anyway.
Once you feel good you are projecting positive energy and therefore you are attracting great
things into your life.
For me it’s…
I come from more of a scientific you know creating neural pathways in your brain type
of angle.
If we are thinking abundant thoughts and acting abundantly than what we’re doing is we are
vibrating at that vibrational resonance out into the quantum field her out to the universe.
So even a small actions that we do on a daily basis is what the universe is picking up.
So for me like if like I’m parking the car and I have to put quarters in the parking
meter I always put more than I need to.
It’s only an extra $.50 you know so for me it’s like I’m going to make someone’s
day.
Just by adding the extra dollar or whatever it is.
When I eat out I always make sure I eat out to the next five or $10 and I do the cents
and everything I just make sure around that.
Were just talking an extra couple of dollars.
So every time I do something like this it helps put me and that abundant vibration.
So every time I do that I am reminding myself that my thoughts are all abundance so when
you resonate at that frequency through abundance and law of attraction…
Whatever say vibrational match to that is an attracted back to you.
I think a lot of people see us and we were having a discussion yesterday we were having
a beautiful spot treatment, and having lunch together and enjoying our girl time together
that a lot of people will see us now and say well it’s easy for you because your abundant.
You can already attract whatever you want.
It’s easy for you.
But it wasn’t always easy for us.
All three of us were not from that space.
No…
Originally silver spoon you know.
Go.
I always say I was one of the most negative people and if there was anything to focus
on it was coming from a space of lack.
You are the most negative…
Oh you were not I can assure you I was…
No but I think all three of us come from an I know I was so negative and even being around…
I love my mom and dad very much but I can see wow…
That mindset of where I used to come from and now its total polar opposites.
So for you…
What was it for you that really shifted?
What was that one thing that moves you from lack to abundance and allows you to then move
from?
Oh I remember…
Me too…
I remember I was taking a course and this was many, many, many years ago and for the
first time in my life I became present to the fact that I was the cause of my own suffering.
And that was shocking to me.
And exciting to me at the same time.
Because I can control me.
I realize that my thoughts…
I really say everything going on in my life is really caused by me.
These thoughts are…
Your thoughts are water causing you to feel unhappy.
To feel stress.
To feel resentment.
Or whatever it is those thoughts that are causing you to feel that.
Not necessarily what’s going on around you but your thoughts about was going on around
you.
And for that reason I just really remember saying wow I always thought it was everyone
else’s fault on why I feel this way and it wasn’t.
It was because of me.
I think as soon as I became very presence of that I started living my life differently.
I started changing what I was thinking and I started to become aware of my thoughts.
And awareness is the first key to transformation.
And so to me that was my first step towards transformation and I started to realize wow
I have a lot of negative thoughts.
As soon as they started shifting that things are shifting in my life as well.
Mine was actually by accident.
I’m thinking that I’ve got everything together and I’m pretty cool because I see
the glass half full and Glenn and I were creating a product with a friend of ours in Sydney
and we were filming in her living room.
And this particular module that we were filming was called eliminating limiting beliefs.
Natalie I need to do an exercise with you on camera and I’m like I don’t think I
can help you out.
Because you know I have it all together and…
She goes well let me ask your question.
She goes do you have enough money in your life?
And I’m like no…
And she goes what do we just start there see what happens.
So we sat down and asked me a series of questions really to get me into my subconscious mind.
Then she asked me that question when did you first form your limiting belief around money?
And without hesitation I said when I was five.
What came up for me was an incident where these kids were teasing me at school…
My maiden name was Roloff and I used to get Roloff the cliff you know Roloff the hill
and you know kids were like…
And my observation was that you know like the richer kids the one worth money where
the meanness.
So that was my association for someone of eight children.
So you as you can imagine there’s always stress around money and the household.
So that was what my programming was.
I had no idea that this programming was actually what was holding me back.
After I came out of the process our members crying.
I had tears coming down my face and in the realization like dominoes, all these thoughts,
all these decisions, all these things I used to say.
This whole realization of just like you.
I was like okay, this is sad that this has happened but this is amazing because now I
know I can choose.
Now that I know what these negative thoughts that are no longer serving me are…
Now I can choose more empowering thoughts.
That actually happen in February 2008.
In September 2008 which is when we get our first big mind movies launch which was a huge
success.
And since then it’s been the most financially and spiritually successful years of my life.
I love how…
It is a cause and effect thing.
When you shift your environment whether it’s just a belief or a concept…
You know it just completely shifts the outer reality as well.
I know for me it was really coming from that place of…
Is not just law of abundance is law of sufficiency and abundance.
So for me that was a big thing is that getting that…
Whatever your conditions are right now…
Whatever your living right now is finding a positive aspects about that.
So even if it’s this is what my situation is right now and this information is going
to help me grow, just finding the gratitude like you were talking about.
That finding the gratitude in the positive aspects about that because coming from that
sufficient place…
The sufficiency is the doorway into abundance.
Because you cannot create any type abundance of a place from this is not enough.
Its two totally different vibrations.
And you cannot attract abundance from a place of lack.
So just coming through that doorway you know this is good enough for now.
So whatever your conditions are, your financial situation, your relationship, whatever it
is…
Finding those positive aspects to at least issue on a neutral ground.
Because it is when you are in that space of being heavily in that…
We’ve all been there and we were talking about that before it is easy to just completely
get caught up in that condition.
It doesn't feel good.
Those conditions don’t feel good.
But getting excited about what’s going to happen when your financial situation does
change and what you can experience and what you know you can achieve and how you will
fill and how you going to spend the money.
How you can a give the money.
I know we just get a video for the unstoppable hero toast and for us to be only give generously.
You know just all the different aspects of what is having money and not just money but
what does have an abundance mean to you.
Because abundance means so much.
It is part of money and money is a part of that but it’s an abundance of patients if
your mom.
It’s have an abundance of patience if your kids.
It’s having an abundance of kindness.
It’s having an abundance of generosity.
It’s an abundance of all things.
We are the ones that decide.
We are the ones that choose based on our thoughts, beliefs, and the field that we get into.
It’s interesting that you say when you’re talking about that because we talk about gratitude
and we had an amazing dinner last night well when around the table and just talked about
how grateful we were.
But what you are talking about just then…
I make a habit of being grateful by writing down five things in a journal every night.
And then five new things every day.
But when you’re going through challenging times for your moving towards a goal in and
it’s tough…
Which it always is.
I always write one or two gratitude’s about that particular thing.
Because it helps to shift your energy around it.
Like when you’re stuck in a negative vortex of the situation you’re in and you can’t
see out of it you really need to get above that energy.
And the easiest and fastest way to do that is through gratitude.
So really look at what’s good and what you little winds are for the day and focus on
that because the more he focus on that the more it expands.
I would like to add something to the thing is that we always focus on what we want to
attract in their vision boards, and how great our life will be in the truth is we forget
that our life is right now.
A lot of the stress and the fear and resentment and all these negative emotions are usually
because we are focusing either on the past or focusing on something in the future.
The truth is the past doesn't exist except in our minds…
We all know that.
The future doesn't even exist.
Which is a little scary for people who are really in the law of attraction because that’s
what law of attraction is is trying to create your future and bring abundance into your
life and whatever that means to you.
But the truth is the future doesn't exist.
The future once it arrives is the present.
So that doesn't…
The future doesn't exist in the past doesn't exist and all we have is this moment.
And you know what maybe this moment is in exactly the way you want it to be but the
truth is this is your life.
If you can be happy in this moment exactly the way things are and able to accept it and
surrender to what is knowing fully well that great things are waiting for you around the
corner.
That’s when you know that they are arriving and coming to you.
And getting into that feeling of love, peace, joy, and gratitude in this moment helps so
much in attracting when the future does arrive its great things waiting for you.
And often when you’re feeling really stressed out it is because you are not present in the
moment.
And if you could just ask yourself these words…
What problem so I have right now this moment?
Right now?
So unless you’re getting attacked by a bear or something…
But generally speaking you don’t…
It’s usually you’re watching a program or you’re watching a video and you don’t
have any problems in this moment.
You might have some pain from health issues and all of that but the truth is to bring
yourself into the present is a great way to elevate your vibration.
You know and letting go of control of the future of what could possibly…
If someone five years ago what is said to me you know 5+ years ago when I lost everything.
I was six figures and dad, have health issues, a blood clot, had a relationship breakup…
All of that kind of stuff going on.
If someone said to me…
Here’s a crystal ball and this is what your life will look like five or six years from
now I wouldn’t have believed them.
But if I knew if it was true in that moment I could’ve gotten here way, way faster.
Right…
Because the truth is it’s about being grateful and present in the present knowing fully well
that there’s a reason for what’s happening and you need to let go.
If you don’t get the job that you’ve always wanted and you are really hoping for…
You know what the universe is saying there something better for you.
Trust me this was not the job for you.
So just trust, just trust and really focus on the present moment is easy then to let
go of any stressors going on in your life of things that are not working out the way
you want to right now.
Well in this present moment I’m just grateful for the two of you.
I’m grateful for the time that we’ve shared during this week together.
With the difference that both of you make in my life and I many, many other people’s
lives.
I just feel grateful that I get to be friends with amazing conscious women like you.
So thank you.
I’m grateful for all of you to…
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