#1 Incorporate frame control into your body language. Your words should ALWAYS match your
body language.
That’s the whole point of body language, to sub-communicate your frame, or what your
words are saying.
Frame control can be defined as the context of your interactions.
For example, if you’re at a party and someone comes over and is pressuring you into a drink
they’re offering and you say “no”, but you say it in a nervous tone, without eye
contact, without open body language, facing away from them, and if you are easily persuaded
otherwise, then you have weak frame control because the context in which you said no,
was really weak and not firm.
Your body language and subcommunications were incongruent to what you were saying which
means that you had a weak frame and probably weren’t confident in what you said, or were
nervous about it.
Meanwhile strong frame control would be saying no, in a confident, loud and clear tone, with
strong, open, and controlled body language, and not being easily swayed or convinced from
your decision.
A lot of guys think if you strike a pose and just stand around looking cool that the girls
will just throw themselves at you. Well newsflash motherfucker, that ain’t gonna happen...
not at all.
You have to ACTUALLY go up and be talking to them and taking action. This is why incorporating
good body language and frame control within those conversations is important.
#2 Use slow and controlled, but purposeful movements
Don’t move in a panicked fashion or in a rushed manner because it shows that you’re
allowing others to pressure you, and that you’re not on your own schedule. Just take
a deep breath, realize that you’re the boss, baby, and that you’re on your own time,
nobody else’s.
When you have strong and clear body language like this, there’s a certain almost stillness
associated with it that shows dominance, strong self-confidence, and value to the girl.
#3 When you walk into a room or door, you take the lead and go through first in a confident,
controlled, manner that’s at your own pace.
Not only should you be leading the interactions but you should physically be leading the way
as well to show leadership.
#4 Always stand up straight with your shoulders pushed back and chest out.
Easy enough right?
#5 Be in tune with your own body. Recognize your own movements, and be totally comfortable
with them. That internal comfortability with yourself and your own movements are what convey
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Now this is common knowledge, but the reason it works is because we subconsciously perceive
people and other animals that take up more space as more dominant, if you appear this
way to the girl, subconsciously, she’ll assume that you’re a more dominant, and
high status guy.
This doesn’t mean spread your limbs out like a fucking starfish in the corner and
just wait for the ladies to flock in. You’ll just look like a weirdo performing a witchcraft
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Just be a little more loose and don’t be afraid to take up a bit more space.
#7 Square your shoulders up with the girl and keep your feet pointed at her aka have
open body language.
This will ensure you’re facing her completely and not shying away from her and showing submissive,
bitch-ass body language.
#8 Eye contact. This is an obvious one you hear all the time but people never get into
the nuances that convey attractive and high value eye contact.
You should be holding eye contact until the other person looks away, you generally don’t
want to look away first because sometimes really hot girls will hold eye contact with
you and see if you look away first to test your confidence and level of comfort around
her.
Another thing you should do is look away occasionally while the other person talks to indicate that
she has to earn your attention, and that you’re not immediately locked into her without her
having to earn it and prove herself first.
#9 Talk with your hands, it takes up more space, and draws more attention and focus
to what you’re saying from those around you.
#10 Speak in a loud tone.
If you don’t care enough to make sure that she can hear what you’re saying, she’s
not gonna care enough to stand around trying to decode what you’re saying over the loud
ass Migos song blaring in the background.
#11 It’s okay to enter someone’s space as long as it’s not invasive or uncalibrated.
You want to be about half an arm’s length away with the girl, if you’re in a loud
environment talk in her ear occasionally then pull back.
If she leans back or steps back slightly when you do this, it means she’s not that comfortable
with you yet, in which case you shouldn’t lean in again, until you’ve talked to her
for long enough and have built more comfort and trust.
#12 Some more dominant poses are things like having your hands on your hips, sitting down
with your arm across whatever it is you’re sitting on, and seated with your elbow and
hand leaning on your leg.
These poses will help convey your confident frame and make sure you’re not displaying
any weak body language.
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you’re not it’ll show… these are more to change some bad habits you may have that
are preventing you from displaying your true confidence.
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