- If you want to attract love,
if you want to create your dream life
you got to take the shock collar off.
Imagine that you have the shock collar that's on,
some people, what they do with their dogs
is they'll put a shock collar on their dogs
if they don't want their dogs to leave their yard.
So what they do is there's like a perimeter that set up,
imagine that there's a perimeter set up.
And what happens is anytime you cross over that
you get shocked.
Well, in the same way that people do that to dogs
to keep their dogs safe,
your ego is doing the same thing for you
to keep you from doing anything that's unknown.
So that's the way the ego works,
the ego just wants to be safe.
So there's times that you may be intending to go
after somebody that you're attracted to
but you're afraid of rejection.
So you start walking up
and as you get closer to the perimeters, you get zapped.
So it could be
that you want to go full time doing what you love.
And what you do is you start, you have this idea,
this business idea, you start taking action with it.
You know, I know when I started making YouTube videos
all these fears came up.
The closer I got to that,
of the process of me putting out videos,
the more I'd feel this buzz come up.
When I would start making videos
and people start noticing what I was saying
and I would start wondering what people thought about me,
I was worried about what people were thinking about me.
And as I did that, I was feeling the zap.
I feel the doubt wondering,
"Am I good enough?
Does what I say has value?"
I feel zapped again, but that was just my ego
trying to keep me safe.
Now, the reason I'm asking you this,
is because there may be something that you could do
that would take your life to the next level
but you feel doubt.
You feel like something's holding you back.
What if the only thing holding you back
was the story that you're telling yourself
about why you can or can't have that what you want,
that's what happens most of the time.
Now realize it's just like taming a dog
and some people may do the whole shock collar thing.
I don't know if I would do that but (laughing)
some people would.
And I actually bought this online just for this video,
(laughing) 'cause that's how inspired I was
to talk about this.
I'm going to go inside now 'cause it's getting so bright
and my blue sensitive eyes.
It's just that they can't really stay out there yo.
So think about it like that.
The shock collar is keeping you where you are.
Now the shock collar is also
the story you're telling yourself
about why you are, where you are.
The story is keeping you trapped,
you have a story about love that says that,
"I'm not worthy of attracting a certain type of person
or I always attract a certain type of person."
And then when you go out
and you start putting yourself out there
you may be afraid of rejection and you may be afraid of...
Or just think you're not worthy
of having certain types of relationships.
So what happens is, your ego just keeps you safe
so that you say stuck where you are.
Now for this it's about realizing that part of the process
is knowing that as you get more and more
to the perimeter of your belief system,
think of this also as your belief system,
what do you believe to be true?
There was a version of me
that was working a nine to five job.
Imagine that was me working a nine to five job,
there was a version of me that felt unworthy,
there was a version of me that was also a nice guy.
This is about three to six months ago
I've had a complete transformation
realizing how inauthentic it was to be a people pleaser.
But you see the ego had this shock collar on me that said,
"Oh, don't give tension,
don't be authentic because people might reject you,
try to get the approval and validation of other people."
So as I would then go and try to...
And be authentic, I would, didn't worry,
all these zap, zap.
I just got to be likable, I got to chase people's approval,
that was the belief.
But then what happened is I then started to become aware
that I was wearing that shock collar, I became aware of it.
And then I was like, "Okay, this is keeping me safe
like, yes, I'm dealing with it
but it's not actually authentic."
You know, why?
Why am I actually even wearing this thing?
And then I realized, you know what?
I can trust myself enough to know that I do not need to,
once I find the, where is it?
Dang, this thing actually hurts.
I don't actually have to wear it,
I thought that I had to wear this
for a long time to keep me safe.
But I realized then that
if you do the same things every day,
if you feel the same emotions every day
and you think the same thoughts every day
you get the same results over and over again.
A shock collar will keep you in the repetitive mind
thinking the same thoughts,
feeling the same motions and doing the same things.
In order for you to create magic in your life,
you have to take the jump.
You have to take the shock collar off
and realize that stepping
into the unknown is where all the magic happens.
Nothing magical happens in the known,
in the known, it's the same things
that you've been created in your life over and over again.
It's safe, the shock collar is safe.
If you want to create magic in your life
take off the shock collar.
It will feel uncomfortable sometimes
you'll feel like you're doing something wrong.
You'll feel like if you go outside the perimeter
of your house, that something bad's going to happen
because what is out there into the unknown?
But that's the point of this whole entire video
is you have to take the jump
knowing that there will be some doubts that come up,
those doubts are just the shock collar, that's it.
It's this thing right here, keeping you safe
but the problem is that keeping you safe
is keeping you where you are.
So take off the shock collar
and know that the doubts are going to come up.
You push through it, you take action,
you realize that as those doubts come up,
it's just the old ego, it's just the old shock collar.
I had lots of doubts when I was going full-time on YouTube,
when I was making videos,
I cared about what people thought a lot.
I was afraid that leaving a nine to five job
that I felt so comfortable doing for so long
that I made 50-60K a year,
where it was like, "If I let this go, what will I do
if it doesn't work out?"
That was the ego trying to rationalize the safety,
with love and the nice guy pattern.
It was safe to be that way, that's the way my dad was,
that's the way that I learned to gain.
I would exchange in a way
and be nice in exchange for validation and approval.
And then I realized, what the hell am I doing?
That was the shock collar keeping me safe
even though it didn't feel authentic.
Once I dropped that, everything changed by the way,
once I took off the shock collar
and started being authentic,
totally different energy about me.
And maybe you could feel it
in my recent videos compared to my older videos.
It's just a different energy, I feel more grounded now.
I feel more authentic now,
I'm leading in my life in a way I never have before really,
I'm building an app right now,
I'm building a bigger team right now.
I'm doing all these things I didn't do before
because I was so freaking safe
just making YouTube videos on YouTube,
just making a couple of videos a week,
just doing the whole thing I'd been doing for two years,
now I'm starting to branch out, do live events,
stepping into the unknown.
And the only reason I didn't do it until now
is cause I was wearing a shock collar
that was shocking me back into the known.
Thinking the same thoughts, feeling the same emotions
and doing the same things over and over again.
So I want my message for you today is this,
when you take off the shock collar and you become aware
that it's just your ego trying to keep you safe
and you start to step into the unknown,
magic will begin to happen, magic.
And you may feel and not be sure of where it's going,
but guess what?
If you're in the know you're only going to create more
of what you've already had,
you have to step into the unknown to create magic.
Know that those doubts coming up
those fears coming up, it's natural.
You're getting towards the perimeter
and in the past you've been shocked.
You're not going to get shocked now
'cause you're going to take off the shock collar
and you're gonna trust,
that outside your perimeter of your house there's magic.
Your soulmate is waiting at the perimeter of the house,
your dream life, your dream job is over there,
but you're still safe over here.
Take the leap, take the jump.
I promise that it will be worth it
and that in the unknown is where all the...
Anything in my life that I've been afraid to do and I do it,
knowing that it's something that's connected to my heart,
something I'm meant to be doing.
It's been life transforming
but it's just having to become aware of it
is the first step,
becoming aware that you're wearing a shock collar,
that your ego is just trying to keep you safe.
And then the second step is jumping into the unknown.
So in what way will you jump into the unknown today?
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let us know what you will do that's new,
how your shock collar has been keeping you where you are.
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I'll be doing more metaphor videos like this,
more videos in general.
And I'm excited to be sharing more of these ideas with you.
So with that being said as always,
take that shock collar off.
I'll see you guys in the next video,
peace, much love and namaste.