Hey Dan here and if you are an ENFP you've got to see this video because the
concept of peer group will make a massive difference in your life. If
you're new to the channel, my name is Dan and here at Dreams Around The World our
mission is to help you become the best version of yourself
while creating the most awesome life possible for you and those you love. Ya
catchphrase - awesome! Seriously peer group is so important for us infps
because we are like social chameleons I mentioned this in another video but I
wanted to film a whole video on this because it's so so important we adjust
to the people we're around and it's part of our charm right it's kind of a the
reason we get along with so many people I don't know about you but for me like
as a child if I met my parents friends none of them ever said like that kid was
a little asshole right it was usually that we were likable as kids because we
understand people we know what they want to hear we kind of change a little bit
and generally that is good but it does mean that we adjust so if you take an
ENFP and you put them in a prison they're probably going to become
criminals quicker than most other people would but anyhow so thinking about your
peer group think about who you're spending the most time with there's an
old personal development study or saying and they say that your income is the
average of the five people you spend the most time with maybe that's true maybe
it's not but it's a good lesson there is generally those where round are gonna
have a big influence on us and if you spend time with people that perhaps are
not doing so well they have a lot of drama they're always in some kind of
fight or argument they're just generally not happy with their lives
that's gonna pull you down it's gonna pull you down for a bunch of reasons
number one is that will become your normal number two is you're going to
hold back on sharing your successes think about it if you have this big
dream and you're like okay I want to start my own business and do something I
love make six figures and travel the world and you share that with your
friend who's like working at the convenience store and hates their life
and it's in a terrible relationship there
tell you to go piss off that'll never happened more than likely though as an
ENFP you're gonna know that and so you're not even gonna tell them you're
gonna be embarrassed about that dream you have and just not do it so you want
to find people who are doing the things that you think is awesome one of the
cool things about these events I've been hosting this year is that people come to
the event and they're like I don't know anyone else in my life who dreams like
this and that's everyone at the event including our special guests and so I
never really thought about this as part of the benefits of going to the events
until talking to people afterwards it's like yeah I'm now in a room with a dozen
people who all are dreaming like I am and have similar visions for life and I
don't feel like such a weirdo so that's really important is go out of your way
to find people who have a similar view on life as you do in terms of what they
want from it and those are just people who are actually like going for it
pushing the boundaries and actually trying to do something really cool
because if you want to do something really cool if you want to push the
boundaries you're going to need people around you same thing happens like a
really good example is fitness right if you're spending time with people who are
really unhealthy both in terms of what they eat and what they do with their
bodies and you want to be really healthy it's gonna be hard because when you go
out they're gonna eat like seven pizzas each I don't know I just make it a joke
but you're gonna be on this gonna be tough I have this friend here in Prague
and he is like mr. muscles a super smart super cool guy as well but he just
really takes care of himself and he has never once commented on my nutrition
which is actually really healthy now but for a while it wasn't he never once
commented on my nutrition or my fitness or anything like that if I asked him
advice he would give it there'd be the zero judgement yet whenever I was out
with him I always felt like maybe I'll order something a bit healthier today
like it would adjust my behavior just because kind of compared to him I was
like this guy is super disciplined and healthy and it makes me want to do more
and be healthier and more disciplined and maybe maybe because of a fear of
judgement but that's okay if you get some positive results out of it right so
think about your life goals what it is you're actually trying to accomplish and
give that some time right if you haven't already but my hunch is you already have
a sense of how you want to be in your relationships in your physical and
mental health in your freedom perhaps you want to be traveling seeing the
world a little bit more and in terms of how you earn an income like do you want
to have your own business do you have your own business what is it you really
want to be doing and then think about the people you're spending time with and
let me know in the comments below if the peer group you have now the people you
spend most of your time with and these could be work colleagues because most
people spend a lot of time at work do those people add to your life are they
people living the kind of life you want are they pulling you towards your goals
or are they not let me know in the comments I'm really curious I hope this
video is helpful it might be a bit of a negative reality check where you think
uh-huh dot oh you know spend some less time
with friends and and that may be a reality and if you want let me know
below in the comments but if you want me to do another video on that you know
dealing with friends who or maybe at a different place in life then you said
gently I can make a video on that so you might have to make some hard decisions
but I promise you making these decisions will allow you to reach your goals and
will be one of the best things you ever do thank you for watching if you have
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