I've always been the type of lady to go after what I want.
Hey boy, you want, you want... I got you a present. You're a good looking boy, you want to come home with me?
Can I be your mom?
Look.. I.. if I were your mom I'd shower you with gifts. Come on!
Hey! Hey, come here.
I was talking to a friend the other day.
Who told me,
Friend: I've been trying to send him signals, but I just don't think he's picking up on them.
Anna: Why don't you just ask him out?
[Laughter]
Good one.
Oh, you're serious...
Oh...
No, no I can't do that.
Why?
Well, I mean...
Now I've always aggressively chased the boys that I've liked.
When I was a kid I would make it abundantly clear if I liked-liked you.
As an adult, my habits haven't really changed.
That's a cute picture of me, huh?
(It was when) I was a kid, yeah
Good looker
But I've been surprised to find
that a lot of my female friends are very reluctant to ask guys out.
When I ask them about it, they have all kinds of excuses.
I don't know.
Guys love the chase.
I'm not aggro like you, Anna.
I don't think I could handle that kind of rejection.
So ladies, I have three very good reasons why you should ask the next guy out.
One.
What's the worst that could happen?
He says no.
So what?
Rejection's not the end of the world,
and that kind of pressure is something that guys face
every single time they want to ask a woman out.
Two.
Time.
I don't about you, but when I'm crushing on someone, I waste so much time
fantasizing about what their butt looks like.
Just ask them out.
Get some answers.
Get that butt.
Three.
Missed Opportunities.
Look. Putting yourself out there
and putting your feelings out there
is very vulnerable and scary;
it's a hard thing to do.
But some guys are maybe too shy to ever do that,
so imagine all of the missed loves that you never had
because you were both too afraid to approach each other.
Plus, think about how much easier this would make the whole dating process.
If you aren't asking people out, you're basicly sitting around,
waiting for someone to come find you
You want to know how Brad and I started dating?
I asked him out;
I hit him up on Facebook,
and I said hey I think you're cute,
and I'd like to take you out to dinner,
and we ended up chatting about his childhood ferrets till 4 a.m.
But, I've also been rejected a lot throughout the years by guys
who either didn't like how aggressive I was, or didn't like me as person,
or didn't find me attractive, or I don't know.
They don't always tell me.
So, who knows? Go out there lady friends.
I implore you!
And the next time you see a cutie,
hit him up.
I'd like to ask you out
Um, with this. Here.
That's a present for you.
'Cause I think you're real cute,
and I wanna show you that I, that I like you, and I want to cuddle.
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