Hi, welcome! I’m Nadine Piat, I'm a coach for smart, savvy women looking for sexy, united love.
And in today's video, I'm going to be sharing with you how to give a man space so that he misses you.
Let's face it, we all love to feel missed, adored and cherished. And when we're not feeling
so loved, or prioritized, or important with our man a lot of women tend to then become more
possessive in some ways, more present, more eager to see him, and contend to sometimes smother and
cry to man and not want to forego spending time with him because they feel that they won't get the
attention and affection they need to feel safe and secure in their relationship. And because of this,
there are plenty of women who don't give the man they want, the space that they need to feel like
they want to reach out to you more, to be with you more, to miss you and to yearn for you.
But the thing is, you might also be in a really beautiful relationship,
where both of you just love spending time with each other. You both probably neglect your family
and friends a little bit. And even though you love spending time together, even though you're
always joined at the hip and it doesn't feel like too much. There's a part of you that deep down
knows that you're neglecting certain aspects of your life. You may be neglecting your friendships,
your family, personal hobbies and interests. And because of this, there's a niggling feeling
in your relationship that you're not actually fully engaged in your own life. You may even
have a little bit of resentment building and maybe he does, too. Because deep down
might feel the same, he's not honoring himself, he feels a bit smothered. And so therefore
maybe the relationship is getting a bit boring, it's a bit too predictable,
and the spark is starting to go. And so it can be a few different situations here that can create
that need for space so that someone misses you, so that you can reconnect and build a deeper stronger
bond. So how do you create this sense of space and freedom to get that guy to miss you? How do
you do that when you do love spending time with him and you're so scared that if you don't spend
time together that he may not be as interested, he may not fight for you or want to spend as much
time with you in the future. You may be worried that you'll just lose interest altogether.
Well first of all, let’s spin this topic on his head. And now I want to ask you,
do you miss yourself? Are you missing who you are? Because when you're so focused on a relationship,
when you're giving your entire self to it and you're neglecting yourself
there's a part of you that that misses you, that misses your authentic, empowered, fun,
playful self that goes out and does different things, that is engage in her life in multiple
different levels in different ways, from exercise to arts and crafts, to
studying something new, to seeing friends that I mentioned before, whatever it is
we know when we're missing the core of who we are, we know when we're disengaged from that.
So what I want you to know is that when we aren’t honoring ourselves in that way, the relationship
falls apart. So I’ll say that again, a relationship needs space to thrive.
And the next point which is even more important is you need space to thrive. You need to work on you,
engage with yourself, honor yourself, invest in yourself to thrive. Because you can't thrive in a
relationship when you’re personally not thriving. So rather than you giving a man space, actually
once again turn it around and think about what you need. Because when you focus on what you really
need and you focus on giving that to yourself then you’re actually giving back to the relationship
in ways you could never imagine, that's just a by-product of you honoring you. Now of course,
if you're in a relationship with someone who isn't spending a lot of time with you, who is always
busy, who is making excuses while they can't see you. And even when you do see them you
don't feel honored or prioritized, or particularly loved and appreciated then that’s another topic.
This is not a place for you to then give them more space necessarily. You may need to A) ask yourself
do I give this person enough space, first of all. And if you do then the question is, Is this person
able to love you the way you want? And once again that’s a different video. But for this video,
I just want you to have the courage and the confidence to allow space in the relationship for
yourself and then for the relationship to thrive. To support you with this, I have a free gift
called 5 Easy Ways to Get a Man to Commit and Stay Committed. And there are very specific
points in that gift that are going to help you to really know exactly how to bond with your man,
how to create that space in a way that allows the relationship to thrive like you want it to.
Also my program, Never Lose Him, has this method called the LIPS method that is so powerful.
The LIPS method really represents the Yin and Yang of desire and attraction,
the balance between giving and receiving to your partner, giving and receiving to yourself.
And this dance, this way of living and way of showing up with a man is absolutely gold. So
please check out Never Lose Him, the link is right below in the description, it's a game changer.
It's been an absolute honor to have you here with me. I hope this video has supported you to really
understand why it's so important to allow space in a relationship. Please comment below, I'd love to
hear about your experience with this topic. Also please share it with a friend who you know tends
to really hold on tight when it comes to men and not allow that space to actually be there
to create an actual bond with a man. Please find me at Instagram @nadinepiat. So everyday express
a little bit more love towards yourself, towards others, friends, family, your partner whoever that may be.
Express your vulnerability a little bit more everyday in some way so that you can build
connections and bond. Once again, it's been an honor and I'll see you again at my next hot topic.